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paaji54

@paaji54

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi all Ram Fans and Positive Thinkerzz..!

I was going through certain tweets on twitter and IF where I read that Ram only loves priya..!

I agree to it...I always criticize him but this fact is true that he only and only loves priya..! 100 % correct.

Now Some people also say that he is not at fault !

This is not true and he is...Below is the explanation..!

For ram the return of priya is the biggest thing..That's fine !But what after that?everything just can't be okay with the return itslef..he has to make some efforts to help her settle in the house by changing even his way of leading life for the last 7 years..! But he is reluctant to do this..!

He is expecting too much from priya by assuming that she will herself understand his and family's equation with juhi..! How and why would she?

Priya is back from a comatose state of 7 years and she needs to be handled with a lot of care,love and understanding rather than expecting her to understand everything very fast..! Who else other than Ram can do it? No one...! He has to do it by making adjustments himself too if priya has to readjust in the family especially when all the places that priya used to acquire in KM except Ram's heart have been more or less acquired by juhi..!

I am not saying,he should throw juhi out straightaway but he has to make juhi also realise that priya is back and juhi just cannot barge in on ram everytime when priya is not liking it..! That would be a good RAYA saga where we can see ram supporting priya at every point..something like the chemistry of amitabh and hema-malini in Baghban..!

First of all he committed a mistake by divorcing priya and agreeing to marry juhi..I know he did it for naina,,but divorcing your own ill,unconscious wife for philanthrophy?How ethical is it?

That was a bit too much..Priya is not an item in balance sheet or income statement that can be manipulated for corporate social responsibilty..She is a human and these are human relations..I know their love doesn't need recognition on paper but its priya's right which should be regranted by ram to priya without even priya asking for it...!He should have been guilty about his move..but he is not ! Instead he is expecting priya to understand the reasons herself..! That care and love seems to have vanished since the day priya recovered from amnesia..He cannot be so careless..!

In short he is wrong in taking priya for granted..!

he is damn wrong !

This will lead to RAYA separation and a borring reunion till 7 months..bcoz its ekta and BT !

Eternal romance and RAYA hug won't be seen from today itself...!

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dilini2

@dilini2

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Posted: 11 years ago

for the fist time i agree with you 100%

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shavii

@shavii

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Posted: 11 years ago

i also agree with u 100 person he keep taking priya for granted he shd make priya more comfortable instead of shouting and supporting that dash person😡

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amudhamanian

@amudhamanian

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

Priya has come to life after 7 long years and is totally blank on what happened during those years. so it is the basic human courtesy of every family members to see that she is not out of place especially Ram. it doesnot mean that they have to do all goody goody things but they can help her to be comfortable in her space.

Falling in love with your friends husband and showing more concern for him infront of priya itself is not a appreciable act so do we need a special track to show her negative. You can't expect priya to accept the reality going around her in just one go. It's not so easy to accept your place being filled by some one (eventhough they might have done good things)and it takes time for priya to accept the reality. juhi being a matured adult should have understood priya's feelings and could have restricted her behaviour towards Ram till priya gets settled down and is comfortable with her sorroundings. Whether its Ram and priya in their bedroom or the kids and priya juhi is shown as poking her nose everywhere and gone to the extent of politely warning priya if pihu's truth is revealed she will be losing ram and pihu is way too much. any relationship will bound to be strong only when you keep within your limits.

Ram has lost 7 years of his life with priya so he knows the value of time. Anybody for that matter wil try to spend as much as time with their spouse to compensate the lost years. but as soon as priya regained her memory his concern for her has slowly decreased. He could have been shown somewhat matured in his way of handling his wife. Though he may be pure at his heart , but what is the need of dominating tone and harsh words While answering his equations with juhi. priya trusted him with the divorce matter and naina's adoption so if he explains it in a soothing way priya would have not felt the pain. we can see the pain in her eyes when ram was explaining. during the dinner at vikram's house he could have helped priya to be comfortable around . Ram need not be romantic all the time and dance to priya's tune but by his small small acts he can assure priya that he is always by her side. Sometimes he shows more concern for her and sometimes he ignores her his act being visible to priya. priya is in a fragile state now trying to cope up with the sudden changes in her life so it will be treat to watch if Ram helps her to feel secured.

