Ram/Priya - Who is right? - VB Note p.28 - Page 22

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ramsakshiroxxx

i want to reply for this only bold part u said ram offered suit for priya wen she flirted with ronit i knw dat was not a good dialougue

here i want to say dat didnt she also doubt his char wen she heard ram was praising some women's earrings???


Did she doubted his character??? O boy !!! Did she say...how dare Ram flirt with another women??
Please don't twist the facts.
Priya was surprised and assumed that finally Ram moved on and she wanted him to move on . She wanted him to start a new life. Although she was disappointed that now she should not or must not bother Ram about her pregnancy but ultimately she was ok with the fact that Ram moved on as he deserved to.
Never did she curse Ram even in her thoughts in 5 years that Ram started flirting or Ram is being disloyal to her or Ram was reaching out other women..
Offering your wife to SLEEP with another man is completely different.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -SakshisFan-


Did she doubted his character??? O boy !!! Did she say...how dare Ram flirt with another women??
Please don't twist the facts.
Priya was surprised and assumed that finally Ram moved on and she wanted him to move on . She wanted him to start a new life. Although she was disappointed that now she should not or must not bother Ram about her pregnancy but ultimately she was ok with the fact that Ram moved on as he deserved to.
Never did she curse Ram even in her thoughts in 5 years that Ram started flirting or Ram is being disloyal to her or Ram was reaching out other women..
Offering your wife to SLEEP with another man is completely different.

she didnt accuse him but she assumed n even concluded dat he has moved on now wer is her trust,understanding gone
she knows ram he took 40 years to get married that too a forced one
how cum she suddenly believed dat he has move on..

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -SakshisFan-

I did not get any logical answers to my points in the above post.

Should I repeat the debate rules which someone preached me... 😉

Was Ram offering to arrange a hotel room for Priya-Ronit justified just because he was angry, just because its "just him", just because everyone "has his own faults"?

Oh yes ofcourse, why not because its Ram, he is "the man"

And next, the question of intentions do not arise just because Ram is not doing any sacrifices. How convenient!!

How Priya would have reacted in the same situation ...She would have been angry too for sure . But after a while, after letting it all out of her system, she WOULD HAVE listened to him for sure. Here Ram is not even listening to his family, friends, mother, sister...anyone.. He is calm enough to order re-decoration of room, he is calm enough to buy toys, he is calm enough to attend parties but he is not calm enough to listen to his wife. Priya is not that immature to not listen to any of the family members even when each of them is insisting something that impacts the most imp relationship of her life. She wouldn't have threatened his parents/family to get lost and move out of the house if they can't support her. She would have thought about her daughter 's future once atleast. Thats how Priya would have reacted.



@Bold: No, it doesn't. The "sacrificing" is not from his side.

@red: Let him do that, shall we? He's always been more short-tempered than Priya.

PS: I never said it was justified, his booking a hotel room for his wife and Ronit. I did mention "crossing the threshold". But that does not compare to THIS situation at hand.


Edited by krystal_watz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
I am with Ram.. He has 100% valid reasons..

What did Priya think 5 yrs back ? That if she informs Ram about her being alive, Ram would go and get her arrested to Police ? No he wont have.. Boys are in fact better secret keepers than girls..

I hated what Priya did to Ram.. Now it's payback time.. Only concern point is Pihu.. But I think with time, even she will adjust.. It reminds me of that movie 'Akele hum akele tum'... Aamir's dialog was - 'I dont know where exactly it's written that a father can not love his kid as much as the mother...'... Very valid question and point.. In that movie also, the kid got adjusted to the father within 1 yr.. They are kids after all..

Sometimes I become sad thinking about Priya, as all my fav characters, but then how exactly she thinks she can be punished ? I dont see any other way to punish her.. Ram is an excellent father.. He should have the oppurtunity to prove his fatherhood throughout all these yrs.. Priya deprived him of those happiness and rights.. Now it's her turn to face the wrath of loneliness..
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Posted: 13 years ago
I think priya shud give pihu to ram now itself.in dis way ram's anger vil calm down n as pihu cant live vth out priya she vil ask ram to bring priya as he cant say no to her priya vil be back to km.in this way court shit can be avoided otherwise more dan raya v hav bear haddi/hadda fest.vch vil eventually lower da trp's.
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Posted: 13 years ago

I think both of them are to be blamed...but only one thing I don't undertsand...how come Priya assumed that Ram has moved on within a month of her death? This is a kind of blooper...I think Priya came to know about her pregnancy immediately after reaching Dubai..which was just after few days of landslide.

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Posted: 13 years ago
Priya was correct in her decisions - Ram is and was always selfish when it came to thier relationship.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ramsakshiroxxx

she didnt accuse him but she assumed n even concluded dat he has moved on now wer is her trust,understanding gone

she knows ram he took 40 years to get married that too a forced one
how cum she suddenly believed dat he has move on..


assuming to move on.. n offering to sleep with another man is not da same thing
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

@Bold: No, it doesn't. The "sacrificing" is not from his side.

@red: Let him do that, shall we? He's always been more short-tempered than Priya.

PS: I never said it was justified, his booking a hotel room for his wife and Ronit. I did mention "crossing the threshold". But that does not compare to THIS situation at hand.


hey hey hey .let me clarify when I say "After letting it all out of her system" - that does not mean , person will take ages to do that. and Even though the person is calm enough and smart enough to attend parties, meet lawyers or decorate rooms but he is jerk enough to flash the custody document to his wife in a family party.
I can bet that Ram will never be guilty anytime soon...anytime soon as in atleast a month.
It will again be Priya who will have to suffer and prove herself , her loyalty and what not to melt Ram's heart . She will gradually change his heart over time (forceful move into KM due to Pihu)

"Situation is not comparable" for any misdoings isn't cool excuse. Because there is no justification and no forgiveness to such a cheapness where you offer to book a hotel room for your wife.
Edited by -SakshisFan- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Why are we fighting like kids yaar? Priya was wrong o leaving Ram 5 years back, but if Ram is hurt so much why can't he directly question her, if her claims that he loves her so much why can't he just see her point of view? Would he be happy if his child was born in the jail, would it have been justified if the child was shape rated from her mother for her initial 5 years? Why can't he see her point of view? Always thinking that heis right just let her justify her point of view,than the decisions can betaken, he just cantselfpittyhimself and allow the anger to raise and show it all on the person who loves him the most.

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