Ram/Priya - Who is right? - VB Note p.28 - Page 23

Again all of us missed a key point that she attempted to reach Ram after confirmantion on pregnency news and he was busy in his own world,

I think every one is taking wrong meaning of 'move on'... Move on doesn't mean to get into relationship with another woman... But it means to go ahead in life n left the past behind... It is as simple as live happily forgetting all your pains... Priya also thought the same she thought that ram has accepted her death completely n started live life normally... N if she again go back to india... Than she will endup going in jail which again lead to Ram in huge unbearable pain n guilt... N that's why she didn't tell ram about her pregnancy... Sorry for my poor english

Originally posted by: -SakshisFan-

hey hey hey .let me clarify when I say "After letting it all out of her system" - that does not mean , person will take ages to do that. and Even though the person is calm enough and smart enough to attend parties, meet lawyers or decorate rooms but he is jerk enough to flash the custody document to his wife in a family party.

I can bet that Ram will never be guilty anytime soon...anytime soon as in atleast a month.

It will again be Priya who will have to suffer and prove herself , her loyalty and what not to melt Ram's heart . She will gradually change his heart over time (forceful move into KM due to Pihu)

"Situation is not comparable" for any misdoings isn't cool excuse. Because there is no justification and no forgiveness to such a cheapness where you offer to book a hotel room for your wife.

Let's stick to the topic at hand. As another member "prerna4rishav" pointed out, what exactly is another way to punish her adequately? Or do you think that since she has owned up to her blunder, she now needs to be absolved of all punishments?

As for Ram being guilty anytime soon, he shouldn't be. Priya is rightfully feeling guilty, and it IS her who should be and not Ram. Let her suffer and prove herself, and then we'll hope Ram mellows and forgives her. Remember, had Ram just gotten up and embraced her back into his life, she'd never have "felt guilty and tried to prove herself" that we'll now see her doing.

Although I know why Priya did what she did (though some of it was unnecessary), I still feel bad for Ram

Ram himself had a crappy upbringing - his mother and father separated and his step mother never loved him

Some of that anger and neglect is feeding into his current emotions

He had a daughter, which Priya should have told Ram about, and he missed FIVE years of her life

Those baby years never come back - first walk, first word, first smile, first everything...

Ram's action may be upsetting or cringe worthy, but I get why he is so damn mad

Priya took away alot from him - and had she come to him that day when everyone thought she was dead, privately, I am sure Ram could have figured out a way to save her from a lengthy jail time

yup his convo with vik showed how hurt he is

If this is the way to punish her adequately.

Originally posted by: -SakshisFan-

If this is the way to punish her adequately.

So that (keeping Pihu away for 5 years) might be Priyas way of punishing Ram adequately for asking her to sleep with another man. and Rams second punishment being sharing his name with Ayesha. Third, being denied Pihus custody. Well deserved.

Who knows...!!!

Lets wait and watch how CVs play it out. Am sure its Ram who will be shown sorry for what he is trying to do now. Priya is already sorry for what she has done.

Lets Wait n watch.

Right. Punishing him AFTER having a suhaag raat with him.😉 And after one year of living happily with him.🤣 Swapnadesh hai kya? "Utho jaago Bhaaratiya Nari, tham lo apna haath mein tarbaari".😳

Let's admit, there's no other way to punish her at this moment. Ram might feel guilty later on since he's clean at heart, but that won't make his reaction any less justified.

Priya took the rap for Ram - he went on living a good life - she had to leave her family and friends - being pregnant at that - all alone.