How is PaAdhik any different from MaAn? - Page 2

You are right - this show is not for the group who are free from old social limitations and customs, but rather for the masses - the ITV type saas/bahus and it is deeply rooted in Indian customs and culture - which is far from what we'd like to see in the show.

In 2022, some of us have different biases like gender identity and which pronouns to use rather than what the show is showing - I have too unrealistic expectations!

Nothing of this sort is going to happen period. I'm surprised you still have hopes from this 2 kaudi ka show🤣

Originally posted by: V_ka_attitude

I hope they treat this track appropriately -if they are showing some sort of a social message - especially in 2022 and in the context of Shah family like Alisha said, Pakhi is not from a conservative family but definitely a hypocritical family regarding values.

In my opinion - no one has the right to force Pakhi to do or not do anything - to go out with Adhik, to have or not have sex, she's an adult and can make her own decision whether they are right or wrong only time will tell.

Also, at the most parents can do is advise their children, guide them, thru past experiences and discuss with them openly - Communication is the key, and discussing outcomes is the key. As one of y'all mentioned Anupamaa was married at 16ish so if having sex at that age (in 1990s) is not an issue then in 2022 at 19/20yr age shouldn't be either. Rather than banning exploring one's body, parents should guide her on how to safely explore be it through contraception or being safe, not being inebriated, or how to choose the right partner etc not just saying NO.

The main missing point I feel Anupama should address is lying/dishonesty & breaking trust - everything else is secondary -

PS: I didn't understand maryada in the context of when Anu was exploring her relationship with Anuj - they were not in any committed relationship, they are consenting adults (and not virgins either - not that it matters) - why can't they have consensual sex - what Maryada is she talking about?

Anu got married when she passed 12th. Means she was 17/18. Is it mentioned what Pakhi is doing? If she is 21, she would have completed her graduation and should either be doing a job or a PG. How is she dependent? What is Adhik doing? I assume that he is helping in business. Even that's not being dependent.

Maryada just gets thrown around to control people. Hypothetical line that achhe sanskar ke log not cross. T&C applied.

If parents start giving sex education, how will they get grandkids?

Pakhi abhi bhi college jaa rahi hai she said to use college mein sub mission Dena hai ( though it was lie)she is not doing any job

Aur adhik koi business mein help nahi kar raha .dono pakhi aur adhik bus Anuj ke paisa ke Dum romance kar . Both even not trying to search job

I think as per law you can mary girl after 18 boy after 21

pakhi is 21 and adhik may be 30 both adults

parents hv no say in their wedding at this age as per law

even baa vanraj had objection to anupama anuj wedding

but after 18 years any girl can marry boy of choice as per law

pakhi must say anupama dialogue main ghumu phiru shadi karu pyar karu aap ko kya

will be funny to hear what anupama says

dependent independent does not matter for marraige as adult age they have

pakhi can demand property her share from vanraj

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Pakhi abhi bhi college jaa rahi hai she said to use college mein sub mission Dena hai ( though it was lie)she is not doing any job

Aur adhik koi business mein help nahi kar raha .dono pakhi aur adhik bus Anuj ke paisa ke Dum romance kar . Both even not trying to search job

That means Pakhi is failing classes. That should be the more immediate concern. Pakhi and Adhik independent or not, they aren't obliged to listen to anyone. Similarly Vanraj, Anuj and Anupama aren't obliged to provide for them. They can cut off funds for them anytime except basic needs.

No both are different

Anuj didn't rely on his sisters in-laws for his daily expenses, he also didn't want to "trap" Anupama just because she's someone's weak nerve. Anuj loved adhik used

Anupama never disrespected her toxic saas forget misbehaving with her own mother. Pakhi treats her mother like a maid maybe even worse

You can compare them to kavya and vanraj.

Both knew they are doing wrong Isliye chup chup k hotel room me milte the not like MaAn danke ki chot pe sabke samne deewar kood k

Anuj aur Adhik same hai?

Difference wahan hai jahan room ka name sunkar Pakhi was uncomfortable. Anupama aur dusron ka issue ye nahi hai ki Pakhi might do something wrong but what if something wrong happens to her? Ye ladka usko room mein le ke gaya hai, can she protect herself from his advances?

Anuj aur Adhik mein difference hai ki Anuj ke intentions wrong nahi the

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Did not MaAn go on a picnic before getting married where they hugged for the very first time?

Anu was living in the same house with Anuj before getting married to him. She hugged him multiple times. She kissed on his hand, she let him kiss her on her forehead and hand. How were they any different from PaAdhik? The production of estrogen and progesterone is much lower in a 45+ woman than a 21 years old woman, so Anu was able stay in Maryada while Pakhi may not be.

Pakhi is not from any conservative family where everyone stays in Maryada. She has seen her parents and her siblings do what she is doing, then what's her fault? Every women may not desire a career, some may desire to be a housewife. The family is over reacting.

I can only think of one reason. Pakhi ke naam me Maa nahi hai so she is not eligible to do whatever she wants except sunaoing her maata shri and being a paltu the next day.🤣