8th Oct : My take : Taken for granted :D - Page 2

Hi angie.

What an episode it was eh? While there were lots of filler moments.. I thought addressing Ram's grief and the cause of his anger made the episode.

How many times have we banged our heads about this taken for granted line??? Innumerable... and finally hearing it from the man himself made my day. If there was one thing that rankled about Priya's life in the past 5 years is the fact that she thought there was no need to contact Ram... she says she wanted him to move on and lead a happy life when in reality it was she who had moved on. And she had... there is no question about it... she had constructed a life for herself with her child and was happy with it! She struggled yes and maybe she thought about Ram on and off but she had categorically moved on.

I think Ram's anger is more than anything directed towards Priya's staying away from him. He is not able to see how she could have not wanted to contact him..And that is why he wonders if his love is getting taken for granted. Every time he addresses Priya's betrayal... the first line he says is "You kept yourself hidden from me for the past 5 years" Going over the past 15 episodes, this is his first line.. reference to Peehu comes only next... but he is focussing on Peehu right now..Has anyone stopped to think and wonder why? Because he knows he will break if he wonders why Priya did not trust their love to withstand the storm that filled their lives... and also he will have to face the fact that she took his love for granted.. she thought he will move on!!! That hurts and it hurts like hell. That hurt is manifesting as anger.

Today when he put Ayesha in her place..he did not shout or scream like he did when she put natasha's secret out in public.. he just told her what he felt. Priya is the only woman who matters to him. While she thought that he had moved on... he knew that she would never think of anyone else!! What faith and what trust!!! So it is only natural that he react to being taken for granted!! People are aghast that he wants to separate Peehu from her mom... wonder why? Priya made her choice of leading a life with peehu alone... the best way to get to her is to show her how life would be without the one who she loves the most!!

And another thing that must be rankling in his mind... Priya had no intention of meeting with him this time too. The fact that she would have gone back to Dubai if it had not been for the accidental meeting must be grating his nerves like hell man!! He is not just reacting to her hiding, he is reacting to her wanting to stay hidden... that destiny had another thing to say is a vastly different story!!

There were some other parts of the episode that were not just heart warming... they were great displays of true emotion!!!! Natasha proved in her bindass style that she is a force to reckon with in her interaction with Ayesha..kudos to sumona for this... there is no other character in the show who has grown really –slipped, fell, bruised, gotup. Dusted herself and started again- this gal has done it all and with panache and elan!!! GO NATASHA GO was the refrain in my mind.

The other heartwarming scene that blew my mind away was the heart to heart talk between Vikram and Ram . If Neha rushed to her children to offer them solace, where does Vikram go – to see his best friend – because no one ...sorry PRK fans... even Priya does not know Ram as well as Vikram does. Vikram realises that what is happening in their lives affects Ram a great deal and he rushes to him. What made the scene special was the fact that neither did Ram nor Vikram rant... Both projected their deepest anguish at the way their loves and lives were fragmenting around them and the fact that they were powerless to stop the tides of change. When I saw those hurt and anguish filled eyes of Ram when Vikram asks him about his constant love for Priya... my heart went smashing to a gazillion pieces... and my mind dropped it's jaw wondering how one person could, without moving a limb, portray grief, anguish,hatred,love,pain and anger in one stroke!!!

My dream scene of the day was undoubtedly this!!!

In fact this scene mattered more to me than the putting ayesha in her place one did!!!

Originally posted by: nandinimp

Hi angie.

What an episode it was eh? While there were lots of filler moments.. I thought addressing Ram's grief and the cause of his anger made the episode.

How many times have we banged our heads about this taken for granted line??? Innumerable... and finally hearing it from the man himself made my day. If there was one thing that rankled about Priya's life in the past 5 years is the fact that she thought there was no need to contact Ram... she says she wanted him to move on and lead a happy life when in reality it was she who had moved on. And she had... there is no question about it... she had constructed a life for herself with her child and was happy with it! She struggled yes and maybe she thought about Ram on and off but she had categorically moved on.

I think Ram's anger is more than anything directed towards Priya's staying away from him. He is not able to see how she could have not wanted to contact him..And that is why he wonders if his love is getting taken for granted. Every time he addresses Priya's betrayal... the first line he says is "You kept yourself hidden from me for the past 5 years" Going over the past 15 episodes, this is his first line.. reference to Peehu comes only next... but he is focussing on Peehu right now..Has anyone stopped to think and wonder why? Because he knows he will break if he wonders why Priya did not trust their love to withstand the storm that filled their lives... and also he will have to face the fact that she took his love for granted.. she thought he will move on!!! That hurts and it hurts like hell. That hurt is manifesting as anger.

