SHORTEST TAKE TILL DATE 6th MARCH - Page 5

Originally posted by: fosla

Did you not watch the episode till now?😕[/DIV]

Originally posted by: fosla

After that tremendously emotional episode y'day.. Iam drained off all emotions and logic.. So here's the take for today.. I would have another topic Does Ram needs to fill guilty to vent my frustration.

Don't get frustrated dear.If you get irritated, humara kya hoga?

Don't shoot me, I am having different POV here...😳

Here you go.

1) How to beat up a guy for a confession: Take a bow Priya Kapoor!! You were a charmer and left the man bruised and beaten for no harm..Those tears came from my eyes thanks to ST!! Kudos.. I wanted a strong character but one with a concience.. Thanks EK for taking tht away from me in your best attempt to make it different!

I thought it was very much like Priya Kapoor. They never sit & talk silently on any issues except the 'BC scare' or 'HM cancellation' . That's why we have seen so much fights between them. Both of them had ego problem between them since day one. She has taunted him on so many things by calling him, tablet Kapoor, Polar bear..by saying about his Kharateys.If she said now she can't sleep without his Kharateys,she sees how much jalebis he ate, even likes his paseena...what is wrong there...she is just letting him know how a trevial things about him or regarded him makes a difference to her now.

Priya Sharma never expected a love in her life.The character who sacrificed for her family & all.A very patient character I must say the way Shipra & Ayesha used to take advantage of her.

She fell in love with Ram, she never expected from herself & his love in return too, untill the 'BC scare' track where Ram fulfilled her stupidiest wishes with so much enthusiasm.Ram's behaviour towards her changed drastically during this period.Here she started expecting 'Love in return' from him.😛Knowingly-unknowingly...

They were on the edge after Ram went to US.After he came back everything went against them...room got unnoticed, Nih's misunderstanding, party & ronit thing, Neha-Viks wrong timing & wrong advices so much to deal with in few hours...One thing lead to other & came the words from Ram.The hurt by his words was enough to burst the bubble.She was expecting the 'three words' from him & he said' the suite' thing... Again the wrong timing.The outburst we saw is more of 'I surrender to you'...I am giving up my ego...I am saying it..'I love you'...

Once the thing is said now I am back with my 'ego' if you love me come to me ...put down your ego as I deed..😆😳

Hope dear you will come back with your reply on this...😛

Again it's just my POV...😳And I feel that Gheewala dialogue is just like she never misses on his fattiness be it in sad, mad, happy mood.😉

Originally posted by: pink27

@Varun,

I totaly agree with your take...Good analysis👏

Originally posted by: -varun-

My take might seem totally different to you gals quite so coz im a guy.

So do read it with a broad mindset. :-)

WRT your posts.. I always do!!😛

# i disagree completely with angie's and others' viewpoint on RaYA this time.

# however agree with leo4ever, mittal ben and lalita G.
THANK YOU!! Btw.. That take was loads of sarcasm!! Hope u got tht~
Ok, now my bhashan 😉 :-

I kept thinking who is right and who is wrong. Gave me a headache. I started placing myself in their individual positions each and pushed my thinking button. Took away much of my time. But no regrets. It paved the way for a logic appearing prima facie to be lucid but on a closer note involved careful reasoning.

Thts our first difference!! It was not about who was right or who was wrong!! My issue was with the dealing of tht situation based on the characters!! And how they have evolved and now claimed to be!~

I concluded :

There are no truths..no right or wrong..its only HUMAN INTERPRETATIONS.

EXACTLY!

What took place in that high voltage episode was a result of forming one's own interpretations.

Priya formed hers. Ram formed his.
We formed ours.

In a way all are correct.
In a way all are wrong.

PERFECT!!
Friends, we make random judgements in life as well. In work..we pour some others angry on the first person that we see.
We immediately complain..namak kam hai..inspite of knowing that our mom made it with love.
Does it make us egoistic?Does it make us bad? Does it make us a cribster? Answer is a big NO.
Its human nature. The ability to form random judgements makes us HUMAN. We though are PURE at heart.

IAm gonna just go ahead and say it!! Your wife is gonna be one lucky woman!! If you would practice this even half the time!😉

Having said that i applaud ekta that first time in any of her serials she portrayed the ACTUAL husband-wife convo in the most realistic way. Hats off to the creative team.

YES~!! That's what I thought I wanted to see on Thursday after seeing the precap!
She portrayed the plight of a woman who LOVED her husband to the CORE.

