ram or priya: who is right?

The big debate going on in forum is whether Ram is right or Priya is right. So I thought to express my views to:

1)When it was revealed that kartik has cheated on Nuts every one blamed him, cursed him that was absolutely right, but Ram again said he had married priya for nuts happiness but but he did apologized priya and priya too said that she know he has said so in anger n she understands him n trusts him completely. Yahan tak bhi sab theek tha

2) nuts was hurt but still everyone assured her including priya that they are on her side n kartik will pay for his mistakes but she went to commit suicide and Ayesha saved her. Ayesha filled nuts ears and nuts who doesn't believed Ayesha until now found a friend in her and followed her advice. She trusted Ayesha over priya wo Ayesha jise kal tak wo sahi aur galat ka lecture deti thi. (first mistake)

3)kartik ran away to Singapore in the name of sorting out the situation leaving the small child behind(another mistake)

4)nuts sending sharma's to jail so that kartik comes out of his hiding for his parents.

Ram supported this and said to priya k if they'll not do so kartik will not come back, so she again trusted him and let him do what he wanted.(if I would hv been at priya's place I would have gone against ram and bailed out my parents like she did for bailing out kartik before, I cant let my parents suffer for my bro mistakes) but she did that also just to sort out everything(claps for her). nuts n ram were right upto this cos kartik wouldn't hvcome back if it was not for his parents and child.

(agar priya ki jagah par ram hote toh kya he would hv behave in same way…… I guess no cos in our society every tym girl is expected to compromise)

Priya scolded, pressurized, warned did evry possible thing and convinced kartik to come back to india and accept his mistake.

When nuts told ram not to expose their plans in front of priya he agreed(mistake). He knows priya well he would hv explain her every thing that he is planning to get kartik arrested cos she too wanted the same so definitely she would hv helped him. I agree nuts is not her senses but atleast ram is in his full senses.

She did informed Ram that kartik is coming back. At every point she was with him toh ab kaise alag ho jati

Kartik called priya n asked her to bring baby to Sharma house. If she would hv known Ram is sending police behind kartik she would have taken police along with her n would hv get kartik arrested.

She didn't knew about this so she went to Sharma house just to convince kartik to surrender himself cos some where she knew kartik would never disobey her.

Then police shooting kartik like he is a terrorist. Then at hospital, wen priya priya asked ram y he didn't inform k he is sending police, she was not blaming him but she was hurt.

What one could make out the reason of ram not sharing it wid priya"he didn't trusts her". Even though he don't have that intentions but kisi ke bhi mann mai pehli baat yahi aayegi na.

One more thing everyone is saying is priya kapoor is dead just because she asked ram y didn't ram informed her about sending police behind kartik. Common cos of that police her brother is battling wid his lyf. She was not blaming him she was just asking him.

Finally after making this pst, I would request every forum member not to blame ram or priya, they both are right in their way but the situation is completely complex. Ram n priya are just characters and they don't exixt in reality and the biggest point is: its just a tv show meant for entertaining so keep brain aside and watch it as a mere show. Don't get too involved in that. 😊

And a kind request stop bashing cos no person in life is perfect or there is no person who cant commit mistake. 😊

Originally posted by: jineejiggs

I absolutely agree with u dear, but somewhere I found if Ram behaved rationally then situations wouldn't be so complex, the thing is that he can't look beyond his family and here family means his bro and sis, am not saying he don't trust Priya it is just he loves his "family" more, he becomes stiff and paralyzed in front if his family and stop thinking and using his brains, he is not but made scapegoat all time, its not his fault but indirectly his, am not blaming him but he could have make situation better.

Originally posted by: peeyara

if he would hv just spoken once about his police wala plan to priya, the situation would hv been much better

I am not blaming anyone but Ram has one problem. When it comes to his family he can't see anyone beyond them. He got so "into" Nuts that he couldn't se anything beyond her. He didn't even trust his wife at that point and did what he wanted.

Originally posted by: peeyara

Kartik called priya n asked her to bring baby to Sharma house. If she would hv known Ram is sending police behind kartik she would have taken police along with her n would hv get kartik arrested.

She didn't knew about this so she went to Sharma house just to convince kartik to surrender himself cos some where she knew kartik would never disobey her.

Then police shooting kartik like he is a terrorist. Then at hospital, wen priya priya asked ram y he didn't inform k he is sending police, she was not blaming him but she was hurt.

The problem starts here. It doesn't matter whether Priya knew about the police or not. Knowing fully well that Karthik came only after knowing his kid would be put up for adoption, beats me why she took the kid along to hand over to him. He had already showed his true colors when he refused to come down even after knowing his own parents were in jail. So why would she take the kid along when it is common sense that he can run away again with the kid.

Please don't blame priya.anything happens everybody starts blaming priya.muje lagta hai kyun ram Natasha ki favour le raha hai,ram k dad amaranth ka bhi doosari aurat se shadi ki thi tab Krishna kapoor ne to police nahin bulayi thi,aur ab unke bacho ko apna samaj rahi hain.so Natasha don't have any right to blame like this to kartik,though kartik is wrong.and every time ram tells that he married priya because of her sister,how can any one tells like this.nahin bolna chahiye a priya ko hamesha prove kyuon karna padta hai ki who nuts k sath hai.RAm ne kabhie bhi prya ki bat nahin mani..priya ne jail bhi gayi ram k liye phir bhi ram ko akkal nahi ayi.ram kab apni family support karega.i think priya is right so don't blame her and don't use bad words to her.

Originally posted by: jmehta1957

Please don't blame priya.anything happens everybody starts blaming priya.muje lagta hai kyun ram Natasha ki favour le raha hai,ram k dad amaranth ka bhi doosari aurat se shadi ki thi tab Krishna kapoor ne to police nahin bulayi thi,aur ab unke bacho ko apna samaj rahi hain.so Natasha don't have any right to blame like this to kartik,though kartik is wrong.and every time ram tells that he married priya because of her sister,how can any one tells like this.nahin bolna chahiye a priya ko hamesha prove kyuon karna padta hai ki who nuts k sath hai.RAm ne kabhie bhi prya ki bat nahin mani..priya ne jail bhi gayi ram k liye phir bhi ram ko akkal nahi ayi.ram kab apni family support karega.i think priya is right so don't blame her and don't use bad words to her.