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Originally posted by: luvsakshi

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Well...Well Dear gorgeous BALHians ..I hope i reached your expectations this time..Plz dont thrw brick bats on me ...(not throwing brick bats we should talk about these topics but if we talk about topics like this it is important to do it justice because this is the reality of many people's lives. Like when BALH talked about breast cancer, I held my breath til it was over but they did GREAT JUSTICE to IT and i was proud. Also they talked about abuse between Karthik and Natasha. Natasha was slapped by Karthik at the party for talking trash about his sister. But Ram, Priya, sudhir, shipra and everyone did not care about the reason for why he slapped her but the fact that he slapped her was wrong, period.
When someone loves you so much ..You don't know what their love to do us when the anger strikes on them,That too when you are provoking them with your opposite words ..It made the situation worst ..But that doesn't mean domestic violence or hatredness .Its just purely love covered with anger ..( I agree one slap does not mean DV BUT ONE SLAP IS USUALLY THE START OF A VICIOUS CYCLE of abuse.)
Its just their right on us to shower their love ... (only if he is my dad not my husband, that's not his job and that's not a way to show love. I strongly object)
Here Ram buried himself with her in the form of photos and practically lived all his life of 5 years in that room .Thinking about Priya and loving her ...
so when she was uttering those words ,He couldnt able to control his anger to stop her ..(he slapped her pretty hard, his finger marks are imprinted on her face, she is oozing blood.. A bit much?)
Yah he do gave taunts but his heart was burning inside why his priya didnt tell him that she was alive thattoo with a daughter .. So as myside his anger is justified ..(sorry abuse can never be justified. To justify abuse is to not take it seriously on a large scale.. how many times I have heard from women who are abused that they are blamed for it. That's not fair and that's a very backward way of thinking. Now anytime we see abuse in society, we always wonder what did the women do to deserve it. IT'S OUR NATURAL WAY OF THINKING AND AFTER RESEARCHING AND LEARNING ABOUT THIS SUBJECT, I KNOW IT IS WRONG! In fact, that sentence is wrong, because nobody ever deserves abuse so how can we justify it? BALH CVs did a good job when Karthik slapped Natasha. Ram slapped Karthik, Priya slapped Karthik and Karthik was given all the blame AND NOBODY cared about what Natasha did or said. That is the way we should be thinking because who gives anybody a right to abuse us?)
I witnessed some of this type of anger cover love ..so just potryed ..( i have worked with women who were abused and thankfully I have changed my way of thinking. I know this is just a story but this subject is too close to my heart..)
As someone said i do hate domestic violence ..But it just happens in a milli sec In a verge .

please don't take it the wrong way, i just think too strongly about it...

Originally posted by: Oneandall

<div align="center"><font size="4"><font color="#0000FF">Neel to be honest, I just can't stomach the slap part and don't feel <font size="4">any ju<font size="4">stification for that was approp<font size="4">riate</font></font></font>.

<font color="#FF0000">The update was nice otherwise... very emotional...

<font size="4"><font size="4">What Ram <font size="4">did<font size="4">, with a secret com<font size="4">partment <font size="4">reminded me of <font size="4">a mystery movie, <font size="4">where the precious gems are hidden<font size="4"> behind a<font size="4">n un<font size="4">know<font size="4">n wall.</font></font></font></font> </font></font></font></font></font></font></font></font>
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