Different treatment for pakhi and dimple by anupama ?! - Page 2

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : As a mother yaha decision nahi lena hota hai, employee dimple ka moral compass bekar hai yeh clearly dikh raha hai fir bhi uske suggestion ko itna weightage diya ki dance academy ki founder ne dance academy he chod diya! And samar was never founder of dance academy. He can be partner but not sole founder.

And Anupama chahe samar ko academy handover kare ya na kare, nobody can ask her to keep mum when it comes to deciding things about dance academy.

Clearly anupama ne khud ko mahaan portray karne ke liye he dimple ke against koi action nahi liya otherwise she is enough strong to put dimple on her place like she did with pakhi in the past.

Anupama should have moved out of that place soon after her marriage. Anupama didn't stopped dimpy because she wasn't just a employee but GF of samar n she knows samar wants to marry her. Though dimpy spoke n became bad but samar not stopping her meant he had same views. So technically she handed over academy to her son n would be bahu for their future.

Though if we see realistically, husband wife relations don't break so easily so after sometime when anuj's anger would have subsided he would have asked anupama to shift with him to Mumbai so in that way too she would be handing over academy to samar.

But she didn't handed over KM to barkha because barkha has no right over it but samar has right over academy n if dimpy marries samar she too would.

In a way it's good for anupama too as Shah's will keep coming there n interfere in her life n sometimes vanraj or baa or her bahu dimpy would be taunting her. Now at least she can be free from toxicity.

Though Dimpy's time too would come very soon after she keep adding more toxicity in her pot.

Anupama was doing pakhi's marriage from her earnings but pakhi wanted a wedding from anuj's earnings. So anupama can give her children her earned academy or money.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Anupama should have moved out of that place soon after her marriage. Anupama didn't stopped dimpy because she wasn't just a employee but GF of samar n she knows samar wants to marry her. Though dimpy spoke n became bad but samar not stopping her meant he had same views. So technically she handed over academy to her son n would be bahu for their future.

But she didn't handed over KM to barkha because barkha has no right over it but samar has right over academy n if dimpy marries samar she too would.

In a way it's good for anupama too as Shah's will keep coming there n interfere in her life n sometimes vanraj or baa or her bahu dimpy would be taunting her. Now at least she can be free from toxicity.

Agar fir bhi karna ho toh tyag hamesha layak logo ke liye karna chahiye, nalayak logo ke liye nahi.

Dekha jaye toh anupama tyag mai itni busy ho gayi ki usko yeh tak nahi samja ki ghatiya moral compass wali ladki ke sath shaddi ke liye apne bete ko ek baar NO bolna chahiye.

Chahe Jawan beta mane ya na mane, as a mother mai toh apne bete ko ek bar definitely warn karu ki itni greedy/rude and badttameez ladki se shaddi karne se pehle 10000 baar soch lena lekin anupama se itna bhi nahi hua academy se jate time. Warning dena toh maa ka sabse pehla dharm hota hai jab kisi bhi age par baccha galat sangat mai ho.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Point is samar ho ya samar ki gf, kisi ke bhi liye tyag ki zarurat nahi thi.

Agar fir bhi karna ho toh tyag hamesha layak logo ke liye karna chahiye, nalayak logo ke liye nahi.

Dekha jaye toh anupama tyag mai itni busy ho gayi ki usko yeh tak nahi samja ki ghatiya moral compass wali ladki ke sath shaddi ke liye apne bete ko ek baar NO bolna chahiye.

Chahe Jawan beta mane ya na mane, as a mother mai toh apne bete ko ek bar definitely warn karu ki itni greedy/rude and badttameez ladki se shaddi karne se pehle 10000 baar soch lena lekin anupama se itna bhi nahi hua academy se jate time. Warning dena toh maa ka sabse pehla dharm hota hai jab kisi bhi age par baccha galat sangat mai ho.

How can anupama be so sure that dimpy won't be a good wife. Many bad ppl r good spouse.Adhik too was selfish n greedy n planning n plotting but turned out to be a good husband.

Like vanraj is a bad husband but a good son, boyfriend n father n anuj is a bad brother but good husband n father.. Kinjal is a bad daughter but good bahu n wife. Different ppl act differently in different relationships.

Anupama herself has two failed marriage so she definitely should not give marriage advice to her son..

Samar said he has 10lakh loan pressure so anupama should not have became a reason for loss so it was correct to leave.

Originally posted by: naaznin

How can anupama be so sure that dimpy won't be a good wife. Many bad ppl r good spouse.Adhik too was selfish n greedy n planning n plotting but turned out to be a good husband.

Like vanraj is a bad husband but a good son, boyfriend n father n anuj is a bad brother but good husband n father.. Kinjal is a bad daughter but good bahu n wife. Different ppl act differently in different relationships.

Anupama herself has two failed marriage so she definitely should not give marriage advice to her son..

Samar said he has 10lakh loan pressure so anupama should not have became a reason for loss so it was correct to leave.

