Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I do agree marriage is about two people but these two are living in a joint family. Thats when it becomes challenging. I have heard people saying when you marry someone , you are not marrying an individual rather you are getting married to him/her and everything/everyone related to him/her.Originally posted by: bprajapati
Hi I agree with you but some time I wish ram will relise himself. Isn't marriage about two people then why does a third person need to saw you mirror.
Initial phase of marriage is not that easy as shown in most romantic books and movies. Yes there is a new feeling but along with that we also need to get ready to learn the art of balancing. Sometimes it becomes so difficult and if you have a friend then it becomes a lot easier. This person will not only show you mirror but also will help you to self introspect.
Just like how we encourage and give lil support to kids who just learnt to stand up on their feet. Everyone needs that encouragement. It is not always necessary that you have to get it from your spouse.