Anooj! why now? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

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If aadya says, I don't like shruti.i hate her..then will he start finding some other woman. Bcoz isko aadya ke liye maa chahiye.apne liye biwi nahin.

Toh acchi nanny dhoondh na.

Kisi woman ko agar baby sitting karni hai ya baby se hi pyaar hai toh woh bhi adopt nahi kar sakti.

Kitne hi logo ne example set kiye hai, whether men or women, they have adopted kids and taking care of them.

As per RG mam, if we try to see this serial as a serial, or for entertainment purpose only, it is difficult to accept such stupidity. We cannot leave our brain aside.

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But isn't that important?

One wants to build a family that involves the happiness of everyone involved isn't it?

Consider a situation that Anuj marries someone who illtreats Aadhya or who doesn't like her, would that be correct?

Consider a situation that Anuj marries a person that Aadhya doesn't like, will they make a peaceful marriage/family?

Consider any other man who has a teenaged child (biological). If his wife were to abandon the family effectively separating and him being in custody of the child or better still, if we was a widower with a teenaged child and he falls in love again, will he not seek the child's consent and acceptance before marriage? AfterALL they have to libe under one roof.

A second marriage of single parents is different and comes with acceptance of people who will eventually make a family.

Remember, we were talking about Anupama's bond with her overgrown, married, independent biological children?

Anupama's "kids" situation is very very different from Anuj's.

Aadhya is Anuj's daughter and is still dependent on Anuj and is not even a legal adult as against Anupama's overgrown, married, independent "kids". Hence, Anuj has his responsibilities towards his daughter's wellbeing.

He can make her understand, convince her about the love of his life but if Aadhya doesn't like a person, Anuj has to, mutually (with his love) take a decision of what is more important for him in his life because bringing a life into his life was his decision.