Today when he put Ayesha in her place..he did not shout or scream like he did when she put natasha's secret out in public.. he just told her what he felt. Priya is the only woman who matters to him. While she thought that he had moved on... he knew that she would never think of anyone else!! What faith and what trust!!! So it is only natural that he react to being taken for granted!! People are aghast that he wants to separate Peehu from her mom... wonder why? Priya made her choice of leading a life with peehu alone... the best way to get to her is to show her how life would be without the one who she loves the most!!

And another thing that must be rankling in his mind... Priya had no intention of meeting with him this time too. The fact that she would have gone back to Dubai if it had not been for the accidental meeting must be grating his nerves like hell man!! He is not just reacting to her hiding, he is reacting to her wanting to stay hidden... that destiny had another thing to say is a vastly different story!!

There were some other parts of the episode that were not just heart warming... they were great displays of true emotion!!!! Natasha proved in her bindass style that she is a force to reckon with in her interaction with Ayesha..kudos to sumona for this... there is no other character in the show who has grown really 'slipped, fell, bruised, gotup. Dusted herself and started again- this gal has done it all and with panache and elan!!! GO NATASHA GO was the refrain in my mind.

The other heartwarming scene that blew my mind away was the heart to heart talk between Vikram and Ram . If Neha rushed to her children to offer them solace, where does Vikram go ' to see his best friend ' because no one ...sorry PRK fans... even Priya does not know Ram as well as Vikram does. Vikram realises that what is happening in their lives affects Ram a great deal and he rushes to him. What made the scene special was the fact that neither did Ram nor Vikram rant... Both projected their deepest anguish at the way their loves and lives were fragmenting around them and the fact that they were powerless to stop the tides of change. When I saw those hurt and anguish filled eyes of Ram when Vikram asks him about his constant love for Priya... my heart went smashing to a gazillion pieces... and my mind dropped it's jaw wondering how one person could, without moving a limb, portray grief, anguish,hatred,love,pain and anger in one stroke!!!

My dream scene of the day was undoubtedly this!!!

In fact this scene mattered more to me than the putting ayesha in her place one did!!!

Originally posted by: fosla

And then it breaks at one instance. So apt for their relationships.
Dil ko chot wahi log paunch aate hain jo dil ki sabse kareeb hote hain!! And when those close to you betray, thats when your anger arises.! Ironic and true!

Originally posted by: Mahesh78

Arry ab Jaldi se is hurt ki jagha pe thoda pyar, bhar do taki hamera RaYa Milkar Neha air Vikram ok Mila sakhe jis tereha undono ne apne RaYa ok milaya tha. Is Duran hame bhi kuch cute RaYa moments mil jayenge😉

Originally posted by: poshah

Great post Angie, espcially liked the above lines..I had read quite a few posts where ppl were like how did he forgive nutts so easily, xyz so easily..the answer was very simple, he didnt love anyone else like he did Priya, so the hurt also was the biggest and something he cant forgive/forget easily.
I just remm one line from the movie .cheeni kum.where the small girl child says to Big B, jo log hame khushi dete hai, wahi log hame dard pahucha sakte hai..what she said was something like, you were happy yesterday and now you are sad...so youa re happy sad//something like that she says, and which is so true for everyone !!

Pooja

Originally posted by: D4BALH

woot woot.. I knew it. U will write take in season1 style and u didn't prove me wrong di.. Happy happy.. Happy that u r back with ur season 1 style take.. Hug hug.. Super happy.. Every scenes were perfect tonight. I m gonna watch whole epi fr my downloaded file.
Yes, it was answers to those who took his anger wrongly.. Thankx to cvs for proving us right.

Originally posted by: rkstlove

I liked da epi every imp person of balh was given screen space.liked nuts part sumona is dng good job.even rahul acted well.neha was good too.n our raya wat can i say dat car scene with season 1 fb's haye i love this four some man.and the best part was da last scene i am happy dat cv's are showing ram's hurt too.dat dialogue of him jo dil ke bahut kareeb hote hain na wahi sabse zyada dukh dete hain it was so true n emotional.and how can i forgot dat get out dialogue lol in dat scene i thought for ram aye is his p.a or even pihu's aaya lol she better be in her limits i hated her dialogue for pihu if only ram overheard dat dialogue he wud hav killed her.