Question to Kinjal supporters - Page 3

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I repeat again that kinjal had support her mother in between that I want to say and more over she has respect her mot when Rakhi did not meet anupama

She go against Rakhi when she uncessarr target anupama of no Fault of anupama

And yes I have same reason that why she marry toshu

Invalid! She never supported her mother. Also choosing Anupamaa over Rakhi even when Rakhi is right and Anupamaa is wrong is not called support.

What do u say about vibhishan going against her own brother jabki apne bhai ke rajya use khaane rehne ko miltta tha after all usks bhai tha

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

I forgot the part where Rakhi has a time machine where she can predict everything. Maybe she should have seen it coming that her daughter will end up growing in a lonely environment, and not been a dramatic bitch esp when it affects their relationship.

So it's a choice between joint family/love marriage? A woman gets to just pick one? In which rulebook tho?

Valid logical points? Blaming a woman who's just given birth, for her husband's infidelity bcz he wanted to put his D somewhere and wifey was pregnant, that's not logical. Toshu would've been right if he'd said I want divorce bcz I want to get laid bcz you're pregnant and now I dont want you.

Progressive is not blaming woman for their husband's mistakes or crimes.

Progressive is also not turning a blind eye to a woman's own mistakes. Just admit it she was wrong all this while about Paritosh. And what time machine? Haven't you heard of the saying that the apple doesn't fall far away from the tree. It was a very logical conclusion/prediction which Kinjal disregarded completely.

She is not being blamed for giving birth to a baby, she is blamed for being a crappy wife, a crappy/vile daughter that wilfully ignored sound advice given to her regarding her marriage. So yes she should be blamed in every manner.

@red was she even in love with Paritosh to begin with? Can you really call that a love marriage or a marriage full of motivations. She was more in love with Anupamaa. Her only reason to marry him was to have a joint family or to get a gharela domesticated mother, then why not go for an arranged marriage? She was never in love with Paritosh and that has been pretty evident so many times.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

What do u say about vibhishan going against her own brother jabki apne bhai ke rajya use khaane rehne ko miltta tha after all usks bhai tha

Kya connection hai? Matlab kuch bhi to defend kinjal. Ab kiske ghasitoge yahan pe? Again number kiska hai? Draupadi? Kunti? Vinta?

Originally posted by: Rein123

Progressive is also not turning a blind eye to a woman's own mistakes. Just admit it she was wrong all this while about Paritosh. And what time machine? Haven't you heard of the saying that the apple doesn't falk far away from the tree. It was a very logical conclusion/prediction which Kinjal disregarded completely.

She is not being blamed for giving birth to a baby, she is blamed for being a crappy wife, a crappy/vile daughter that wilfully ignored sound advice given to her regarding her marriage. So yes she should be blamed in every manner.

@red was she even in love with Paritosh to begin with? She was more in love with Anupamaa. Her only reason to marry him was to have a joint family or to get a gharela domesticated mother, then why not go for an arranged marriage? She was never in love with Paritosh and that has been pretty evident so many times.

She's wrong in judging Paritosh, but that's not a fault of hers. You dont blame a victim saying 'they should've seen coming'. The sound logic you're giving, it's the same one women face after every sort of assault, they should've known that he'd do that. No. NO 🤬 HELL NO. Are we really gonna talk about apples nd trees, something so cliche and extremely wrong? Why's he only like V, he's 50% Anu too, why isnt he like that tree? The other apple is perfectly fine.

Lol imagine marrying by your own wish means you're a crappy daughter.

also who said you get loving moms like Anu in arranged marriage? nah, you get women like anu MIL. And ok, she didnt love PAritosh, newsflash, 95% marriages in india are a contract, in fact marriage is a contract it has nothing to do with love. IT's a contract to manage property, hierarchy, control, reproduction etc She held her part, he should've held her own.