A woman realising her love but hesitating to CONFESS.

Yes.. But while her expressions said that.. all those words just said everything else..

It showed the helplessness of a husband who wanted to propose first but was overcome by the shock that she did it first. Hence is mumness.

I agree. It was a combination of shock, helplessness and being played by the situation by his stupidity of listening to his friend.!

Ps:i will continue in next post.

Originally posted by: -varun-

...Continued

there are a few postualates derived from my experience. Dont question..Baas woh hain..😛

Aap toh khud question bank hain.. sawaal karna toh meri baski baat nahi hai😆

1# boy proposes first. Tradition of the boys family asking for the girls hand.

2# if girl tells her love: "you are an idiot"; they usually mean the opposite.😆😆

3# if a man tells the above to a girl. Then he INDEED is an Idiot. 😆😆
So basically whoever confesses first is an idiot.. Is that what u r saying?I just want to get tht postulates right.

Whatever priya said was out of SHEER love. Angie, she was def NOT "possessed" yaar!

YES I AGREE!! While she ended up looking like one.. it may be tht love possessed helpless woman!

She said few controversial things. Why? Read #2.

Now that's the biggest BS!! BEfore tht suite thing.. whtever they said qualifies here. Not after. Since they said tht without pretense.. It was all unmasked and their real feelings coming true to the front!

She was hurt not coz of #1. No, not this time. She was hurt coz of the many things she listed to him. About not noticing the re-decor, abandoning her in party...no attention and all.
She expected him to stop her from leaving. Why? Again #2.
YES.. She got hurt for things and chose to look at it with her perspective and how the situation played out for her!! BRAVO.. Now thts where I wanted it to stop!! Becoz that's all real situations that they faced!! And she was upset.. She knew these!! It was right!! But to go ahead and accuse someone else of EGO and head full of ghee and scared of rejection while it was mirroring her fears.. Apart from that I love to see ur face when I die but i choose to walk out now after ranting.. EWWW! Tht was where I have the problem!
Ram blurted the most horror word. Sleeping with Ronit. He proved himself a fool. Why? Again #3.
YES!! NO don't blame him being an idiot. He was.. And if he stopped at the candle light dinner dialogue.. There was nothing to argue. since she flirted and went overboard.When he asked if she needs the number, she came to get it from him. But there's no justification for me for tht suite thing however one's upset!!

Now,
After that intense lecture to him she expected him to acknowledge it. Sometimes one MUST be expressive when required. Ram stood like a dumbo there.

I thought u expressed it as shock, helplessness in ur previous reply!

Now as i said..its ones interpretation...ram was too too too shocked...perhaps happy as she accepted her loved to him. Perhaps sad coz he unknowingly inflicted her pain. His tears were a combo of both.

Priya understands him. She perhaps might have even deciphered his feelings for her. But yaar...there are times when you HAVE TO SPEAK UP...she expected ram to say something..but but but our bholu ram bhondu ban ke reh gaya. Anyways i dont blame him as i explained above.
OKIE!! Because the way she reacted.. he realized that he had hurt her way too much to provide any explanation!!
Even in that perturbed position priya was in her full senses.
Pls yaar dont take whatever girls tell guys LITERALLY. Why? Read #2.

No sweetheart.. The easiest argument for everything is stupidity!! but this was not just that!!
She thought if they both still remain together then something more worse might happen. She took the intelligent move to move from there. Yes she did want to give him space. In fact, in some corner she herself wanted space too. Space DOES NOT mean separation yaar...It means listening to ones SOLITARY VOICE and INTROSPECTING oneself.

What's the worst?Did we see Ram reacting anywhere? It was not like it was gonna get any more physical. Unless she was gonna actually beat him up literally for a confession!😉AFter afflicting so much pain on someone whom u claim to have innocence in his eyes, and u want to see and drown in those eyes, someone who's mind and heart you consider childlike, someone whom u promise his Mom abt not letting a tear drop from his eyes and someone whom u knew loved you and did everything for you.. YOU CHOOSE TO WALK OUT!! That for me was the final nail my friend!

Woh saath hi kya jo saath rahekar dooriyan banaye,

saath toh woh hai jo door rahekar bhi nazdikiyan badhaye.

Wah WAh WAh!!
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chalo my "mahaan" bhashan over. You can now doze off 😆. Sorry for keeping you held up.😊
Thankfully I read it post my morning coffee!!