For ALL the wrong reasons!

Anupama's skewed priorities has been discussed to no end. It appears the reasons for her actions are equally skewed.

1. Why did she divorce Vanraj only to stay at Shah House and also "train" Kavya and Kinjal about being a good bahu?

2. Why did she have to help Vanraj being part-time chef at his restaurant when she had a new Dence Ecedemy?

3. Why did she take a loan from Rakhi pledging the house without anyone but Hansmukh's knowledge?

4. Why did she not raise a havoc when Vanraj was playing with Malavika's emotions, when she was vulnerable?

5. Why did she get married to Anuj that too with a public proposal?

6. Why did she start many business to not see even one through?

7. Why did she Agree to Adopt Choti Anu on their honeymoon without even being coerced or blackmailed into it?

8. Why did she not herself file a police complaint or let anyone including Barkha file one when Vanraj was the prime suspect in the cliffhanger accident?

9. Why did she leave a recovering, wheelchair bound Anuj and Choti Anu to welcome Pari at Shah House after spending the whole duration during and post labour at the hospital?

10. Why did she take Choti Anu to a place where she was unwelcome and abused?

11. Why did she leave a sleeping Choti Anu with a sleeping Kinjal and an infant with a driver in a broken car in the middle of nowhere?

12. Why did she have to run to Shah House to run their household every single day?

13. Why did she not grant a collateral loan to Barkha's fashion house citing useless reasons while she had given lakhs to her own pseudo mayka?

14. Why did she force Barkha to take back her complaint against Pakhi and Vanraj (which they thankfully successfully relented) knowing the grave mistakes of her daughter and her daughter's treatmentof her husband's family?

15. Why did she run yo Shah House leaving Choti Anu under the care of Barkha and Kapadias even during Choti Anu's nightmares (she did not even know until Barkha told them) to tend to Pari who stayed with a housefull of people?

16. Why did she miss Choti Anu's Dance Competition for Leela's Khichdi and then claim favours of ayleast performing on stage?

17. Why did she miss Choti Anu's school assignments, event forms and when Anuj wanted to help, she outright rejected citing she can handle it ALL?

18. Why did she invite the entire Shah khandaan to Kapadia house because Vanraj and Kavya and Kinjal were out of town? Not just that take advantage and insult her actual sasural?

19. Why did she not even call Choti Anu once when Anuj was forced to send her on a trip?

20. Why did she allow Maaya to enter her house without verification and inspite of warned repeatedly by Barkha-Ankush and Anuj himself and then give a 15-day challenge without any consultation even with Anuj?

21. Why did she shift to Shah House to take care of Paritosh instead of arranging a nurse and herself ensuring frequent visits and why did she return to Kapadia Mansion amd insist on going to a picnic with the child?

22. Why did she let Choti Anu go with Maaya without clarifying her (Choti Anu) off her misunderstanding?

23. Why did she force a depressed Anuj to accept her actions for the sake of his love for her?

24. Why did she leave a depressed Anuj to play Holi with Shahs?

25. Why did she ask Anuj and Choti Anu to take care of a mentally unstable, violent Maaya even after knowing the truth while she didnt spare a glance to her sasural?

26. Why did she go to Shah House knowing well Vanraj's intentions and Leela's encouragement?

27. Why did she leave/give up her responsibilities towards her businesses, not spare a glance to Kapadia Empire that she owned?

28. Why did she have to fight the criminals (in Dimple's case) by herself not abiding law, police or judiciary?

29. Why did she have to share her turmoil with Vanraj (knowing his intentions), take a stroll back to Kanta's from Shah House and then let him talk for her decisions at Kapadia's? Like seriously ho kaun bhai?

Tell me one good reason, one good cause she has done the "right thing" for?

I am going to frame it and hang it on wall and everyday morning will chant " Jai Suraj Mata ki Jai."

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Tell me one good reason, one good cause she has done the "right thing" for?

