The stark difference between Anuj and Vanraj - Page 7

Originally posted by: gopi2929

But we are not talking about what Anuj did or did not do for Anupama's biological kids

We are talking about how is Anupama responsible for CA going with her biological mom?

Because Anuj trusted her.

She is the one who allowed Maya to stay for that crap 15 day challenge without asking Anuj.

When Anuj tried to take lead to stop Choti , she forcefully stopped him and thrust her decision on him. She let Maaya take Choti away. Anuj is a fool to not take stand and always bowing down to his wife's stupid decisions.

She didn't tell him what Choti has talked to her that day and both father daughter lived in delusion .

Originally posted by: Ankitz

Because Anuj trusted her.

She is the one who allowed Maya to stay for that crap 15 day challenge without asking Anuj.

When Anuj tried to take lead to stop Choti , she forcefully stopped him and thrust her decision on him. She let Maaya take Choti away. Anuj is a fool to not take stand and always bowing down to his wife's stupid decisions.

She didn't tell him what Choti has talked to her that day and both father daughter lived in delusion .

And yet anuj didn't do anything ... he had a choice to use his brains..he just didn't

And now blames anupama

Originally posted by: shriz

ok logical didi.. explain how maa logically understood that Maya is the biological mother?

I am listening 👂

And illogical didi.....who even said anupama was right to assume that? The point we are addressing here is why is anupama alone being blamed for this? Anuj is more to be blamed here ... the tycoon has 0 common sense or what ? How did he assume Maya was telling the truth?

Originally posted by: gopi2929

Even if she did, could she have stopped CA from going? If Maya is in fact her biological mother, it didn't matter if CA continued to believe that or not. Technically CA has nothing to do with Anuj Anupama anymore once the biological mother is in the picture

It's baseless to blame Anupama for CA's depature

Ofcourse it is a problem! The end does NOT justify the means.

1. If her revealing the truth would Not have made any difference to the result, why would she want to hide it, might as well reveal it.

2. @bold: The pivotal phrase here being IF. She was sure she is the biological mother through her Mamata meter and stopped others from a DNA Test under law.

3. When she knew that Maaya is the biological mother and is right morally, ethically in claiming her child, why did she go for an unethical, immoral 15-day challenge?

a. Even during the 15-day challenge not give her 100 percent in the remainder of days that she had. She did not return to Kapadia Mansion because Choti Anu wanted to go on a picnic but because Maaya would go otherwise.

b. If the argument (what the over intelligent Dheeraj memtioned) was to prepare Anuj with some time to bid good-bye, why did she falsefully promise him otherwise? What did she do in these 15-days to prepare him? Was it not playing with his emotions. Yes Anuj's fault to have trusted Anupama rather than take matters into his own hands.

4. By DNA, they have nothing to do with Choti Anu but emotionally he is connected. And emotions have nothing to do with any thing technically and scientifically, right? Anupama wouldn't feel it because she wasn't emotionally involved.

Did Anupama not know how deeply emotional he is about Choti Anu? Anuj himself has, on many occasions clarified that?

What would her actions conclude about Anupama Who knew ALL along What was to happen and Why?

As for Anuj, he was a goner, first the day he gave up on his family (an emotionally vulnerable Malavika) for Anupama and secondly when he made Anupama the owner of ALL his assets.

Anupama should have known how much he is craving a family of his own.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

And illogical didi.....who even said anupama was right to assume that? The point we are addressing here is why is anupama alone being blamed for this? Anuj is more to be blamed here ... the tycoon has 0 common sense or what ? How did he assume Maya was telling the truth?

In this forum anupama is not blamed for sending ca but for other reasons:

Reason no 1-

For not telling ca that she is not responsible for their fight.She let that child go in the guilt and for that she is rightfully blamed.

Reason no 2-

For not telling anuj that ca went because of Maya's manipulation and not because he was not a good father to her. That would ease him and atleast he won't feel guilty for being a bad father.

Reason no 3-

For convincing anuj to not go the legal way when he wanted that. Ofcourse anuj too is to be blamed here and we have rightfully done that when that episode aired. Maybe try going back a few pages are read the older threads where we literally address him as anupama's puppy.

Reason no 4-

For locking anuj in the room. I won't even start on that coz that was clearly abuse and imagine if it was done to a lady🤢

Reason no 5-

For pushing pulling and forcing a depressed person to talk 🤢

Anyway i won't write anymore reasons coz i know very well that you are not here to debate but just for fun and bullying other members. I was just giving you the taste of your own medicine by being rude to you.

Anuj should be blamed but only for being brainless and trusting a manipulator like anupama. He is spineless loser who doesn't know how to take a stand for himself and anyone he loves and snakes like anupama and shahs take advantage of that .

Gosh! 3 hours, 2 cups of coffee, 23 emails done and we are still here?🤣🤣🤣

Anupama ki tarah hamara bhi kuch nahi ho sakta😳

Anupama should divorce Anuj and start her journey over. I want to see her journey. Kya ye furniture ka rona dhona dikhare

Originally posted by: strancho

Anupama should divorce Anuj and start her journey over. I want to see her journey. Kya ye furniture ka rona dhona dikhare

How about show ko hi band Kar Dena chahiye?

The journey now is like "Sou choohe khaake.........".

Sorry if it was rude or insensitive.

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

How about show ko hi band Kar Dena chahiye?

The journey now is like "Sou choose khaake.........".

Sorry if it was rude or insensitive.

You need not be sorry. I seriously restrain myself sometimes or else Hina di will throw me out of this forum.

Originally posted by: strancho

You need not be sorry. I seriously restrain myself sometimes or else Hina di will throw me out of this forum.