Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 16 Mar 2023 - Page 8

bhai ye kaunsi type ki lady hai anupama mujhe aaj tak samajh nahi aaya, OK I agree ki usko 4th time mom nahi banna hoga, but the person who loves CA (anuj) at least usko toh kuch karne deti naa, why she stopped him to do anything, anuj is absolutely correct in blaming Anupama.

OK in all this we ignored one thing, just look at the maturity level of AK, even though he disagreed with his wife's decision then also he did not start that tamasha "mai pita hoon aur pita kaa dukh maun hota hai" in front of everyone, he just supported her in that decision and allowed CA to go, usne baad me react kiya and isko kehte hain respect dena, aur koi hota naa toh ussi time naa jane kya kar deta and this women does not even give damn to his love and respect.

aur dusri cheez, I don't have problem if Anupama does not love CA as much as she loves her 3 defected cases because I understand she does not ned more children,

but my problem is ki why she pretends to love her as much as her 3 children and even if she does not love her at least uska dhayaan toh rakkho, usse utna pyaar toh karo jitna normal insaan ek dusre se karte hain.

However, I disagree with a point which is constantly being highlighted in this forum ki foster parents have no love for their kids or adopted parents have no love for their kids and only biological parents can love their children truely, I don't feel this is true, may be I am wrong or may be it is just a generation gap, but still I disagree. Even people start feeling something for their pets then why Anuj cannot feel anything for CA, yes, I agree that he needs time to become a good father but still there is no doubt that he loves CA. I did not mentioned Anupama because according to me she does not love CA as much as she loves her own kids, but this does not happens in every case.

Ek baat samajh nahi aayiwhenever Anupama online rating increase but trp rate decrease

It already happened two times

Last time anupama online rating increase but trp decrease

This time also anupama online rating increase by 1 point but trp decrease by 1 point

and one more thing, Bhagwaan naa karen but if tomorrow something happens to CA and maya is found to be an evil women or something like that, then anupama will/should be only blamed for this, she was the only one who said "mai maa hoon ne" and stopped the DNA test and she is the only one who did not even allow anuj to stop CA, so blame will be completely on her and she should be blamed for all this, for keeping 15 days challenge and betting on CA.

I don't know whether I should say this or not, but why is she reacting as if she wants to say "accha hua bala tali" not wanting to become a mother is a different thing, but how anupama is behaving is altogether different, even my mom will not handover a kid especially when she is a (not trying to do gender discrimination, but generally saying) female child to any random person, even my mom will check the details and then only handover the child. Here toh they have fostered, their responsibility should be more, how did she allowed to go ca so confidently with someone else just on the bases of assumption of "maa kaa dil".

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

and one more thing, Bhagwaan naa karen but if tomorrow something happens to CA and maya is found to be an evil women or something like that, then anupama will/should be only blamed for this, she was the only one who said "mai maa hoon ne" and stopped the DNA test and she is the only one who did not even allow anuj to stop CA, so blame will be completely on her and she should be blamed for all this, for keeping 15 days challenge and betting on CA.

I don't know whether I should say this or not, but why is she reacting as if she wants to say "accha hua bala tali" not wanting to become a mother is a different thing, but how anupama is behaving is altogether different, even my mom will not handover a kid especially when she is a (not trying to do gender discrimination, but generally saying) female child to any random person, even my mom will check the details and then only handover the child. Here toh they have fostered, their responsibility should be more, how did she allowed to go ca so confidently with someone else just on the bases of assumption of "maa kaa dil".

Truly and this woman claims she loves choti apni galti accept karne ko tayaar nahi ye mahaan aurat aur saath saath Anupama sol fans🤔🤦Bhai ye aurat wakai gazab hai iske saath koi kaise reh payega she is hell dangerous Bhai Anupma atum ek kaam karo choti ke saath saath Anuj ko jaane do .

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

3.1 🥳 #TRPQueenMaaya 😈

https://twitter.com/GossipsTv/status/1636256909815840771?cxt=HHwWhoDQ7a-_k7UtAAAA

Ohh yes Trp got so stagnant for a while, Maaya revived the lost trp Kudos to Maaya for adding drama and spice to the otherwise boring and stale Anupamaa😆

Originally posted by: Sleeepyy

Ohh yes Trp got so stagnant for a while, Maaya revived the lost trp Kudos to Maaya for adding drama and spice to the otherwise boring and stale Anupamaa😆

Maaya is an actual character with grey shades (not Trash)

She may turn negative later but in any case such as a character which leaves people guessing is more interesting than supposedly positive character giving bhashan 24/7

Originally posted by: ga1986

I kinda agree with this .I havent been watching episodes and mostly catching on updates , so I refrained from commenting ,thinking I might have missed something out . But I dont understand why ppl are calling him out to be "too obsessive " or expect him to simply handover the child to Maaya or worst he should just forget about CA and go in for a surrogate or adopt another child . Yes , his behaviour from begining of the track has been irrational - from not doing BG check on Maya and now Sampath's claims , the uncalled for hostility , agreeing for 30 day extension of the senseless shart etc , but expecting him to not grieve and simply handover the child to a person (who btw not only has a dubious BG but has time and again shown malicious intent ) and carry on with life normally is bit too much .

