I stand by Dimpy

After being a personal victim of losing my mental sanity for respecting elders and being ostracized because I married as per my own wishes, I totally stand by what Dimpy is doing.

• She was never looked at with a welcoming look by the Shahs (except Samar and Kinjal) when she first came in after being r**ped and abandoned. Everyone was either judging her for being violated or was hating her for putting the family in danger.

• Her judgment for Anupamaa is partly justified, because she knew that Anupamaa will never speak harshly against the shahs, come what may. It's also why she thinks Kinjal is ganging up with Leela against her and finds her supportive words difficult to believe. Yes there is Barkha's brain poisoning, but even without that, she has been a permanent babysitter for CA and seen Anuj's undivided attention to her vs Anupamaa being constantly conflicted, especially for people who badmouth her. It's difficult to feel sympathy for someone who is ruining her own life to support people who constantly spew hatred. Remember when she said "Choti ignore to hui hai" but was immediately shut up for good? Hence it's not just money that makes her support Anuj over Anupamaa.

• Dimpy suggested change of DA's name that was ungrateful, but why don't we see that the main trigger was not just Anupamaa coming in, but also bringing her unemployed minions who were unnecessarily meddling with DA affairs under the pretext of "making things more comfortable for MAA". And wasn't Anupamaa leaving the DA that was on Dukhmukh's land a good way of snapping ties with the Shahs, she started a new DA in a place that's rightfully hers anyways right?? I was silently supporting Dimple even in that track and loved it just because MAA was finally out of that manhoos property tax sucking building.

• All the arguments happening in Shah house are because Dimpy is calling a spade a spade. She had never said anything that was factually incorrect. But she is hated for disrespecting elders.
• And what exactly is respect? Staying in the same room with a man who cheated on you, is hardly grateful for how you helped him in paralysis, is making entitled flirtatious moves on you to have another child even when he has no new source of income, and is giving total Marital Rape vibes (remember the ek haseena thi dance?), and yet you will not leave because you respect elders?? And also Kinjal will not fully support Dimple, when she says one word in support of her, she has to balance it by giving another line of pseudorespect to VanLee. Since it is being shown recently in some other shows too, I am seriously shuddering at the prospect of makers showing MR between KinTosh not because of the track itself, but because how conveniently Toshu will be forgiven again just after some slaps and a few days of being kicked out and Kinjal will never leave Shah House.

• Dimpy is scaring Leela not because she will break the house but because she will open the can of worms of VanLeeTosh have festered and has been kept shut by the RESPECT of Anupamaa and Kinjal.

But its seriously applaudable to see writers who made a rape victim a villain and a bunch of abusers and adulters the victims, just by showing that she is loud mouthed and has no filter. Good that Devika didn't stay close to this circle else she would have been another villain sudharofied by MAA.

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Dimple giving it back to Baa and Pakhi for her badtameezi is not wrong,but there are hundred other things which she does are completely wrong!!She's always on the lookout for behaving badly with HS members,even if they do not provoke her,what kind of a sane person does this?With Baa and Pakhi,okay,because they are like that, but with kinjal,toshu,kavya?What wrong have they done to her?Okay,agree that Anupama involving her kids in DA affairs was wrong,but if she wasn't liking it,she could have politely raised her concerns about it to Anupamaa, instead she acts like as if she is the owner of the DA,and eventually manages to throw out Anupama from her own academy, and even if Anupamaa involved her kids in the DA,dimpy didn't have any rights to complain about it as it was still very much Anupama's academy!!Secondly her pointing out Maa's mistakes of not paying attention to CA,agreed she was speaking the truth,but when a person who has literally saved u from hell and turned ur life around for good,any grateful person would at least think twice before directly speaking against that person who saved u,no matter even if it is the truth that she is saying,she could have made anupama understand her wrongdoing some other time,but no,she says this thing right in front of Anuj knowing that this definitely will worsen the situation for Anupamaa,also about her supporting Anuj is basically 99% because she wants a stable financially support and hardly 1% because she feels Anuj is in the right,and even if Anuj she genuinely feels Anuj is in the right and wants Anupama to realize her mistakes, then the right thing to do would have been in my opinion to speak to Anupama about his and making her understand and not lashing out the mistakes she has done in her arguments like an ungrateful b*tch!!For heaven's sake this,girl was living in KH even after Anupamaa left and despite her badtameezi Anupama never asked her to leave KH or DA when she could easily do that, and despite of all this she still remains ungrateful to her,I don't think that such kind of a person can ever be right!!

