and yet their suffering seems the same!
This may come across as extremely insensitive but Anupama brought out the good, the bad and the ugly in these two men.
She has the ability to vilify anyone. Even to the point that a little kid is blamed to be the hurdle in her ‘progressive’ journey to ungodly levels of immorality. She is insecure to the hilt.
Now that I’ve vented lets talk of the glaring difference between Vanraj and Anuj, acche pita I love you on other days but kacche pita just claimed top position.
He was so clear with his feelings, pehle mujhe tumhare bina saas nahi aati thi, ab tumhare sath saas nahi aati…he never once tried to deny why he feels different now, how she pulled him down and brought him to this stage where he cannot bear to see her face…she being the reason his most prized relation isnt with him anymore, his outburst resonated with every ‘human’. He didnt say he hated her, just that he needed the time and space to recover…he didnt once push her or even touch her in a violent way…
Now comes the difference, perhaps Anupama expected him to raise his hand or be physical like her ex to show his anger and frustration. I was gobsmacked when she said cheekiye, chillaye, cheezein todiye, mujhse gussa ho jaayiye par baat kijiye’ …and when he spilled his heart out in the most dignified manner, not once crossing the line of abuse all she has to say is ‘mujhpar vishwas toh nai na?’ I was like seriously? did you not hear even a word he said? does she have a fetish for abuse? sorry again for sounding insensitive but this is exactly how it came across to me.
Vanraj abused her emotionally and still continues to do so. He shamed her for all her shortcomings and yet she holds him and his family in high regard but when it came to Anuj, he only expressed how he felt about being married to her, people were quick in calling him an abuser, like how exactly? what has she given to this relation to expect anything?
I dont know if I’m even making sense any more so I’ll stop, I’m pretty sure you all know where I’m getting at…
#anotherSundaywasted
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