Valuing a mother??

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Posted: 2 years ago
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When this show started out, defective Anuraj products were shown as examples of those who constantly undermined and disrespecting their mother. Never valued her efforts and emotions.

But there are others as well who are guilty of the same.

Padhi likhi Soorajpamaa aka Kinjal didn't pay heed to her mother at all and ran away to get married with a nikamma man into a worthless regressive family. She always shunned her mother, in favour of being a Shameless shah maid. However much her mother tried, she was just hell bent on being a doormat.

Soorajpamaa herself never bothered with listening to her mother. It has been a recurrent conversation where Kaanta asked her to avoid Shameless shahs and prioritise herself but even today, it was of no avail. Not only has Sooraj ignored all her motherly advice, she even gave a greater status to abusive mawaali jhuli and effectively replaced her own mother. When Kaanta came to take her after the revelation of the affair, Matkewaali Maa insisted that she'd never leave the shameless shahs till her death and her words ring true.


If Soorajpamaa experiences hurt at all the wrong decisions and actions of her defective Anuraj products wouldn't Kaanta/Rakhi also experience pain at seeing their children actively disregard them to inflict suffering on themselves.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShahH8er

When this show started out, defective Anuraj products were shown as examples of those who constantly undermined and disrespecting their mother. Never valued her efforts and emotions.

But there are others as well who are guilty of the same.

Padhi likhi Soorajpamaa aka Kinjal didn't pay heed to her mother at all and ran away to get married with a nikamma man into a worthless regressive family. She always shunned her mother, in favour of being a Shameless shah maid. However much her mother tried, she was just hell bent on being a doormat.

Soorajpamaa herself never bothered with listening to her mother. It has been a recurrent conversation where Kaanta asked her to avoid Shameless shahs and prioritise herself but even today, it was of no avail. Not only has Sooraj ignored all her motherly advice, she even gave a greater status to abusive mawaali jhuli and effectively replaced her own mother. When Kaanta came to take her after the revelation of the affair, Matkewaali Maa insisted that she'd never leave the shameless shahs till her death and her words ring true.


If Soorajpamaa experiences hurt at all the wrong decisions and actions of her defective Anuraj products wouldn't Kaanta/Rakhi also experience pain at seeing their children actively disregard them to inflict suffering on themselves.

Infact, Anupama encourages Kinjal's behavior towards RD, giving her an ultimatum not to visit her or something like that.

Double standards, thy name is Anupamaa! 👍🏼


maa, beti bahu yada yada yada.... Anupama is the worst example of maa beti & bahu ( saheli, neighbor & everything under the sun). 😡😈

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Ha yaar this show is about a mother and her journey. But that lady herself never cared about her mother. I agree saas maa jaise hi. Par it should be vice-versa.. leela never treated Anupama as her daughter. Its her misunderstanding. If Leela would've treated like daughter never give her baddua.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: amulbaby06

Ha yaar this show is about a mother and her journey. But that lady herself never cared about her mother. I agree saas maa jaise hi. Par it should be vice-versa.. leela never treated Anupama as her daughter. Its her misunderstanding. If Leela would've treated like daughter never give her baddua.

She can give all respect to baa even if baa insults her but should have give the same respect to her own maa. If she wants her children respect than should have ask kinjal to respect Rakhi who wanted well-being of kinjal. It’s not that only shah deserved respect from everyone.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Lol imagine being blessed with having MAA in your name but still failing to be a good MAA 🤪

Aisa kaam toh sirf hamari Surajpama kar sakti hai

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Trollbaaz

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Criticiser

Lol imagine being blessed with having MAA in your name but still failing to be a good MAA 🤪

Aisa kaam toh sirf hamari Surajpama kar sakti hai

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A person who can't even be good to her own mother and listen to her wishes is glorified on daily basis as the Besht 🤣

Kanta requested her so many times to ignore the Shameless Shahs but how could she ignore her Maalkinn mawaali Jhuli. Zindagi bhar Ghulami ki jo lat lag gayi hai, kaise jayegi ab 😈

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShahH8er

A person who can't even be good to her own mother and listen to her wishes is glorified on daily basis as the Besht 🤣

Kanta requested her so many times to ignore the Shameless Shahs but how could she ignore her Maalkinn mawaali Jhuli. Zindagi bhar Ghulami ki jo lat lag gayi hai, kaise jayegi ab 😈

I’m still waiting for her to ditch her Amreeka plan and run to Shameless Shahs and beg her Baa Bhagwan for forgiveness for even thinking of leaving Amdavad 😆
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Rakhi maybe Devilish for all but loves Kinjal like anything. I agree her actions are too much but Shahs are also not lesser than any. In one of the initial episodes Anupama shouted on Toshu and Pakhi as they didn't said anything when people thought Kavya is their mother. She said a mother can't accept that. Then the same thing is happening with Rakhi. Why never ever she said anything

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Because maybe in Anupamaverse only Anupama is maa who deserve her children respect, Baa is only bade who can say and do anything but no one can say anything to her, Vanraj is only one who is achche(pita beta insaan) even after he kill someone. That’s Anupamaverse.

Posted: 2 years ago
#10

This post is so true.

In this show, motherhood is looked in a very different lense.


Kinju-Rakhi Dave duo.....chaotic

Anupamaa-kanta.... its like non existent. Anupamaa, i think, doesn't know that actually kanta gave her birth. She has zero connection to her mom. No value in her life.


Sweeturi-Anupamaa. Oh, the misconduct n disrespectfulness of that daughter!

Toshu-Anupamaa....

Samar-Anupamaa?

I mean the ex samar n anu was ❤️, this new one? (Never knew changing an actor, also changed personality n character trait)


Only person who respect her momma is Vannu.

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