What a brilliant portrayal of silent hurt- Ram !! - Page 2

Originally posted by: mano86

the points u raised r valid !

Originally posted by: leo4ever

angie thankyou for being the voice of reason!!

u knw court case was bahan for his hurt to come out he wanted to fight it out with riya now he is caught - btwnn a hubby n a dad!! 😳- priya @ dis is a mum only,

he is perhaps the lonliest person none of his family gets his pain😡 hell the mum who missed her own kids growing up dsnt identify rather taunts him! and gets the mum who ran away better, but she even forgave priya for lying of death for keepig pihu away but cant get rams pain of missing any moments of his kid??😡

he ddnt snatch pihu!! the guilty wife gave him after he saved her life, as a mean to protect the kid but in her bashan the trick was the last part- coz pihu is rams life too n she wanted him not to lose it again, will accept it as remorse of five years but he ddnt force her, made her do this. had he lost the case i guess his family would have thrown a party for priya

i dnt understand the focus of parents gender, a five year old kid who has lived in another country with a parent is now admsdt new family without that parent in new surrounding it will affect the kis, whether tat parent she grw up with was dad or mum the reaction would be the same!!

unfrtunately here it is been potrayed as maa ki mamta only, yes both are very attached but does that mean ram dsnt deserve the chance to actually ever get close to her?

priya dsnt want tor ruin ayesha life, she wnt come in km, she hasnt shown interst in ram so how can ram evn ask her considern she walked out only? so the solution at this moment is only shared parenting, if he does give her back what will he gain?

pihu will still consider his home as others home

his family as his rishtedars not hers

she will be more comfrotable with sharmas n priya simply coz 24 7 saath hoti hai!!

today i feel ram exprssed his emotions amazingly

disheartened n demotivated by total lack of emphaty of family painted bad guy by mum dadi sis - all who are imp to him has kid but misses kuch aur-that is worryin him distracting him hence absentminded n left with ayesha he shares with mum in hope of some comfort gets shot down guilt of priyas pain- he is feelnig remorse even though it is still not his decsion vents out his only person who he can talk to she gets it sothes him he goes sees the pain of daughter feels sad seees the pics (PRIAY) missses her more sees her out overwhlemed with care for her but torn to express- nt coz of ego my dear coz they still carry emotional baggage he cant exer physical right on her
• she leaves and he surrenders to her pain - that is how pwerful is his love, feels her pain!!

i lov ur post angie👏👏⭐️

Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine

Lovely!!! It was a treat to read the analysis of our Golu.

I think, maybe, just maybe, he wanted the court fight almost as much as he wanted Pihu's custody. He wanted to be able to best Priya, to beat her, to just ... win one over her, possibly in the case of his daughter where she's won one over him for 5 years.

I dunno, just a hunch, could be wrong.

And with the chance taken away from him, he's ... speechless. Something IS missing, he just doesn't know what. But he's our Golu, he'll figure it out soon enough.

He's getting whammy after whammy - the selfless act at the court, the lack of the fight he had been gearing for, the victory w/o a battle, the realization that Pihu may not be comfortable, and now Priya's another selfless act ... poor guy. Poor Priya. Poor Pihu.

Wanted to give him, and Priya a hug today.

And of course Pihu too - she needed it more than anyone. From both her parents :)

Originally posted by: mahumita_mitra

Angie,you always special to me,you know how much we love our hero!!

but to day i dont not why i feel so bad to Ram as a father. I dont feel bad to Ram as a husband,there are some differences of opinions between husband and wife.

I know, priya was not right as a wife,but she is always right as a mother.

today Ram hurt my mother,s feeling,I dislike him not as husband but as a good father and a emotional lover as we expect from Ram,s character

Originally posted by: snehalparab

if it was any other actor sakshis performance would have blown him away and i mean it she was sooo good at it but being RAM KAPOOR the caliber he dwells with him is unmatchable and he stood there acting with every inch muscle of his face really felt the pain of priya on rams face it was perfect receprocation of emotion and he has merely 10 lines or two three more in this four days but the way he managed to make us feel hi presense was just mindblowing...love you ram kapoor

Originally posted by: Peacefull

<font size="2"><font color="#0000ff">Lovely post . However I was <font color="#333333">a</font></font><font color="#0000ff">little surprised when you started your post with the "Maa ki Mamta" remark.<font size="2"></font></font><font size="2" color="#0000ff">Is there a need to put one character down to glorify the other ? Ram was brilliant no doubt about it but to put down Sakshi's talent saying she was having pages to say doesn't work for me.Its unfair to a brilliant actress like Sakshi.</font></font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#0000ff">I enjoy watching both on screen..and truly believe they are mind blowing and are on par with each other.They complement each other beautifully and that's what works for BALH. That's the beauty of BALH.</font><font color="#0000ff" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">I refuse to bad mouth one for the sake of the other. I adore both Ram and Sakshi. And am Raya fan.</font>

<font color="#0000ff" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">No offense meant to anyone.</font>

I know we have interacted before but I think there is a huge miscommunication! That was for the cvs! Not Sakshi! With due respect for the actress, she is brilliant and definitely doesn't need the pages of dialogues! She has expressions that can convey the message with just a look. So lets not go there! I didn't see anybody else interpreting that way so making it clear for you !

The cvs when asked about why there is so much focus on trying to portray they came up with its only mothers feelings expression! Which to me is an over pushing with the Nanhi Pari and Rajat's character!
I think everybody knows in these cases it's not the actors but the director cum cvs and writers who writer the scenes Are responsible!

Today was not a take. There is a brilliant take on the episode by lilmzsunshine.
It was for the criticism that has been going around for Ram and hence my perspective on it!

I would request you to not divert it into a comparison of actors!

Rashi complement each other and their realistic portrayal is why Iam watching the show! I surely have my fan card for Ram doesn't mean that it is disrespecting another actor

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Angie,

Havent seen the epi. This thought just came. Who knows how much a kid suffers due to separation from mom in this show other than Ram himself. He feeling remorse for Peehu and missing Priya is natural.

Will add more once I see the epi.

Here I go.

ST rocked.She is the encyclopedia of crying. Brings out the tiniest nuances. She was simply great today. Priya really brought out the mother's love very well. Superb. Her anxiety, her intuition were bang on. Her breaking down in front of her man knowing their daughter slept in their haven was superb. Within a minute, she was a puddle. Very natural and heart-wrenching. But, what made me more emotional was her story to Happy and Tiger. She couldnt cry but her pain came out. Could feel her lonliness. Poignant.

And Ram. Who knows better about separating from a mother. Right from the moment he got Peehu, it was remorse. That is remorse for you. Because, for him it was Peehu and Priya both of their feelings that mattered. The way he comforted Peehu, the way he smiled seeing Priya's picture was super. And he confessed to Priya without the feeling of being wronged about Peehu not being in her room. That said it all. That love and remorse made him confide. And his helplessness in trying to console PRiya was too good. The way he put his hands over his forehead when he couldn't see her crying. That was it. I liked it so much.

He might not have been given many words, but he doesn't need them. He is a man of action. His expressions were enough.

Shanti

We are on the same page again. There's a brilliant post by lilmzsunshine on the episode.
So didnt make it for both characters.

But today Raya scene was classic!! Brilliantly emoted and it pained to see the mother suffering! But like u I saw that remorse from Ram which touched me too.. Just so subtle but heart wrenching!

Angie, Thanks for the clarification..Appreciate it.