^^Yup, exactly. You can't expect her to say 'no Papa' and not give the phone back. It's going to take time.
Also, while all of us here are on the side of Yamini having a mobile, if you notice the show is taking a different approach--which is in how Yamini will go about in convincing Raghvendra to acquiesce. I think she may set up a situation where he will have no choice but to agree to it.
This issue is not a small issue. I was about to make a topic on it, but then didn't feel like it. I have seen shows where girls' rights to mobiles were taken away--without it in anyway acknowledged as wrong in the narrative. It wasn't even made a big deal, just basically something which is inferred. (Ex. A girl marries into a conservative family, and suddenly her mobile disappears and she only uses the male members' phones or the house phones.)
Then there are the other shows these days where they do show girls with mobiles and is no big deal. But at the same time, though they have mobiles they are constrained and restricted in other ways and the narrative does nothing to combat the regressive thoughts of the families.
It is a huge deal for the Narrator to have laid it out last week on which path this show is going to take with the 'aap ghalat hai' lines to society.
While Raghvendra is no doubt shown as a control freak, and one who makes decisions with which conservative families would disagree (Neha's dress), he is still the father and the head of the family. And for a daughter to be shown standing up to her parents and father is still a big deal. I don't think this was the case around 15 years ago, but since the Saas Bahu era came about television mostly has been mostly regressive without too many such progressive stances (this is not to say there aren't and haven't been progressive shows).
The makers are smart in having the grandmother know everything. Yamini went to the Bazaar, and everything that happened, she told her grandmother, who told her to make sure Raghvendra never finds out.
See in reality a star like Yamini would walk out after she achieves a bit more success, because Raghvendra's control freak is not going to ease up any other way in reality. Raghvendra wanted to move to Bombay to be a star. Yeah, she'll become a star, and take a stand against her father and walk out. Of course, I doubt the makers would go that route. But really, for controlling star fathers like Raghvendra, this is what they get coming to them.
I don't see Raghvendra easing up. Imagine after the play becomes a success and she wants to continue doing plays. Unless something happens out of fate/luck where he once again sees some good reason to allow her to do the play, Raghvendra would not allow Yamini to pursue her own goals and dreams. He would be the type to lock her in the house and forbid her from going out--as he threatened her that night of the riots. And that would be when a girl like Yamini would stand up and say she's pursuing her dreams and walk out till he accepts it. But as I said, chances of it playing out this way--I doubt it very much.
And I diverged. Coming back to the topic at hand, today's episode showed exactly how controlling Raghvendra is and how his mind works. Tomorrow or Monday Yamini will somehow find a way to make him agree out of necessity. Otherwise, there would be no way for him to agree. And right now Yamini still needs to go by his approval. And as I said, logically and realistically there would come time she would stand up and do what she wants regardless of Raghvendra's approval--now whether this ever happens is another thing all together.
Edited by KhatamKahani - 11 years ago