Anupamaa 11th Feb 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 4

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Indeed early marriage and late marriage do have bad effect isliye log sahi samay shaadi karna prefer karte hai

Jo baat right pe hoti Hai woh baat late mein nahi Hota kyonki late mein woh excitement nahi reh jaata

Like education start from 3 year old koi bhi padhai late shuru nahi karta kyonki Pata hota ki late padhai mein woh excitement nahi rehta jitna young age mein hota ha

Same go to marriage

Jaldi shaadi mei bus aap jaldi jimmedari mein pad jaate ho aur apme baare mein sochna ka time nahi rehta

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Indeed early marriage and late marriage do have bad effect isliye log sahi samay shaadi karna prefer karte hai

Jo baat right pe hoti Hai woh baat late mein nahi Hota kyonki late mein woh excitement nahi reh jaata

Like education start from 3 year old koi bhi padhai late shuru nahi karta kyonki Pata hota ki late padhai mein woh excitement nahi rehta jitna young age mein hota ha

Same go to marriage

Jaldi shaadi mei bus aap jaldi jimmedari mein pad jaate ho aur apme baare mein sochna ka time nahi rehta

Now kids go to play home at 3 may be

But for 90s kids we went to school at 5.5 or 6 plus only not before that

90s kids never went to any play home

They stayed at home only till LKG

Its now that kids go play home at 2 or 3

In 90s no one went anywhere all stayed home till 5.5 or 6.5 years old than only landed in school at LKG

Indeed in our school some kids came to LKG or UKG at 7 years too

They took may be some months or an year to pick up than became equal to others in studies who joined at 5.5 or 6

Teacher in LKG/UKG would tell clever students to teach new comer kids in break times abc or 123 or rhymes (means class monitor or group leaders)

Every 7 to 10 kids had a group leader who was a smarter kid from LKG/UKG only in school they helped new student or dull ones in break

In 90s and till 2005 no one sent kids to tut ions till 10th or 12th std only very dull students went unlike last 15-20 years

Students learnt from other classmates or from family only no tution as such (this in metro city)

Even marraige is same our grand parents married early at 17-18 but had great marraige till 80 years age

Our parents married at 25 plus but had great marriage

This gen marries after 30-35 years but many have great marriages (in asia at least)

i know indian who married at 45 years and 50 years first time very happy marriage last 15 years no problem, like anuj anupama (one is divorced with kids like anupama and in laws married at late 40s)

It all depends on person marrying how much interest they put in marriage

Like school you study if interest no matter how bad teachers in school same way maraige depend on wife and hubby effort or interest

anupam never wanted anuj as husband never want another marraige its a forced wedding

Else i know divorcee or widows married after 40s in india all very happy enjoy life with new hubby and new hubby and his kids and his parents etc

After 45 are enjoy life may be they are phycally fit and fine but generally after 45 year yahi darr Bana rehta hai ki Kaun si bimari ho jaaye

People get sad seeing grey hai at this r and People get more sad when they come to know unhe blood pressure diabetes hai People get sad when they see they are growing towards old soon they will grow old and face will have wrinkle People become gloomy at this age because of change in physical because of the they are not able to enjoy marriage life because change in physical appearance they loose confidence and cannot enjoy People hate grey hair that is why applyi hair color and even do plastic surgery of skin so thst they never loo old

People are not happy with their change in physical appearence ar this age so how will they enjoy marriage life

BTW after 45 they may look happy but inside there is not much excitement like in young age

That is why many people appy hair color

May be due to applying hair color they feel happy and able to enjoy happy married life

Mental state automatically change when there is change in physical

Originally posted by: surabhi01

After 45 are enjoy life may be they are phycally fit and fine but generally after 45 year yahi darr Bana rehta hai ki Kaun si bimari ho jaaye

People get sad seeing grey hai at this r and People get more sad when they come to know unhe blood pressure diabetes hai People get sad when they see they are growing towards old soon they will grow old and face will have wrinkle People become gloomy at this age because of change in physical because of the they are not able to enjoy marriage life because change in physical appearance they loose confidence and cannot enjoy People hate grey hair that is why applyi hair color and even do plastic surgery of skin so thst they never loo old

People are not happy with their change in physical appearence ar this age so how will they enjoy marriage life

BTW after 45 they may look happy but inside there is not much excitement like in young age

That is why many people appy hair color

May be due to applying hair color they feel happy and able to enjoy happy married life

Mental state automatically change when there is change in physical

actually after 40 only you can do real love or know who really love you

Before that its physical attraction only mostly not real love bet couples

as you age and get sick and do not look so good looking as before you will see true color of spouse your kids your siblings and friends how much they truly love you

So if you marry after 45 anyone its true love not love for gaining something like wealth, beauty, physical attraction etc

anuj already had BP before marrying anupama and was eating tablets

now looking at his beh at 55 he has thyroid and diabetic too i think bec those ppl are always angry and anxiety and shout if not given what they ask for

anuj needs to go to doc and check for various diseases and anxiety and anger issues bec after 40 only you get all that mostly although nowadays 30-35 have bp, diabtetes, thyroid tooo