Nicely written.👍🏼⭐️ What we are today is the result of the decisions that we took yesterday. There is nothing called as a perfect marriage /perfect husband or perfect wife. Anyone who says their marriage is perfect and they never fight or have disagreements then one of them is scared of the other or is living a life of lie.Originally posted by: RitikaS99
It's difficult to understand a character when you are watching it as an audience but never have to walk in their shoes for even a single day.
It's easier said then done to trust everyone when all you have heard are lies your entire life, especially when the lies are coming from your own family.
Here the point is not only that Priya is not trusting ram( which she never said) she is sceptic of the situation like a practical person and wants to give a chance to ram to explain but his friends and her own sister is raste ka kanta for both Raya.
If Ram has right to feel sorry for himself in a situation why doesn't the same courtesy is extended to Priya. Just bcz she is a female she is suppose to suffer in silence and let the world do whatever they want and let her treat however they want.
The problem at the hand is that priya thinks that Ram is still in relationship with vedika and has been lieing to Priya which should have been the priority for everyone to clear but what they did? They got her inebriated on bhaag! As decent humans and being female themselves brinda and sara should have been more sensitive towards this, they are married themselves but what advice they give to ram? To let it be and take him to Holi party.
Many of the reasons why Ram and priya have so many MUs are these extra characters who are doing nothing but being a hurdle themselves in the story.
Just bc priya is not your every day mahan wife who lets the husband do whatever he wants and demands accountability from people around her, she gets trashed!!
Since she got married all she had faced is one humiliation after another and if this gets out that Ram was two timing her who will face the most burn from the society? Priya!! Why? Bcz all her life she has seen women getting blamed for the mistakes made by men. Society doesn't blame man and it's a fact!
All priya's life she has heard her father telling her that her mother was unable to keep a man happy that's why he left and he has told priya that she will be unable to keep her man happy too that's why her bf left and ram will too one day. And yesterday all those statements came true in front of her eyes. She has every right to doubt Ram, question him, blame him.
And as a husband ram should have gone to Priya to talk with her instead of standing there and listening to non sense advice.
And jaha tak bat hai MS ki to Priya tried getting him arrested and the only reason she kept quiet was lack of proofs and ram has always demanded proofs from her until recently! Whereas if Ram had only once told priya that there is nothing between him and vedika priya would have believed him without proofs and herself would have disregarded those texts trusting ram.
That's the difference between both of them. Priya never needed proofs from ram to believe him until now but ram always needed proofs to believe priya until now..
So priya's backtracking is a result of Ram's own actions.
We all have learnt this in school" every action has equal and opposite reaction".
Ram's action is the reason all this is happening, so ram is also to be blamed for this.
There will be disagreements and thats fine. Its from these disagreements that a couple is able to take a logical decision for their life. Priya and Ram are just normal people having their own set of fears and insecurities. Instead of trusting each other they are relying on their friends /relatives etc to know how to react to their own spouse. This is literally spoiling the peace of their relationship. Slowly they will learn but will always come at a cost of some pain and tears.
In a marriage , moral values are same for both parties. Ram cant stand Neeraj. He wanted Priya and her family to tell him abt her past and that too when she had clearly established that her father or her ex doesnt matter for her at all. But when it came to Vedika , it was not his past till he fell in love with Priya. Even when he was married to Priya he did have feelings for Vedika. Priya married Ram because she had no feelings for Neeraj where as that is not with Ram. With such ek tarafa Pyar he should have said no to Priya but he went ahead . That itself is cheating. We can argue that he did tell there is no place for love etc but it was put in such a way that it is his past. And then the greatest mistake is when Vedika came at home to stay he should have told her. He again avoided. Fear or whatever the reason may be. People will give suggestions but the decision of not telling her was his. He decided not to tell her. So , now he has to pay the price for it. No woman will be able to accept it , especially after seeing the way Ram was behaving with Vedika.
I am waiting to see how she reacts. I really dont want her to be that woman who wants to get her husband married to his ex. Dont want any more Mahan wife picturization . Gone are the days where a woman is considered as a symbol of sacrifice. Every woman is just as human as every man. She has the right to existence and happiness as a man. That has be respected at all cost.
