Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism
But how can we be sure that there was no one year rule? Even if for nothing else, it is needed for being confirmed on paternity. Maybe they did have one such rule, when we can accept Subhadra Duryodhan engagement possibility, why not one year rule.
Else if there was no such rule, then maybe at that time Yudhishtir was in the mood to reach out to Draupadi and that's when he saw Arjun with his weapons.
Well... there was no one year rule as per KMG or CE. All Narada says is one brother shouldn't approach her when another brother is with her. Basically... ahem... no orgies.😆 I kid you not. Vyasa didn't pull his punches the way the shows do. If my mapping of family relationships is right, Panchali was likely Devala's granddaughter (bio or adopted). I believe Devala was the Narada of the era. He was warning his grandsons-in-law not to mess with his bitiya😆. CONJECTURE: Narada also managed to start insecurities in Yudhishtira's mind which might have led to subsequent deterioration in his behavior.
This pre-exile setup is one of the many reasons I don't think there was any polyandry, but let's say there was. There had to have been some kind of rule set. Arjuna likely broke it. The weapon theory - as in archery equipment - does not fit.
Someone else was asking why did Arjuna apologize when he returned. It wasn't the first time he married. Surely, his family got to know of Chitrangada, at least. So the apology could not have been for marriage. The other possibility is that it was for bringing Subhadra home which is where Pattnaik came up with his insane theory of Panchali not allowing any other wives in Indraprastha. But since she made no such condition, she surely knew other wives would be coming home. I can somewhat understand her getting upset. But see the sequence of events which unfold - Arjuna goes to the king, then the queen who refuses to acknowledge him, then his mother, then Subhadra goes to Panchali. Arjuna goes there to apologize BEFORE she gets upset, BEFORE he even visits his mother. I can think of only one thing which would necessitate an apology at that point - perhaps the incident which got him exiled. Subhadra's soothing of Panchali's anger would've been his acceptance.
I think Subhadra was not only Krishna's way of 1) cementing the alliance between Dwaraka and Indraprastha and 2) getting Arjuna back in, it was also 3) a not-so-gentle reminder to Panchali many things were at stake.
We see these people as the heroes they became. But they were also young once, with all the stupidities and immaturity which go along with youth. It's not a huge stretch to imagine personal relationships getting in the way of what was clearly a well-planned political merger.
I'm not fond of the Suyodhan-Subhadra theory, either, because then it seems like Krishna had no plan in place until Arjuna unexpectedly walked by.
Edited by HearMeRoar - 5 years ago