The day of accident and where Anuj went wrong - Page 3

When a family member is serious in hospital family will shout at doctors out of emotions and fear of losing loved one especially a mother or father who are about to lose a child

Docs will understand they will not take to heart and stop treating patient

Same way this situation was similar CA could have died anuj got emotional because he came near to losing CA his only child his only family member all others had ran off thanks to anupama and shahs(like gk kaka, malvika etc)

Any father would have lost his mind and screamed at anupama for not saving CA first

Anuj has seen anupama giving first priority to shahs over CA always

Even on new year all shahs tapak n kapadiya home and CA had to be sent to camp oinstead of cwelebrating with her mom dad and kapadiyas

Time and again anuj has seen how anupama first does for shahs than only CA

A father will be quiet if wife makes him last priority but not his children

Yes, Anuj was wrong in accusing Anupama when she survived a near death experience but let's take into account the sequence of events which led to his massive outburst. How many times he pleaded her to maintain healthy boundaries with her toxic ex and ex in-laws?Did she ever listened? Shahs used to call her for petty reasons and she left everything to tend to them.They always humiliated ca, manhandled Anuj, created ruckus in KM but not once Anupama stood against them. She was too involved in their matters neglecting her new family. Anuj has had enough. Any man will loose it. I second you! They shouldn't have got married. There were many red flags but Anuj deliberately choosed to ignore and got married to a lady who was suffering from Stockholm Syndrome. Honestly,Anupama needed councelling. She hadn't really moved on. She was still stuck in her past.Anuj failed to grasp this. He is just reaping what he had sown.

Originally posted by: prachetas2211

Anupama should not have married Anuj. She should have completed her education with funding from Anuj and got a good job for herself after divorcing Forest King. If that would have happened we would have definitely supported her in her journey. But she choose relationships over career. Anupama is not an inspiration to women any more. Even, I am not a fan of MAAN. Even I am happy that Anupama Anuj wedding ended in a divorce.

Anupama and Anuj marriage didn’t bounded her in anyways. Unwillingness of grow up was the reason of her downfall. Anuj gave her the opportunity to complete her education but what she done we all know. She had dance academy which was running great but she neglected that too. She used to leave KM for dance academy but used to stop at Shah house.

Even if she didn’t get married to anuj and with Anuj funding her education the outcome would be the same. If due to her work she was unable to spend time with CA then it would have shown working class women problems and people would have understood her dilemma but shahs being the reason took all the reasons away.

Now also if we see her job at S&C she spend her most time with shahs. Before she met them again everything was fine but with shahs entry everything took back seat so problem was never Anuj Anupama marriage but her unhealthy obsession for shahs.

She have to understand that if family and kids are important then work is also important. She can’t neglect work for your family matters. You have responsibility for your employer who paid you for work or your customer who paid you for your services. It can’t be that something happened at your home and someone else who paid you will suffer.

After 10 years of her divorce too there is no change in her. She is same old who don’t care for anything. This type of people are not suitable for work life. She is best as a housewife. In 10 years of her life she only proved this.

Anupama first ask choti ki apni side ke car window kholo but door was jam

Then choti Try to.come forward but as soon aadhya try to come forward car started moving and going to fell down but anupama push aadhya back side other wise car would have fallen down

Then at this situation what can anupama do neither choti side window was opening nor choti can come forward because car would have fallen

Other wise choti ke side ki car khul jaati to sabse pehle choti hi car se nikalti more over sabse anupama ne choti ki safety ke baare mein socha tabhi anupama ne sabse pehle choti se pehle bola tum apme side ka darwaja kholo agar woh darwaja jaam ho gaya to isme anupama ki kya galti

Waise jub choti aagey aar rahi thi to kya choti ko khud mehsoos nahi hua ki car aagey bhad rahi hai choti khud nahi dekh sakti ki csr khaai mein jaa sakti hai .itna bjhi kya anjaan banna ki choti ko khuch pata hi Nahi

So obviously anupama decided to open door from. kinjal side to pehle kinjal ko nikalna jaroori tha kyonki kinjal nahi nikalti to Pari kaise Bahar hoti Pari Bahar nahi hoti to anupama kaise Bahar aati. Agar anupama Bahar nahi aati to.anupama choti ko car se Bahar nikalti so it was situation demand ki pehle kimjal phir Pari phir anupama phir choti

Anupama to choti ko Bahar nikale jaa rahi thi but again jaise hi anupama car se Bahar nikli to kinjal ke side wala door bhi automatically band ho gaya

Jis side anupama khadi thi us side ke dono darwaja jaam hogaya opposite side ke dono darwaja se nikalna se possible nahi tha because opposite side window ke just neeche khai thi technical fault hua to apme aap hua to isme anupama ki kya galti

Phir bhi anupama ne sheesha tod ke choti ko Bahar nikal

Choti did not see her mistake ki uski wajah se sabki jaan Khatre mein gayi thi in car accident but busy in blaming anupama

And more over if see clearly episodes aadhya having repeated flash back of one and only scene that anupama. Did not let aadya come forward in car thst is why aadya hate her

But aadhya has no flash back of anupama leaving home that is why I give Damm about so called trauma of so called kid aadya because she did not having flash back of anupama leaving home but having only flash back of anupama push her back

Anupama even explain to chot why she push aadhya back and even explain to anuj why she push aadhya back but instead of understanding anupama situation and explaining to.aadya he just blaming anupama for not giving priority to choti and anuj from nowhere

Baat khuch aur thi but anuj baat ko Pata nahi kaha kaha le gaya priority Holi Khichdi Pata nahi kyax

Why is it only anupama duty To.explain. why anuj has not explain chot kya Bus maa ki hi responsibility hai bachon ko guide karna father has no duty to guide the child

And it anun word more shocker for anupama than vanraj word because vanraj ne kabhi nahi kaha ki woh use pyaar karta hai ulta uski insult ki hai

But Jo anuj who claim karta hai ki 26 year se pyaar karta aaya hoon to Yeh hota hai 26 ka pyaar ki beti ke liye anupama ki insult karna shuru kar dio woh bhi poori family ke samne and without understanding what anupama try to.say

Yes indeed anuj word was more shocker fior anupama

Edited by surabhi01 - 3 days ago