Will Anuj Ever Come First for Anupamaa?

Looking at the pre cap she says the wedding is cancelled if Hasmukh doesn’t get the surgery, then today she said no wedding is more important than his health. Does she not hear herself? Does she see that she is always putting Anuj second? A man who has waited for you for 27 years is a priority! Period! She makes stupid statements like this and then follows up with her “Sorry, sorry”. This poor man wants her, warts and all; psycho ex and all and the mom of three children, about to be a grandma! She needs to stop putting so much importance on her previous in-laws and focus on her future husband!

her self worth is completely reliant on what she can do for others

i guess her love language is gifts of service? 🤔

anuj is independent - he doesnt need her, so essentially he will always be at the back of the line

if this character sketch continues, than maybe if he gets hurts her focus will be on him, but unless he acts out like a child he is always gonna be on the fringes

this is how emotional affairs start!!!

Originally posted by: LoLo

Looking at the pre cap she says the wedding is cancelled if Hasmukh doesn’t get the surgery, then today she said no wedding is more important than his health. Does she not hear herself? Does she see that she is always putting Anuj second? A man who has waited for you for 27 years is a priority! Period! She makes stupid statements like this and then follows up with her “Sorry, sorry”. This poor man wants her, warts and all; psycho ex and all and the mom of three children, about to be a grandma! She needs to stop putting so much importance on her previous in-laws and focus on her future husband!

I agree to you but the thing is this happens in reality too, my bestfriend's brother marriage was about to happen in may, but her brother's fiancé 's father died (ladki ke papa) so the marriage got postponed to nov-dec (exactly nhi pata) here also like its similar case

Originally posted by: Kp26

I agree to you but the thing is this happens in reality too, my bestfriend's brother marriage was about to happen in may, but her brother's fiancé 's father died (ladki ke papa) so the marriage got postponed to nov-dec (exactly nhi pata) here also like its similar case

I get your specific case, and I understand. With Anupamaa it’s always something that comes up in front of Anuj. I just wonder will she ever understand that he needs to be her priority.

Originally posted by: Kp26

I agree to you but the thing is this happens in reality too, my bestfriend's brother marriage was about to happen in may, but her brother's fiancé 's father died (ladki ke papa) so the marriage got postponed to nov-dec (exactly nhi pata) here also like its similar case

Thats your brothers future wife father that too death not heart attack

hasmukh shah is anupama ex husband father not her father or uncle or brother please

for 27 years this family baa bapuji vanraj have troubled her terribly

hasmukh is not anupama father or anuj father in law please

Hes unfit to be a father look at his son or grandson what sanskaar hes given them is he fit to be father?

i know ppl who married with parents in ICU or serious as muhurat and all guests came

Well,I agree to a certain extent,Anu has let the Shah family treat her in a disgusting manner so many times,that most of us have lost any kind of sympathy or empathy for her.

But keeping that aside.

She does consider Bapuji as her father,and I dont believe that all relations in life have to be of blood only,real relations are through heart connection,so if a person respects and loves someone,and they get the news that person is in a critical condition and is in requirement of immediate surgery, it will kinda be selfish to go and get married or celebrate,you will be unable to enjoy the celebrations also,because of such gloomy atmosphere around you....

Originally posted by: LoLo

Looking at the pre cap she says the wedding is cancelled if Hasmukh doesn’t get the surgery, then today she said no wedding is more important than his health. Does she not hear herself? Does she see that she is always putting Anuj second? A man who has waited for you for 27 years is a priority! Period! She makes stupid statements like this and then follows up with her “Sorry, sorry”. This poor man wants her, warts and all; psycho ex and all and the mom of three children, about to be a grandma! She needs to stop putting so much importance on her previous in-laws and focus on her future husband!

Not happening. The Shahs get rewarded for their poor planning, again and again eg, house issue, business, cafe, health etc.

Whereas independent and sorted people like Anuj have to handle others BS.

Originally posted by: DJ_3

Not happening. The Shahs get rewarded for their poor planning, again and again eg, house issue, business, cafe, health etc.

Whereas independent and sorted people like Anuj have to handle others BS.

Real life similar only

Those who are mature will take all responsibility be it of home and family or in office

Those who are careless and misbehaving and demanding(like crying baby gets more milk from mom than silent baby) enjoy life at cost of others money and by not taking any responsibility and blaming the people who always save the day

Observe around you any family or office teams etc its same anuj kind always carry burden of others errors and keep correcting them all life but keep getting targeted or abused

But i have seen that those who never take responsibility never go up in life and finally one day all stop supporting them or taking their responsibility or blames and leave them

Thats not happening in anupama show to shahs thanks to mahaan anupama madam

Anupama herself is not a capable human(yes she can cook and take care of house but not much else) if not for anuj or malvika they would be homeless(loan issue) and without factory and not been so good life (read led a hand to mouth existence and struggled for food medicines clothes also basic of life)

Yet they abuse the man that carries them on his shoulders and saves them from all problems of life be it physical harm or economical issues or gives them career and jobs

How long this will last?

Sometimes you must throw people in sea so they learn swimming, anuj has to do that throw shahs in sea let them learn to swim on own than becoming sea anchor in storm everytime and than getting blamed.

Imagine did majority of parents come to college and did exams for us or got us seats by paying crores in US university or gave us jobs or set up business not really. 80% of people fall in sea and learn to swim on own. Only 10% get spoon fed like shahs by an anuj or malvika or another 10% are privileged to be born to rich parents like tata, ambani etc rest 80% are all thrown in sea and learn on own usually

Anuj should just stop helping shahs let them fall in sea swim in strom they should learn to be independent of anuj kapadia or malvika or rakhi dave or they will blame anuj all life for evrything. When everything comes free without struggle or hard work you act like shahs put all blame on others and enjoy life at others expense and money without any responsibility in life like anupamas 3 kids are doing.

I cannot believe my eyes or ears when vanraj baa call anuj names and rakhi as nagin. Both money only runs their houses from long. If not for them shahs had to give up ancestral house and cafe etc and stay in small home on rent and go to smaller jobs etc (its recession thanks to covid tough to get jobs). They are roaming in car and enjoying privilege life on anuj and rakhi money and anupamas dance money

Even anupama got 1 year dance contract on anuj help only or on own for so many years anupama never thought of all this or would never think. Its anuj plan and ideas. I do not understand why shahs think they are superior to a nauj kapadia or rakhi dave in which way and have so much head weight?

Originally posted by: Kp26

I agree to you but the thing is this happens in reality too, my bestfriend's brother marriage was about to happen in may, but her brother's fiancé 's father died (ladki ke papa) so the marriage got postponed to nov-dec (exactly nhi pata) here also like its similar case

Pretty sure in that case both bride and groom and their family members would have sat and discussed and agreed to postpone rather than one person taking the decision

Death is considered apshakun so marriage is moved but very rarely does it happen for illness or hospitalization

Also, all the more reason to hate hanikarak bapu who caused all this intentionally