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

After being a personal victim of losing my mental sanity for respecting elders and being ostracized because I married as per my own wishes, I totally stand by what Dimpy is doing.

• She was never looked at with a welcoming look by the Shahs (except Samar and Kinjal) when she first came in after being r**ped and abandoned. Everyone was either judging her for being violated or was hating her for putting the family in danger.

• Her judgment for Anupamaa is partly justified, because she knew that Anupamaa will never speak harshly against the shahs, come what may. It's also why she thinks Kinjal is ganging up with Leela against her and finds her supportive words difficult to believe. Yes there is Barkha's brain poisoning, but even without that, she has been a permanent babysitter for CA and seen Anuj's undivided attention to her vs Anupamaa being constantly conflicted, especially for people who badmouth her. It's difficult to feel sympathy for someone who is ruining her own life to support people who constantly spew hatred. Remember when she said "Choti ignore to hui hai" but was immediately shut up for good? Hence it's not just money that makes her support Anuj over Anupamaa.

• Dimpy suggested change of DA's name that was ungrateful, but why don't we see that the main trigger was not just Anupamaa coming in, but also bringing her unemployed minions who were unnecessarily meddling with DA affairs under the pretext of "making things more comfortable for MAA". And wasn't Anupamaa leaving the DA that was on Dukhmukh's land a good way of snapping ties with the Shahs, she started a new DA in a place that's rightfully hers anyways right?? I was silently supporting Dimple even in that track and loved it just because MAA was finally out of that manhoos property tax sucking building.

• All the arguments happening in Shah house are because Dimpy is calling a spade a spade. She had never said anything that was factually incorrect. But she is hated for disrespecting elders.
• And what exactly is respect? Staying in the same room with a man who cheated on you, is hardly grateful for how you helped him in paralysis, is making entitled flirtatious moves on you to have another child even when he has no new source of income, and is giving total Marital Rape vibes (remember the ek haseena thi dance?), and yet you will not leave because you respect elders?? And also Kinjal will not fully support Dimple, when she says one word in support of her, she has to balance it by giving another line of pseudorespect to VanLee. Since it is being shown recently in some other shows too, I am seriously shuddering at the prospect of makers showing MR between KinTosh not because of the track itself, but because how conveniently Toshu will be forgiven again just after some slaps and a few days of being kicked out and Kinjal will never leave Shah House.

• Dimpy is scaring Leela not because she will break the house but because she will open the can of worms of VanLeeTosh have festered and has been kept shut by the RESPECT of Anupamaa and Kinjal.

But its seriously applaudable to see writers who made a rape victim a villain and a bunch of abusers and adulters the victims, just by showing that she is loud mouthed and has no filter.

Good that Devika didn't stay close to this circle else she would have been another villain sudharofied by MAA.

Well said

But with Anuj's point they didn't show all this you wrote, it's more like between the lines what was more visible that Anuj is wealthy and she doesn't want to leave that comfort of Kapadia house and wants right over that house and his property somehow that's Why always supporting Anuj over Anupama

If they show।her monologue or inner conflict or anything why she does this it would have made her look good but they want to show Leela was right from the start so

Hey Hope you are fine.

Actually dimple is in same league of baa and pakhi n behaves badly with everyone without any reasons.

Baa and pakhi taunt her so her giving back is fine but Kinjal tries to help her n is kind to her still she behaves badly with her. In normal life ppl try to make bonds n find support in in-laws house.

Toshu n vanraj r also normal with her but still she taunts them. Her agenda looks like to taunt everyone but never see her own fault like baa and pakhi.

Also she was scheming before marriage that she make everyone dance to her tune which was completely wrong.

Since I am not watching just reading post like this, makes me excited. I to agree. I am on board with Dimpy giving Baa, Pakhi’s and rest of the Shah including Anupama hell. 👏👏👏👏

Welcome back. Wish you a speedy recovery.