And yeh kya baat hui ki khud ki failed marriage hai toh bacche ko ek baar bhi warn na karo!

Nothing can justify anupama’s selectively mahanta syndrome.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Why can’t she be sure! 😱 Itna rude behaviour and greedy attitude dekhne ke baad koi bhi mother ko second thought aa jaye!

And yeh kya baat hui ki khud ki failed marriage hai toh bacche ko ek baar bhi warn na karo!

Nothing can justify anupama’s selectively mahanta syndrome.

Anuj too did same thing with his sister n what happened. His sister went into depression.

In foreign countries parents don't interfere in their children's love decision only here they do

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Point is samar ho ya samar ki gf, kisi ke bhi liye tyag ki zarurat nahi thi.

Agar fir bhi karna ho toh tyag hamesha layak logo ke liye karna chahiye, nalayak logo ke liye nahi.

Dekha jaye toh anupama tyag mai itni busy ho gayi ki usko yeh tak nahi samja ki ghatiya moral compass wali ladki ke sath shaddi ke liye apne bete ko ek baar NO bolna chahiye.

Chahe Jawan beta mane ya na mane, as a mother mai toh apne bete ko ek bar definitely warn karu ki itni greedy/rude and badttameez ladki se shaddi karne se pehle 10000 baar soch lena lekin anupama se itna bhi nahi hua academy se jate time. Warning dena toh maa ka sabse pehla dharm hota hai jab kisi bhi age par baccha galat sangat mai ho.

You are talking about normal people. But it's anupama,. For first few days Or weeks, she will garner sympathy votes by playing victim card, bechari Or tyag ki murti and one day, will become chandi to give tamacha as usual.

That day, she will get shaabashi.

See now, bechari apni academy chor di.. Dobara se start kiya..

When she has all the support, facilities, opportunities to fly, tab toh uda na gaya... Ab bechari bina fuel ke udegi toh jaata votes banege.

Pehle ek kaam na hua inse, khichdi banane ke alawa ya phir dadaji ku saath naachne ka

Ab tiffin service bhi chalayegi

Aachar murabba bhi banayengi

Dancch academy bhi chalayengi

Aur doosre haccho ke liye charity bhi karengi.

Dekhna raat ko taxi bhi chala rahi hogi. 😃🤣😂

Kapdia mansion mein anupama ko kya kaam

kaam karte hue dekhna chahte hai

Jhaadoo pocha

Bartan Dhona

Bathroom saaf karna

Kapde Dhona

Dusting karna

Jaale saaf karna .

Garden ki.safai

Paani bharna .

Kapde masala dhoop.dikhana

Achar papad sauce banana

Kitchen ke Almirah ki news paper change karna .

Bazaar se sabji doodh grocery laana

Fridge saaf karna

Kapde press karna

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

You are talking about normal people. But it's anupama,. For first few days Or weeks, she will garner sympathy votes by playing victim card, bechari Or tyag ki murti and one day, will become chandi to give tamacha as usual.

That day, she will get shaabashi.

See now, bechari apni academy chor di.. Dobara se start kiya..

When she has all the support, facilities, opportunities to fly, tab toh uda na gaya... Ab bechari bina fuel ke udegi toh jaata votes banege.

Pehle ek kaam na hua inse, khichdi banane ke alawa ya phir dadaji ku saath naachne ka

Ab tiffin service bhi chalayegi

Aachar murabba bhi banayengi

Dancch academy bhi chalayengi

Aur doosre haccho ke liye charity bhi karengi.

Dekhna raat ko taxi bhi chala rahi hogi. 😃🤣😂

Jab shaddi mai hoti hai tab usko bati hui reh kar khudko majbur aurat portray karna hota hai.

Lol there is a strong connection in between her divorce and careers. Dono ko sabhalna hum normal log he kar sakte hai, convenience wali tyag ki devi dono ek sath nahi kar sakti 😆

Forget to add car Dhona

Carpet saaf karna .

Doormat saaf karna

Balti mug Dhona

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kapdia mansion mein anupama ko kya kaam

kaam karte hue dekhna chahte hai

Jhaadoo pocha

Bartan Dhona

Bathroom saaf karna

Kapde Dhona

Dusting karna

Jaale saaf karna .

Garden ki.safai

Paani bharna .

Kapde masala dhoop.dikhana

Achar papad sauce banana

Kitchen ke Almirah ki news paper change karna .

Bazaar se sabji doodh grocery laana

Fridge saaf karna

Kapde press karna

Ek hi kaam par focus kar le.. Yeh wahi bahut hai. DA or financial course.

Baki rahi KM ki baat toh waha tikegi toh koi kaam kare gi.. Aaj tak khichdi banayi hai usne woh bhi baa ke liye.. Baaki toh isse chai banate bhi nahi dekha.

Wahan isse kaam hota nahi tha toh bechari kya karti sewa ke liye pahunch jaati thi. Shah house ke jaale utare, pari ki dekhbaalkar le. kM toh aaram karne ke liye ya penick attack ke liye jaati hai yeh