Why does anupama take things so seriously ?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: surabhi01

When I am talking about when vanraj was husband of anupama that he should take anupama to therapist . So from where Kapadia come in between

Anuj tabhi admission form laaya when anupama shown her grivennance that she is not much educated other wise ise pehle Anuj form lekar kyon nahi aaya

Shaayad anupama ko Pata nahi hoga ki 45 years mein bhi padhai ki jaa sakti Hai. Use lagta hoga ki ab woh formal education ke liye late ho gayi to isliye anupama ne nahi bola ki woh apni padhai poora karna chahti hai

It is when anuj told her that there is no sge of learning then anupama got to know is age mein padhai ki jaa sakti Hai

And English tutor bhi kya English seekhayega . Wph bhi check karega anupama ko theek se English aaye hai nahi tabhi woh English seekhaya kyonki English tutor apne upar jyaada burden nahi Lena chahta hai

And it is fact aaj Kal tutor log unhi ko padhana pasamd karte hai jinhe pehle se hi uske us subject ke baare mein achi knowledge ho

Tutor log anupama jaise log ko padhana hi nahi pasand karenge when she has problem in speaking sorry

Anupama is not 5 yr old kid for which Anuj decides on his own to admit her in school. Whatever growth Anupama has is all thanks to Anuj. He gave her a chance to work in his company. Taught her everything about the business, and yeh Anupama khud boli hai, I know because I watched the episode and heard anupama's dialogues.

He even helped her with her dance academy when he lost his empire, even at that time he was focusing on anupama's growth and helped her get international contract.

And we are questioning him ki woh pehle form kyun nahi laaya?

Earlier Anupama's fans had a problem when we questioned that she left her husband for celebrations right after his brain surgery and seizure attack. Tab Anupama ko apne liye freedom ki baat thi, to fir us freedom mein khud ke liye admission form nahi laayi? Coz only anupama knows that she regrets not finishing her degree.

As soon as Anuj found out, he got her admission. That is what I am talking about. When u find out a problem, u solve it. You don't cry to every person that u missed a change to do it.

Anupama ko sab pata hai. well, that is what makers have shown so far. Anupama har subject pe lecture deti hai.

English tutor's job is to teach english, why would that be a burden? It is his job not a samaaj seva.

Tutor teaches what u dont know. Why do u need a tutor if u already know how to speak english?

If Anuj is helping anupama then anupama also showing eagerness to learn anuj iskiye help kar paa raha hai kyonki anupama khud ki bhi icvha hai seekhne mi

BTW even it anui who intiate anupama to study at least anupama did not refuse aor unwillgness that that she don't want to study at athis age .she is also excited fo study

So now you agree that Anupama only progresses/works on when someone offers her a readymade opportunity.

Like you mentioned Anupama showed eagerness "after" Anuj found a course, and got her admission and convinced her to join the course.

That is what we have been discussing about. Anupama does not work on correcting her shortcomings but keeps playing victim and keeps arguing how she did not get a chance to do it coz of her mother or in laws until someone (in her case always her loving "current" husband Anuj) offers her an opportunity.

With the attitude Anu has, Anuj looks more like her papa than her husband. Haath pakadke ischool bhejna, business mein free entry like an undeserving nepokid, lending lakhs of money to make up for the mistakes done by her - from which angle it looks like a marriage of equals? Heck even a marriage ? Papa Anuj is trying hard to uplift and secure Anupama’s fame, name and the position of her to be able to continue with her bhashangiri.

Eagerness natural hoti Hai Anuj can only bring form but no body can create eagerness forcefully

Anupama ke andar eagerness thi woh natural thi

In one of episode when anupama drink bhaag under effect of bhaang she blurt out complain to shah that to mujhe Kaha gaya tha ki shaadi ke baad padhai poori karwayenge but kisi ne meri padhai poori nahi karwayi

To anupama ko shuru se hi khud se padhai karne ki iccha thi but she does not get opportunity

And now as I told anupama might be thinking now it is late to complete her education that she why could not tell Anuj she want to get admission in college

It is anuj when told ki seekne ki age nahi hoti then anupama realise is age mein bhi education complete Kiya jaa sakta hau

If she did not know if one can enroll in college at 45 then why did not she find out like Anuj did? She could contact any college and find out if it is possible to study at that age if she really was eager to study!

Anuj found the right course for her, got her admission and then convinced her. Because Anuj does not cry on her fate, he helps her move on and progress in life.

You said exactly what I am saying. Anupama does not try herself, just cries and plays victim. Kabhi bhaang peeke aur kabhi bina bhaang piye.

Where anupama playing victim card in front of anuj

In fact she praise anuj many times ki aapne mujhe hamesha aage badhne ka mauka diya aapne meri bahut madad ki

She was just sharing her grivenance for not able to complete her education ifthat does not mean she want to gain sympathy and playing victim card .

That is why I told listen anupama dialogue carefully.

Kya hum log apna grivenance friends apne relative se share nahi karte that means we are playing victim card and want to gain sympathy from other if we share our grivenance to other ?

I have been listening to all dialogues clearly. What Anuj did for her, she could do it herself. Go to college, find out if she can study at this age and get herself enrolled, instead of that she was telling her sob story to all ladies the other day.

that is my point. Instead of feeling pity about urself or justifying urself - do something about it.

What is big issue if Anuj bring form for her I have seen in real.life that husband who bring college form for wife, one uncle told to her wife tumhe padhai Karni chahiye so he bring L.L.B form for his wife .wife did not went to college to bring llb form

Agar husband and wife aapas mein understanding hsi then it is nothing big issue if husband bring form for wife

And moreover I have never heard and never see husband can't bring form for his wife .t

There is no such hard and fast rule