My only problem with Dimpy is her entitlement. She thinks Anuj is bound to sponsor her lavish wedding. She has no love or respect for Anuj but shamelessly demands luxury from him. She knows S's financial condition yet demands a luxurious honeymoon. Kinjal is trying to forge a bond with her, but she is so disrespectful towards her. She mocked K's pregnancy knowing K supported her when she sought justice. Baa and P were always rude toward her, but she wedged a war with the entire family.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

After being a personal victim of losing my mental sanity for respecting elders and being ostracized because I married as per my own wishes, I totally stand by what Dimpy is doing.

• She was never looked at with a welcoming look by the Shahs (except Samar and Kinjal) when she first came in after being r**ped and abandoned. Everyone was either judging her for being violated or was hating her for putting the family in danger.

• Her judgment for Anupamaa is partly justified, because she knew that Anupamaa will never speak harshly against the shahs, come what may. It's also why she thinks Kinjal is ganging up with Leela against her and finds her supportive words difficult to believe. Yes there is Barkha's brain poisoning, but even without that, she has been a permanent babysitter for CA and seen Anuj's undivided attention to her vs Anupamaa being constantly conflicted, especially for people who badmouth her. It's difficult to feel sympathy for someone who is ruining her own life to support people who constantly spew hatred. Remember when she said "Choti ignore to hui hai" but was immediately shut up for good? Hence it's not just money that makes her support Anuj over Anupamaa.

• Dimpy suggested change of DA's name that was ungrateful, but why don't we see that the main trigger was not just Anupamaa coming in, but also bringing her unemployed minions who were unnecessarily meddling with DA affairs under the pretext of "making things more comfortable for MAA". And wasn't Anupamaa leaving the DA that was on Dukhmukh's land a good way of snapping ties with the Shahs, she started a new DA in a place that's rightfully hers anyways right?? I was silently supporting Dimple even in that track and loved it just because MAA was finally out of that manhoos property tax sucking building.

• All the arguments happening in Shah house are because Dimpy is calling a spade a spade. She had never said anything that was factually incorrect. But she is hated for disrespecting elders.
• And what exactly is respect? Staying in the same room with a man who cheated on you, is hardly grateful for how you helped him in paralysis, is making entitled flirtatious moves on you to have another child even when he has no new source of income, and is giving total Marital Rape vibes (remember the ek haseena thi dance?), and yet you will not leave because you respect elders?? And also Kinjal will not fully support Dimple, when she says one word in support of her, she has to balance it by giving another line of pseudorespect to VanLee. Since it is being shown recently in some other shows too, I am seriously shuddering at the prospect of makers showing MR between KinTosh not because of the track itself, but because how conveniently Toshu will be forgiven again just after some slaps and a few days of being kicked out and Kinjal will never leave Shah House.

• Dimpy is scaring Leela not because she will break the house but because she will open the can of worms of VanLeeTosh have festered and has been kept shut by the RESPECT of Anupamaa and Kinjal.

But its seriously applaudable to see writers who made a rape victim a villain and a bunch of abusers and adulters the victims, just by showing that she is loud mouthed and has no filter. Good that Devika didn't stay close to this circle else she would have been another villain sudharofied by MAA.

I understand Dimpy is behaving too much entitled over Anuj's money and what Samar should be doing for her like a honeymoon or a bigger room. But I do see valid reasons for her shouting. She can clearly see that people have gotten away with doing worse things. VanLeeTosh getting respect like nothing ever happened and Kinjal behaving with them exactly the same way as she behaves with Dimple and never calls out their mistakes, makes it difficult for her to give any kind of credibility to Kinjal's "support".

She has also seen both Anupamaa and self-proclaimed Choti Anupamaa get cheated upon so why will she copy their behavior to get their fate?

It's also clear that the hate is less for Kavya's child and more for Vanraj's child who has said so many problematic things against Dimple to prevent SamPle marriage. The way the child is now being so broad-mindedly accepted when more minor things were made an issue of by VanLeeTosh is so hypocritical and also kind of stealing Dimple's thunder of the excitement of her wedding will make anyone uncomfortable. Plus everyone is just making her do rituals without showing any happiness about it and all she is getting from Kinjal is consolation, not appreciation.

I understand I am reading too much between the lines. The writers have not written a deep script, the screaming and arguments are only to fling muck on Dimple so that VanLeeTosh look better and the victims here.

But I can't help point out the problems especially when I have dealt with similar situations in real life.

The best part about it is that Anupamaa is being kept away from this drama, because Dimple would have called out one of her hypocrisies too and suddenly every true thing Dimple says about other Shahs would also get negated.