It's only a drama fiction and I do agree that if the CV's are going to show only RAYA's romance even the diehard fan of RAYA (Like me) will get bored but they can show some tolerable scenes to keep the story interesting.

All the above is my POV about the show and not to hurt anybody.

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shavii

@shavii

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: amudhamanian
Priya has come to life after 7 long years and is totally blank on what happened during those years. so it is the basic human courtesy of every family members to see that she is not out of place especially Ram. it doesnot mean that they have to do all goody goody things but they can help her to be comfortable in her space.

Falling in love with your friends husband and showing more concern for him infront of priya itself is not a appreciable act so do we need a special track to show her negative. You can't expect priya to accept the reality going around her in just one go. It's not so easy to accept your place being filled by some one (eventhough they might have done good things)and it takes time for priya to accept the reality. juhi being a matured adult should have understood priya's feelings and could have restricted her behaviour towards Ram till priya gets settled down and is comfortable with her sorroundings. Whether its Ram and priya in their bedroom or the kids and priya juhi is shown as poking her nose everywhere and gone to the extent of politely warning priya if pihu's truth is revealed she will be losing ram and pihu is way too much. any relationship will bound to be strong only when you keep within your limits.

Ram has lost 7 years of his life with priya so he knows the value of time. Anybody for that matter wil try to spend as much as time with their spouse to compensate the lost years. but as soon as priya regained her memory his concern for her has slowly decreased. He could have been shown somewhat matured in his way of handling his wife. Though he may be pure at his heart , but what is the need of dominating tone and harsh words While answering his equations with juhi. priya trusted him with the divorce matter and naina's adoption so if he explains it in a soothing way priya would have not felt the pain. we can see the pain in her eyes when ram was explaining. during the dinner at vikram's house he could have helped priya to be comfortable around . Ram need not be romantic all the time and dance to priya's tune but by his small small acts he can assure priya that he is always by her side. Sometimes he shows more concern for her and sometimes he ignores her his act being visible to priya. priya is in a fragile state now trying to cope up with the sudden changes in her life so it will be treat to watch if Ram helps her to feel secured.

It's only a drama fiction and I do agree that if the CV's are going to show only RAYA's romance even the diehard fan of RAYA (Like me) will get bored but they can show some tolerable scenes to keep the story interesting.

All the above is my POV about the show and not to hurt anybody.

i wanted to post ur words here but u did thank dear

well said ram shd rem he need to take care of priya doctor told not to give stress but ram is giving torture and tension causing her stress

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simlavidhi

@simlavidhi

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Separation of raya don't know...But your points r bang on.
Ram need to help priya to adjust with the family... N he should b more careful at every step as he knows very well for whom he divorce priya... N priya she have shown her belief in ram decision but she is hurt... It's only Ram who can make her comfortable in the house with his special care n love...
N priya has already told him we need to get married again twice but still no any move to correct the blunder from ram... Instead he was explaining juhi equation to priya with a rude attitude n harsh tone.
Let's just wait n watch... For a high voltage drama.

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shavii

@shavii

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: simlavidhi
Separation of raya don't know...But your points r bang on.
Ram need to help priya to adjust with the family... N he should b more careful at every step as he knows very well for whom he divorce priya... N priya she have shown her belief in ram decision but she is hurt... It's only Ram who can make her comfortable in the house with his special care n love...
N priya has already told him we need to get married again twice but still no any move to correct the blunder from ram... Instead he was explaining juhi equation to priya with a rude attitude n harsh tone.
Let's just wait n watch... For a high voltage drama.

ram always harsh with priya and love other

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amudhamanian

@amudhamanian

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

Thanks shavii dear for going my way and accepting my POV

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shavii

@shavii

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: amudhamanian
Thanks shavii dear for going my way and accepting my POV

i felt which u said.. so it is easy to accept ram is ignoring priya as if she doesn't exist for him

i rem in pv where all were so concern ovr archana when she was only for coma for few month but still so protective but here totally opposite all are busy with juhi and her kids ignoring the fact of priya has just return and need more attention