As a character Anuj was always shown to have strong , often irrational attachments (like in Anupamaa's case ) so this part of the reaction is consistent of his ch arc . What is not consistent is why he's suddenly turned into a passive agressive Vanraj 2.0 or being such a fool and allowing Deviji to lead knowing her previous track record in judging people and situations .

He did not sir the child, he is fostering her. He feels attched to her like a father figure. But once the birth mother is in pic, he cannot throw a fit and say that he is now attched to the child and won't let the child be with her mom or start declaring that his life has no meaning without the child.

No matter how strong his attachment is, he cannot override birth parents. That is why some of us here think his obsession is unreasonable.

There is no denying that a father showers equal love & affection to their child like a mother does. And ofcourse, we have to discount everything illogical such as not validating Maaya's claims etc.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I haven't been watching the show either. But based on the written updates, pics & clips I was also one of them who thought Anuj was obsessed with CA. His expression of grief is what made me believe he is obsessed.

He did not sir the child, he is fostering her. He feels attched to her like a father figure. But once the birth mother is in pic, he cannot throw a fit and say that he is now attched to the child and won't let the child be with her mom or start declaring that his life has no meaning without the child.

No matter how strong his attachment is, he cannot override birth parents. That is why some of us here think his obsession is unreasonable.

There is no denying that a father showers equal love & affection to their child like a mother does. And ofcourse, we have to discount everything illogical such as not validating Maaya's claims etc.

I agree!

Anuj's intense emotional attachment towards Choti is understandable. His immense pain and suffering at the loss is also understandable.

Where I sensed obsession used to be in his way of talking to Anupama, behind his every tone, behind his every word, nothing said too directly, but the implication seemed to be: I want my daughter with me forever. If you don't get me my daughter back, I might put all the responsibility and blame on you.

Or in this case:

I don't see any grief or pain on your face. You're not panicking like me. How can you be like this - what kind of mother are you?

His conflicting feelings towards Maya was understandable because she symbolized the power that can take Choti away from him, but even before she was turned into a very grey character, and after actually hearing her story (which is not proven to be false) - showing it through actions and alienating her to the level he did - again felt like the manifestation of some sort of obsession.

Why couldn't some sort of visitation rights or joint custody be worked out I've no idea. Wait I actually do. It's too logical.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I haven't been watching the show either. But based on the written updates, pics & clips I was also one of them who thought Anuj was obsessed with CA. His expression of grief is what made me believe he is obsessed.

He did not sir the child, he is fostering her. He feels attched to her like a father figure. But once the birth mother is in pic, he cannot throw a fit and say that he is now attched to the child and won't let the child be with her mom or start declaring that his life has no meaning without the child.

No matter how strong his attachment is, he cannot override birth parents. That is why some of us here think his obsession is unreasonable.

There is no denying that a father showers equal love & affection to their child like a mother does. And ofcourse, we have to discount everything illogical such as not validating Maaya's claims etc.

Absolutely agree. And there is a lot of nuance to be understood here. The criticism is of his stubbornness at not coming to any compromise or arrangement. The very attachment is not questioned but the refusal to accept that a biological parent has a greater right on the child (at least until she is proved to be a fraud or unfit mother). It is simply not about a father's role or whether he can provide equal love. That was never contended.

The makers have very cleverly managed to portray Anuj being irrational in a scenario after weeks or rather months of Anupamaa being unfair. The tipping point where he bursts out should have been much before but is carefully brought in at a scene where she's not being unreasonable as usual and she gets the sympathy for her motives being questioned (which should have been done long ago)

Added later: It's just not about two perspectives here. That if you're critical of Anuj on some point, you're on the side of Anupamaa or vice versa. As a viewer and not a fan of either of these fictional characters, can only go by what the makers show and voice out accordingly and a certain disagreement in opinions does not imply that the whole basis/character is being criticised

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Absolutely agree. And there is a lot of nuance to be understood here. The criticism is of his stubbornness at not coming to any compromise or arrangement. The very attachment is not questioned but the refusal to accept that a biological parent has a greater right on the child (at least until she is proved to be a fraud or unfit mother). It is simply not about a father's role or whether he can provide equal love. That was never contended.

The makers have very cleverly managed to portray Anuj being irrational in a scenario after weeks or rather months of Anupamaa being unfair. The tipping point where he bursts out should have been much before but is carefully brought in at a scene where she's not being unreasonable as usual and she gets the sympathy for her motives being questioned (which should have been done long ago)

Couldnt agree more! The timing cannot be more manipulative.

The outburst was due long ago... Its a culmination of months of ignorance & blinded love.

Thats why its said too much of anything is harmful!

The issue is CA is being used as an excuse. The heart or core of the actual problem was never CA it was misplaced priority!

Being good at cost of someone elses peace of mind cannot be termed as act of greatness..