Why is anupama hated so much?

I always wonder why anupama is hated so much by audience nowadays so went back and saw 2020-21 episodes

1) Anupama is most ungrateful human in any ITV serial even over vanraj and baa the villans.

Anupama takes help from X Y Z everyone by shedding tears but never helps the other person when he/she is n trouble. Be it kanta, bhavesh, devika, rakhi who gave money to save their home, nandini, malvika, gk kaka, anuj, Adhik, Malati devi etc shes not helped one human back when they need her in life. Even Barkha and ankush have stood up for her against shah abuse but she never respect them. Adhik had taught her finance but she has been pretty ungreatful to him too. The only ones she will help is the Shahs her 3 kids, baa, bapuji, vanraj and may be sometimes her daughter in laws or souten kavya never anyone else in life

Indeed this woman is most ungreatful to ppl who truly help her. Like rakhi how she threw her out of house and ordered kinjal not to visit her mom house ever. Like nandini how samar and vanraj threw her from home again this woman meekly supported her and than kept quiet because she too did not want a daughter in law who cannot give birth to a child for samar and supported her souten kavya. Than there was kinjal who supported her during vanraj betrayal, this woman kept so quiet as toshu betrayed kinjal with another woman and very cleverly termed extra marital cheating as mental issue because her son toshu did it.

Same way she even betrayed adhik who taught her finance when her daughter beat him saying its in innocence shes small kid and vanrajj even called police saying domestic abuse but barkha saved him. But when adhik slaps pakhi she called police made him fall at her and her daughters feet. Malvika whom she called sister when vanraj was trapping her she was so quiet never warned malvika or told anuj or GK kaka till anuj himself saw one day in cabin what vanraj was doing to his sister. Also instead of telling anuj to choose malvika nad save her from anraj instead of her the lover anupama, this lady kept quiet and made this puppy brother leave his vulnerable sister and run after her in name of love. GK kaka too was humilaited in front of her she kept so quiet whom she said is her father kind.

CA worshiped her as mother but anupama always allowed all shahs to abuse her slap her hit her call her names and always gave priority to shahs over her daughter CA. The worst treated was anuj her husband and soulmate whom she considers and treats like slave or doll. So many times shahs abused him hit him misbehaved with him called him murderer of samar and threw him out of home in front of her only. she openly accused him that seeing his face means recalling samar dead face. She made him sleep in hall and kicked him off his bedroom in his own house when so many relatives there. She even humilated ankush bhai by making him fall at her feet by anuj and not stopping anuj.

Who can symapthize wth such a woman or like her? Forget taking as inspiration

2) Anupama cannot do anything on her own needs crutches of other humans to get job, business, visa etc. Also once she gets all that she never respects the person who helped her get that job, wealth, visa insteads abuses those opportunities by being lax or not interested and no ethics etc

3) Anupama has no interest in doing any job or studies etc all she wants is to take care of shahs and shah house.

4) Shes ungrateful to her current hubby and his family. Its so tough to marry at 45 that too to an unmarried man who worship you so much whose family loves you o much in a patrichial society but this woman remains ungrateful always

5) She is very patriarchal by nature. She does not allow kinjal or dimpy to get out of abuse and EMA in name of family and bahu duty and kids are blood of vanraj etc dialgues. But she herself can take divorce mrry another than divorce date another. Her daughter can beat her hubby its innocence. Anupama is the kind of woman in a house hold because of whom women are burnt for dowry by men and beaten up for questioning hubby EMAs etc She is just like leela shah in her thinking about her bahus and damad.

I can go on about her in gratitude and taking advantage of others goodness to her but would like to stop

How can anyone even say this ITV lead anupama is inspiration of woman empowerment?

Can we say hitler stood for peace?

Upma never really wanted to marry anuj .it was babuji ,Samar and devika who forcd her get married. Also upma was nowhere near anuj level . Anuj and other kapadias were broad minded , rich and caring for eachother. Romil ,Sara ,gk kaka , CA ,Anuj and Ankush who loved upma and gave respect ,no wonder she couldn't digest the amount of love and respect she was getting . Bhavesh and kanta wanted her take care of them and leave shah toxicity but she choose to ignore them.

She got everything in plate , kapadia empire,gurukul and dance academy but she choose to abandoned them so she can take care of her 3 anmol batmeez ratan wow what a geat FL I have ever seen in the show

She is a narcissistic personality. Period!

Only in this forum anupama is hated so much other wise in other virtual world I don't see much hate of anupama

Nobody Hate so much except here

People want anupama to ne independent ahd to become success

Anupama Devika rakhi ki tabhi Madad karegi when they will be in trouble

Devika rakhi are financial mentally physically strong to anupama unki kya madad Kare

Yds anupama always show gratitude when ever Devika help anupama

Even anupama brought maalti to house and take care of

And ur whole story is twisted to show anupama is bad jabki actual episode mein khuch aur hi hota hai

There are many wrong things u have written anupama did not allow kavya dimple to move out from shah

If anupama did not allow bahu from shah then how kimjal move to America

Anupama did not accuse him fior murder anupama just want time for few data

There are many things twisted here but correct karne mein bahut time chahiye aur energy chahiye

I disagree that she is not inspirational. On the contrary, she is a great inspiration for all those who.....

• Aspire to be shameless filthy hypocrites,
• Want to provide free service to their abusers,
• Are content in being rotten unpaid maids and do nothing else in life,
• Receive all opportunities out of Khairaat/Bheekh and then disrespect the same by putting in zero efforts,
• Enable patriarchy and abuse.

She stands for the empowerment of all such people, men or women

Originally posted by: --Ruchi--

She is a narcissistic personality. Period!

Seriously. She is so full of herself. Never seen such a rotten character who refuses to introspect or do better. Always keeps justifying her mistakes, providing excuses or blaming others for her faulty/lack of decision making skills

Hi - I've a question - if the forum itself is being demeaned here, like it is that this forum exclusively hates the character of Anupama. Can the moderator do something about it ?

I am not sure why visit this forum if the views are constantly being put down saying that other forums and other websites have better opinions.

Sorry, I don't think I am putting my thought and questions in a better way. Please let me know if this needs clarifications.

Wow yahan pur roj anupama bhakt keh ke mocking hoti Hai uska kya

Yes anupama is very much hated Here u will hardly see any anupama supporter here

Aut Jo anupama supporter Hote hai they are not allowed to express their opinion freely .baat baat pe yahan pe reporting hoti hai unke opinion ko dabane ki koshish hoti Hai

but mocking of anupama supporter is highly supporter here they are alow to mock anupama supporter

Wih chahe Kitni baar anupama supporter ko anupama bhakt keh ke pukare but no action is taken

But anupama supporter pe badi jaldi action ho jaata hai Choti si i baat pe

I have pm. To higher section but no reply so I decided to opppoe iit openly

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If anyone want to me report me go ahead but I will not stop opposing wrong ahd partiality of ruling in this forum

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I disagree that this forum hates Anupama. Infact, it is not even biased toward Anuj. Compared to other platforms like Instagram and Youtube where many people are feeling bad for Anupama and ignoring her mistakes, this forum is the only place where a spade is called a spade. The shortcomings of every character as well as the story are criticized, that too, with a sense of emotional detachment.

Few days this @st princess mock my opinion

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164600058

And giving false and prejudice sentence

again. In this she is giving false and prejudice about me statement in this thread

My answer was regarding to topic I have state facts not everybody hate anupama

Because topic maker wrote why anupama is hate audience so I said truth not all audience audience hate anupama

But yahan pur aaye din anupama bhakt ke naam.se mock Kiya jaata hai