Mahi the ideal daughter - Page 2

Childhood trauma and bad upbringing are a reason for one's character but are never a justification for the said behaviour. Everyone understands the difference. Most importantly raahi never suffered childhood trauma at the hands of shahs because she never stayed with them for long. She suffered because she is ill mannered and a gone case.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

Childhood trauma and bad upbringing are a reason for one's character but are never a justification for the said behaviour. Everyone understands the difference. Most importantly raahi never suffered childhood trauma at the hands of shahs because she never stayed with them for long. She suffered because she is ill mannered and a gone case.

She is not shown to behave badly with anyone other than people who misbehave with her.

Infact, in Anupama's own words she is kind an empathetic towards everyone except Anupama and her family (Shahs). Anupama has admitted to treating everyone else with care and respect.

So, the problem is with people who have wronged her and that us perfectly correct.

But what justification do you have for Ishaani, Maahi and Ans badtameezi and wrong behaviour who have been (as admitted by Anupama) raised by Anupama and infact call her Anu Maa? I dont need to ŕpeat the badtameezi they shown, do I.

And her behaviour towards Shahs is fully justified.

Please clarify if you have recently started viewing the show because Shahs have been an integral part of Raahi's life except for the 7 years Anupama was away from her life or recently when she broke free from Asa Bhawan, ALL thanks to Anupama, whether it was during the first year she was adopted or the 6 months she met Anupama and Anupama was cheating on Shruti's friendship with Anuj or when she was a part of Dimple-Tapish wedding thanks to Anuj's Anupama obsession or at Asa Bhawan.

Even maahi hasn't misbehaved with anyone except raahi , because it is raahi who has been misbehaving for a long time with everyone. Maahi isn't like anupama who will tolerate grown woman raahi's battmeeji and pamper her with cringe words like bebli, choti.

What good things Raahi has done to conform that she is empathetic or kind heared towards other if not anupama, shahs. Raahi always carries her cheap attitude everywhere and with everyone. Atleast maahi , ansh , pari have been shown to be descent enough and respectable towards the elders of the family , not to forget that they spent their whole childhoods with shahs.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

Even maahi hasn't misbehaved with anyone except raahi , because it is raahi who has been misbehaving for a long time with everyone. Maahi isn't like anupama who will tolerate grown woman raahi's battmeeji and pamper her with cringe words like bebli, choti.

And Raahi should be like Anupama to tolerate adult "children's" badtameezi and pamper them with cringe words?

What are you even getting at?

When did Raahi say anything to Maahi? It has been Maahi who has been forcing her presence at Raahi. If it is not more than clear i dont want else is.

Maahi did nothing wrong in giving raahi the taste of her own medicine. Just because anupama showers raahi with undeserving attention and affection doesn't mean that everyone is supposed to treat this grown adult woman raahi in the same way.

Devika should make a comeback. I so miss her maasi wala treatment for adhya-raahi-whatever who cares.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

What good things Raahi has done to conform that she is empathetic or kind heared towards other if not anupama, shahs. Raahi always carries her cheap attitude everywhere and with everyone. Atleast maahi , ansh , pari have been shown to be descent enough and respectable towards the elders of the family , not to forget that they spent their whole childhoods with shahs.

You are saying what Anupama said was wrong? 😱 are you sure?

She has always been there for the Ashram people, helped children on the streets by buying them food by laboring herself, she saved the little girl (the daughter of the employee) from the abuses of Shahs, she saved Ansh twice.

She is atleast able to give as good as she gets. Secondly, she struggled to get everything in her life by herself. For Heaven's sake, she stayed on streets.

On another note, so, you agree that any prolonged stay with Shahs is dangerous for one's behaviour and in the same way, we question Raahi's attitude to give back as good as it gets 🤔. Hmm rather confusing.

Are you saying staying with Shahs teaches you to put up with abuse and not stop it?

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

Maahi did nothing wrong in giving raahi the taste of her own medicine. Just because anupama showers raahi with undeserving attention and affection doesn't mean that everyone is supposed to treat this grown adult woman raahi in the same way.

Devika should make a comeback. I so miss her maasi wala treatment for adhya-raahi-whatever who cares.

What medicine? Raahi reacts due to provocation and Maahi reacts unprovoked. Which one is more dangerous and needs treatment?

Aur yeh adult woman ka kya scene hain? Because uss hisaab se (if Maahi is shown to be eventually eligible to be married) Maahi is also atleast 21 and an adult woman?

You are right Devika should make a come back and Raahi should file a complaint against her. Because when the incident happened: Devika was a "friend" who was tasked with looking after the 13 year old friend's daughter that too in US. She not only verbally abused and resorted to violence on the teenager, she did not even look after which endangered a teenager's life. This will be an offence in any country. Then let law take it's course.

Raahi should have stayed on the streets only. I agree anupama has been terribly wrong to bring such a battmeej woman like adhya in her house.

Originally posted by: Pixie-Dust

Raahi should have stayed on the streets only. I agree anupama has been terribly wrong to bring such a battmeej woman like adhya in her house.

I agree, bringing Raahi from a peaceful Ashram to the madhouse called Shah House was wrong.

Raahi did not ask to be tortured this way. It was Anupama who wanted to ensure she is tortured by the badtameez clan.