Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul
If we go in technicalities of adoption then may be maan are not eligible for it. But maaya doesn't have any rights either if she gave her up before and only appeared after 6-7 years when the kid is already in foster care. She is no good mother either. Suppose if any other couple eligible for adoption have taken ca then what? Would you have still want maaya to take ca back.
She may have painful back story but what took her 7 years to come back is beyond my comprehension.
Jo log maid servant ka kaam karte hain wo log bhi bachha paalte hain aur unhe acchi facilities dete hain. Maaya ko independent hone ke liye ek decent si job kaafi thi, zaruri nahi tha ki usko crorepati banne ke baad hi aana hai. This is stupid perspective, matlab agat wo kabhi ameer nahi ban paati to kya kabhi apni bachhi ke liye wapas nahi aati? Aur itne saalo baad wapas aayi bhi to apna main motive bhul kar kisi dusre ke pati ko fasaane lagi. She is no saint. If maan is not ideal parents for ca then definitely maaya is also not right for her.
And at first I supported maaya because she was shown as genuine woman. However I still had objection on her reason of coming back after so many years. But still since maan is fostering ca only from some months and ca has biological parent alive who wants to take care of her then i felt maan could have let go ca but then change in maaya's character and also .i have a thought about it from a different pov, it changed my view about it.
I came to know about a instance from mother about some distant relatives. They didn't have children and were looking for adoption. One day they come to know that a lady has left her newborn in hospital. The govt. Agencies took baby in govt run adoption center and from there thia couple got the baby for fostering. They in middle of the adoption process when that lady came back and demanded her baby back. Apparently she was pregnant before marriage so she gave up baby to save her self From humiliation but later she got married to the father of baby and both of them came back to claim baby. This is the true case, I am not making up stories here, so here the real govt. authorities denied them any details about the location of baby. They clearly told them that have lost their legal rights to have baby back. Now here if real parents wanted they could have sued the adoption center and child care authorities, but they didn't, they accepted their decision.
In this show, the difference is maaya came back after so many years and she didn't even inform anyone she is alive or not. After 7 years if person is not found even court declares their civil death. So maaya came after so many years and demands ca back who is already in foster care. Maan do have a legal case in their favour.
I understand its everybody's hatred and frustration towards maan but a fact is a fact. Everyone hoped maaya to be sensible one but makers made her another lunatic woman. So if there is choice with whom ca should live then I'll prefer known lunatics than an unknown one.
There is difference between prostitution and maids or prisoners no one will eye or try to kidnap maid kids or prisoners kids etc
Prostitute have tough life even outside world
no one respect them all try to take advantage and target them
Maid can keep kid anywhere they want
a former prostitute cannot
what if her ex lover comes and suddenly takes CA and sold her off to make money
Or maya former captors come and snatch CA and sell her off
Without knowing reality of life people are comparing prostitutes to maids etc
Please read what happened to neetu singh grand mom she was sold like maya only than what happened to her daughter etc
Why prostitutes do not keep daughters with them after becoming free please read reality of life than blindly comment
No mother if prostitute will keep her daughter with her just like maya for kids safety till they can arrange that safe place
It takes decades to find safe place for a girl child for a woman like maya in real life too as laws and society is cruel in asia
this is no usa where prostitute daugher will be treated like commoner girl she will be treated as a child or girl to be used by majority men in society
also if you visit Mumbai, Bangalore etc metro many laborers, poor slum leave kids in orphanage so that they have safe upbringing
what about prisoners are they no kid home and school run by police for them?
Just because anuj is rich anupama is devi we cannot say maya is bad as shes prostitute before. She has right on her kids and not signed away
Maya worked hard for 7 years now has enough money to get her CA protection from society and bad men so why cannot she take her child with her?
Many mother in such circumstance can never make enough money to become like maya in first place atleast one woman did - instead of allowing her to live with her daughter maan and kapadiyas and shahs are treating her like criminal
Please read article below to know why maya left CA in orphange
https://ruralindiaonline.org/en/articles/everyone-knows-what-happens-here-to-girls/
Edited by myviewprem - 2 years ago