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Hi Friends,
BALH is the only serial that I watch regularly these days. Todays episode kept me thinking for sometime. Also, I am little surprised at the furry in the forum. Could not stop myself from writing the following:
1) Vikram Neha -- they are not bad. Common. They were the main and the only architects of the mission - End loneliness of RAM
They thought, planned, put in lots of efforts to make it possible from the beginning. This is really a great example of total selfless friendship, who exactly understands what their friend needs. It was a treat to watch this kind of relationship.
Today, they are kind of relieved. They know their mission is accomplished. They know both have developed the feelings and there is no going back to it. They know it. They know, they dont need to work any more hard towards it. They now know there is no more major threat to their misson. Hence they relaxed a bit.
In this stage, they brought their glimpses of their unsuccessful marriage a-front. Every marriage, however successful be it, will have small traits of unsuccess (please accept this word). There would be some small differences, some small in conveniences, some small gaps. Yes, the marriage is successful if the amount of disagreements are much smaller than the amount of agreements, the uncomforts are much smaller than the comforts and so on. But mind you, there will be small gaps. Even Vikram and Neha are no exceptions. They just (based on gender bias which is perfectly common) tried to help their own friends out so not to face the small problems that they are facing.
I feel this is not something so big that, we should say they are the villans in RaYA's life. They separated them etc.
I guess, Ram-Priya have reached a level in their relation ship, they can easily sail through this. They now dont need so much counciling. Infact, they know each other better than any other person and hence can judge the other person better than anybody else.
2) Ram - Priya: They have sailed through various phases of relation ship and have reached where they are today. Really BALH has done a pretty good job in showing these phases in quite some detail. For me, personally I could relate to them in most of their phases. As somebody said, Priya is aware of these feelings while RAM is completely alien to them and this point is also brought out quite effectively. I enjoyed BALH (minus somethings ofcourse).
Now, both are sure of their feelings. First they were not sure of the others feelings. In yesterdays episode, thanks to Vikram Neha, they are kind of sure that the other person also reciprocates their feelings. These kind of glitches can happen when these people went through all these (unknown, compelling and eye opening to new lanes) phases and are now waiting for the other person to openly declare their feelings. It is a chance that this can happen (based on the circumstances) and it happened.
Precap - I think it is a very positive one. Both are showing (esp. RAM), for the first time, openly their possesiveness towards the other.
Yes, we can shout, throw ugly things at the other person only in two cases 1) we hate them 2) we love them
The only difference between the two being whether we get hurt in the process or not. In the heat of moment we can say many things. And when such things happen and if it is because of love, they will know how to pacify each other also. And when that happens, nobody can separate them, nobody need to teach them and nobody will exist anymore between them in any form. I am sure RAM Priya will learn this on their own. Now, they will learn to live/lead their life on their own and with content and with small glitches here there.
Sorry, wrote this in a hurry. Could not correct for mistakes..
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