Becoj a MAA can never be wrong, and that too one who ijj the Besht and shining as bright as Sooraj. She has adeptly belenced the numerous jimmedaari ke matke in her lyphe. Instead of questioning, we should be saluting this great soul. 😳

Makers ruined anupama character , she was strong after getting divorced with vanraj but now.... 🤐😬

Why did not anuj discuss about adoption like serious matter before getting married to anupama

Why did anuj wait for anupama for 26 years if anuj wanted child why did not he married to other woman

Why did anuj take responsibility of maaya

Why did anuj invite shah to house warming party and in ganesh chathurdi in Kapadia house when anupama even did not ask for it

( please this is not reason anuj want to make anupama happy that is why he do it because he took maaya responsibility and he did not took maaya responsibility because he want to make anupama happy

Why did anuj send barkha to ask forgiveness from vanraj and baa

Why did choti always eager to meet shsh family specially mooch Wali uncle and baa

Why did anuj told choti we should not keep grudges for long time ( with shah family)

Why should be malvika responsibility of anupama when anupama not even married to anuj and Why can't malvika cannot see themselves vanraj intention as malvika is not child thar she cannot understand anything

Why did anuj say anupama to earlier ki mujhe aadhi anupama nahi poori anupama se pyaar Kiya hai mujhe aadhi anupama nahi chahiye

Anuj .accepted anupama the way she is so now Why anuj having problem and he left her he know very well it was impossible for anupama leave shah for ever

So why did he married her

Simply because Anupama wants to cry tones of tears all the time and shiver and become bechari.

That's how itv shows get TRP.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why did not anuj discuss about adoption like serious matter before getting married to anupama

Who discusses children before getting married? What stopped Anupama from saying she wasnt ready? She discussed it with Devika why did she not discuss woth her husband?

Why did anuj wait for anupama for 26 years if anuj wanted child why did not he married to other woman

Why did Anupama survive 26 years of abuse?

yeh kya sawaal hua?

Why did anuj take responsibility of maaya

Did he not clear that to Anupama and Anupama declared "she would have done exactly that" infact she almost let go of Anuj as though isiliye bahane peeche choota.

Why did anuj invite shah to house warming party and in ganesh chathurdi in Kapadia house when anupama even did not ask for it

( please this is not reason anuj want to make anupama happy that is why he do it because he took maaya responsibility and he did not took maaya responsibility because he want to make anupama happy

Sorry, i do not understand, how are the two related?

About festivals and Anuj inviting Shahs.

So, you mean to say, Anuj should have kept Anupama's pseudo Maayke wale out so that she can say, aurat ko mayke se juda hona padta hain or that he is no different from Vanraj to keep Anupama away from her mayka especially on festivals? See, even here Kanta and Bhavesh are conveniently forgotten not just by Anuj but Anupama as well. May be Anuj was confused where the mayka actually is😆.

Why did anuj send barkha to ask forgiveness from vanraj and baa

And badon ki izzat karnewali sanskaron wali let that happen? If the tables had turned on Vanraj and Leela would Anupama have kept quiet? Did we not see what happened during Grihapravesh, Holi function that too at a public place.

Why did choti always eager to meet shsh family specially mooch Wali uncle and baa

Are you blaming a child, who probably does not even know what is abuse? And what does Anupama, the parent do?

Why did anuj told choti we should not keep grudges for long time ( with shah family)

Every parent teaches forgiveness to children what should he have told her? To back answer and misbehave like Shah Kids?

Why should be malvika responsibility of anupama when anupama not even married to anuj and Why can't malvika cannot see themselves vanraj intention as malvika is not child thar she cannot understand anything

Who gave her responsibility to Anupama? Did Anuj tell her to take his sister's responsibility? Just the way Anupama could not recognise she was abused for 26 years, Malavika who herself was emotionally vulnerable could not see through it. Atleast Malavika did the right thing when she recognised it. But Anupama 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Why did anuj say anupama to earlier ki mujhe aadhi anupama nahi poori anupama se pyaar Kiya hai mujhe aadhi anupama nahi chahiye

Anuj .accepted anupama the way she is so now Why anuj having problem and he left her he know very well it was impossible for anupama leave shah for ever

Anuj ne toh poori Anupama se pyaar bhi kiya aur nibhaya bhi, Anupama ne bhi shaadi ki thi na, usne Anuj aur apni shaadi ke liye kya kiya?

Anupama ne public proposal kiya tha na shaadi ka? She knew it is a marriage not a stop gap arrangement and it is her second marriage. Kanta ne 2 times achche se samjhaya bhi tha but she refused to listen.

He was happy being just her friend.

So why did he married her

Nahin karta toh Anupama ki so called women empowerment, second marriage wala theme kaise banta.

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Originally posted by: Historia

Makers ruined anupama character , she was strong after getting divorced with vanraj but now.... 🤐😬

It started with the divorce. Her staying back at Shah House.

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Fantastic post.

There ain't a good reason, a sensible n logical one Anupamaa ever undertook.