In real life when husband has transferable job and ev both husband and wife doing Job and due to.tight schedule both even can't talk to each other for several months but that does not mean if they don't have time to meet each other they Wil start cheating each other

And in which husband wife real life spend time together for 24 hrs .with each ovdon't their husband go to office don't they have other work to do

In real life husband go to office from 9 am to 8 pm then husband and wife spend with each other normal with 2,3 hrs 830 to 10 pm then they go to sleep kyonki subah uth kar ukhe khaana banana Hai

To how much timetoshu want to spend time with kinjal

Kya toshu Job nahi Karni thi bus khaali din bhar apni biwi ka face hi dekhna tha

Aur aisa to bilkul nahi ki kinjal ne toshu ke saath bilkul na time spend Kiya ho

Problem with toshu that he want fary tale love that do premi bus ek doosrei ki bus shakal dekhein and don't want to take any responsibility .he want to run away from responsibility

Bahut hi kamjor reason hai toshu ki cheating ks

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

She's wrong in judging Paritosh, but that's not a fault of hers. You dont blame a victim saying 'they should've seen coming'. The sound logic you're giving, it's the same one women face after every sort of assault, they should've known that he'd do that. No. NO 🤬 HELL NO. Are we really gonna talk about apples nd trees, something so cliche and extremely wrong? Why's he only like V, he's 50% Anu too, why isnt he like that tree? The other apple is perfectly fine.

Lol imagine marrying by your own wish means you're a crappy daughter.

also who said you get loving moms like Anu in arranged marriage? nah, you get women like anu MIL. And ok, she didnt love PAritosh, newsflash, 95% marriages in india are a contract, in fact marriage is a contract it has nothing to do with love. IT's a contract to manage property, hierarchy, control, reproduction etc She held her part, he should've held her own.

Firstly stop calling her a victim because she isn't one so spare me the crap about victim blaming. Not everyone is entitled to a victim card. And no she was not a poor judge, you call one a poor judge of a character when they marry someone who seems to be perfect on the outside with no red flags at all but that was not the case with her given so many red flags were highlighted and brought to her attention which she willingly ignored.

Marrying a crappy man against your parents wish definitely makes you a crappy daughter. If marriage is a contract then you should forge a contract with someone who is worthy of it. You don't intentionally forge a contract with an untrustworthy party inspite of several people telling you otherwise.

@red why should we not talk about it? It is a universal fact so why should it be sidelined? Because it makes Kinjal look stupid?

@pink when you intentionally choose to get into an abusive relationship and stay in it then you only have yourself to blame. If you are fooled once it is the other person's fault but if you let yourself get fooled then you are the one to be blamed only.

Connection yeh hai ki kinjal should always support her mother only because she is her mother ?

Means one should support her brother mother father only because woh unse blood relate hai?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

In real life when husband has transferable job and ev both husband and wife doing Job and due to.tight schedule both even can't talk to each other for several months but that does not mean if they don't have time to meet each other they Wil start cheating each other

And in which husband wife real life spend time together for 24 hrs .with each ovdon't their husband go to office don't they have other work to do

In real life husband go to office from 9 am to 8 pm then husband and wife spend with each other normal with 2,3 hrs 830 to 10 pm then they go to sleep kyonki subah uth kar ukhe khaana banana Hai

To how much timetoshu want to spend time with kinjal

Kya toshu Job nahi Karni thi bus khaali din bhar apni biwi ka face hi dekhna tha

Aur aisa to bilkul nahi ki kinjal ne toshu ke saath bilkul na time spend Kiya ho

Problem with toshu that he want fary tale love that do premi bus ek doosrei ki bus shakal dekhein and don't want to take any responsibility .he want to run away from responsibility

Bahut hi kamjor reason hai toshu ki cheating ks

Par yeh toh Paritosh hai. Why are you expecting him to be like other men who don't cheat their wives or sleep with other women while away from home. Paritosh aur kinjal ke relationship it was always about Kinjal most of the time. On top of that he is vanraj's son, usko toh reason bhi nahin chahiye cheat karne ke liye. Bewakoof nikli kaun? Kinjal!!

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Connection yeh hai ki kinjal should always support her mother only because she is her mother ?

Means one should support her brother mother father only because woh unse blood relate hai?

But she never supports her mother. That is the point! So where is the link between her and vibhishan? Don't insult vibhishan by comparing her with him.