Is Anupama unhealed trauma is the reason she neglected Rahi and Anuj

"Unhealed trauma can have you rejecting healthy relationships with people who actually have your back."

Found this quote on internet i immediately thought of Anupama so I thought about it and actually wanted to know that !

Does Anupama neglected anuj and rahi only because she had unhealed trauma .??

She is living with the same trauma and feeding the entire gang who gave her so called trauma

There is nothing unhealed in her life and No Trauma at all, now she has turned into an Abuser herself who keeps preaching the world but never practices herself

Anupama ko koi trauma nahi, dusron ko trauma deti hai wo, chalti phirti truma ki dukaan!

Anupama had no unhealed trauma etc she never thought vanraj did any abuse towards her or leela or toshu pakhi

Because if person has trauma she never goes back to people who gave trauma and avoid them or set boundaries

The shahs way of living is abusing each other taunting each other pulling each other down

and anupama liked all that

because she continued that in ajun home. She abused and taunted and pulled down anuj, anuj mom malati devi, choti anu, barkha and ankush bhaiya etc after she married anuj

that was anupama way of living

No one can have stokholm syndrome from age 19 to 65 plus even after marrying another man still living in abuser ex hubby house

If the objective of makers is to show Women Empowerment, why did they not show Anupama completing her education?

Just to glorify 1 woman called Anupama, they have demonized Rakhi Ji (Rakhi Dave), Aadhya, Barkha and Maya etc. Anupama always needed some 1's support to grow in her life.

Anuj was just a doormat husband for Anupama who took him for granted. Anuj had lost his patience with Anupama on the day of car accident. Anupama, instead of apologizing for her mistakes shamelessly tears her family pic and decided to break her wedding with Anuj. Good thing is that Anuj did not stop Anupama from leaving the KM.

Then the koschens are, "What exactly is her trauma?" "What exactly is she doing to overcome the presumed trauma?"

It can be possible ...

and because of this unhealed trauma she could have left her abuser long back.

but she never tried a bit also.. and still staying with them who gave her this unhealed trauma 🤨

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

She is living with the same trauma and feeding the entire gang who gave her so called trauma

There is nothing unhealed in her life and No Trauma at all, now she has turned into an Abuser herself who keeps preaching the world but never practices herself

Anupama ko koi trauma nahi, dusron ko trauma deti hai wo, chalti phirti truma ki dukaan!

Absolutely. Kachrapamaa is an abuser. A wannabe Vanraj Shah and the next gen Jhuli Mawaali

Anupamaa may have trauma but I as a viewer have my limits. If there is trauma then both Anupamaa, the character and the narrative should have started making attempts after a certain point of time to make her come out of that trauma. Anuj when he used to ask her decently to draw the lines with that Shah phemily, she could have started reflecting & making amends. Same with Devika, she could have taken her help to move on in life. Problem with this show is that Anupamaa's trauma is only to extract sympathy from the audience while never giving the audience what they signed up for - journey of a character that defies all odds to achieve personal and professional success which she could not get because of the various restraints that were put upon her. Makers of this show are weird and cunning. Instead of fulfilling the expectations of the audience, they expect the audience to give the central character, a never ending sympathy, while the character gives the audience nothing - no growth, no development ... Anyone who tries to bring her out of that trauma by of course badmouthing Shahs or talks rationally actually becomes the biggest villain, or is given a negative streak or dies, because if he/she manages to do so, the symapthy vote would evaporate and the writers will have to actually use creativity to keep the show going. Aur creativity toh hai nahi... Par show toh chalate jaana hai na.... Paisa banta rehta hai toh kisko acha nahi lagta.. & now since long like everyone said she is a giver of trauma..

What's most annoying is that this trauma stricken woman goes on around the world giving gyaan about life, relationships, marraige, social responsibilities to everyone .. A-Z koi bhi topic utha lo didi ke paas har topic pe gyaan hai.. Siwaye apni khud ki zindagi sudharne ke ...