Lover with benefits - Page 5

Originally posted by: Km181

haan to she is born more than 2 decades before you, uska kuch to credit do... aise kaise chalega...

We were talking about what anupama said to anuj when anuj did not transfer his property to malvika

But when anuj transfer his property then it his solely decision yeh uska khud ka decision. Isme anupama kahin bhi nahi hai aur aaj bhi jo anuj ne vanraj ko chance diya hai yeh anuj ka khud ka decision. Anupama is nowhere in this so here anupama cannot be blame on this that anuj gave chance to vanraj. Anupama did not say ki vanraj ko chance de do

Originally posted by: surabhi01

We were talking about what anupama said to anuj when anuj did not transfer his property to malvika

But when anuj transfer his property then it his solely decision yeh uska khud ka decision. Isme anupama kahin bhi nahi hai aur aaj bhi jo anuj ne vanraj ko chance diya hai yeh anuj ka khud ka decision. Anupama is nowhere in this so here anupama cannot be blame on this that anuj gave chance to vanraj. Anupama did not say ki vanraj ko chance de do

There is something called emotional black mailling. What was that tie her pallu to Shah House door and saying she can never this house. Wasn't that direct message to Anuj that she can only come with him once Shah house is happy.

Why did he followed his marriage wish to Kinar immediately with happiness for Shah house. That was sign of how his sub-conscious mind is playing. After that he spoke to Mukku, thought again about Shah family happiness and asked Mukku to give Vanraj another chance.

Now, i am not saying that Anu is doing any of this consciously, no never, she has pure heart no doubt. I can expect that from Kavya or Vanraj but never from Anu or Anuj. She is so simpleton that she is not able to recognise how she herself is getting emotionally blackmailed by Vanraj and Baa.

Anuj happiness is tied to Anupama, Anupama is worthy of that love so he will not break that attachment.

Anupama's happiness is tied to Shah house. Shah house happiness is tied to Trash.

Question is when will Anupama realise that Trash is not worthy of this attachment. And he is doing more harm than good, by giving him chance one after another.

Show is about Women Empowerment, about Anupama journey.. All i want to see is exactly that.. forget Anuj, let him pack his bags and go back to US.

But can Anupama call out Baa and Vanraj for their deeds, hold them accountable and actually stand on her feet.

She can work in kitchen but that day Baa should praise her and say 'Anu is soo good, itna kaam kara aur ab kitchen bhi sambhal rahi hai'. Not the words, we heard today, i don't want to hear that words even for a family member ever, here to Anupama was technically a guest.

What troubles me most is that women empowerment serial FL is so regressive herself. While i love Anuj, no doubt, i am being very fair her in my expectations from Anupama for herself.

Originally posted by: Km181

There is something called emotional black mailling. What was that tie her pallu to Shah House door and saying she can never this house. Wasn't that direct message to Anuj that she can only come with him once Shah house is happy.

Why did he followed his marriage wish to Kinar immediately with happiness for Shah house. That was sign of how his sub-conscious mind is playing. After that he spoke to Mukku, thought again about Shah family happiness and asked Mukku to give Vanraj another chance.

Now, i am not saying that Anu is doing any of this consciously, no never, she has pure heart no doubt. I can expect that from Kavya or Vanraj but never from Anu or Anuj. She is so simpleton that she is not able to recognise how she herself is getting emotionally blackmailed by Vanraj and Baa.

Anuj happiness is tied to Anupama, Anupama is worthy of that love so he will not break that attachment.

Anupama's happiness is tied to Shah house. Shah house happiness is tied to Trash.

Question is when will Anupama realise that Trash is not worthy of this attachment. And he is doing more harm than good, by giving him chance one after another.

Show is about Women Empowerment, about Anupama journey.. All i want to see is exactly that.. forget Anuj, let him pack his bags and go back to US.

But can Anupama call out Baa and Vanraj for their deeds, hold them accountable and actually stand on her feet.

She can work in kitchen but that day Baa should praise her and say 'Anu is soo good, itna kaam kara aur ab kitchen bhi sambhal rahi hai'. Not the words, we heard today, i don't want to hear that words even for a family member ever, here to Anupama was technically a guest.

What troubles me most is that women empowerment serial FL is so regressive herself. While i love Anuj, no doubt, i am being very fair her in my expectations from Anupama for herself.

Amen! We ain't getting any empowerment. At least not anytime soon.

I'm also dying to see her life progress after the divorce.Nothing!!

Originally posted by: Km181

There is something called emotional black mailling. What was that tie her pallu to Shah House door and saying she can never this house. Wasn't that direct message to Anuj that she can only come with him once Shah house is happy.

Why did he followed his marriage wish to Kinar immediately with happiness for Shah house. That was sign of how his sub-conscious mind is playing. After that he spoke to Mukku, thought again about Shah family happiness and asked Mukku to give Vanraj another chance.

Now, i am not saying that Anu is doing any of this consciously, no never, she has pure heart no doubt. I can expect that from Kavya or Vanraj but never from Anu or Anuj. She is so simpleton that she is not able to recognise how she herself is getting emotionally blackmailed by Vanraj and Baa.

Anuj happiness is tied to Anupama, Anupama is worthy of that love so he will not break that attachment.

Anupama's happiness is tied to Shah house. Shah house happiness is tied to Trash.

Question is when will Anupama realise that Trash is not worthy of this attachment. And he is doing more harm than good, by giving him chance one after another.

Show is about Women Empowerment, about Anupama journey.. All i want to see is exactly that.. forget Anuj, let him pack his bags and go back to US.

But can Anupama call out Baa and Vanraj for their deeds, hold them accountable and actually stand on her feet.

She can work in kitchen but that day Baa should praise her and say 'Anu is soo good, itna kaam kara aur ab kitchen bhi sambhal rahi hai'. Not the words, we heard today, i don't want to hear that words even for a family member ever, here to Anupama was technically a guest.

What troubles me most is that women empowerment serial FL is so regressive herself. While i love Anuj, no doubt, i am being very fair her in my expectations from Anupama for herself.

Totally agree with your points. Anuj’s subconscious mind is definitely playing games. Anuj thinks Anupama will be ready for marraige when everything is good at Shah parivaar. Because Anupama herself made him feel so. He has seen how for her shah parivaar happiness is top most priority, her kids are her priority.. only then comes Anuj..

Kehna aur hai ki apka Haq ka, aap khas hai.. lekin bhai kabhi show bhi kar. Sirf baton main dikha.

Aur Anuj rokega/Haq dikhayega tabhi rukegi kya anu.. varna naii.. nahi toh koi boundaries nai

We think that anupama is bhakt of baa. Anupama is not actually bhakt of baa she is actually bhakt of elder it is inbulit nature of anupama

If go by sremoyee then there was anuj aunt also apart from sister. Anuj aunt was disown by his own son and so she started living with anuj ( Rohit) and steemoye ( anupama) and that aunt did not like anupama initially she was against their marriage as srreemoye was divorcee but anupama also gave anuj aunt respect too like she use to give baa

So anupama will keep tolerating baa behavior unless anupama stop thinking baa is elder and very old

The day anupama stop thinking that baa is elder and very old or she is toshu pakhi samar dadi then she will not tolerate single taunt of baa

But I think woh din kabhi nahi asyega. She will give respect baa as usual because she is elder older and grand mother of pakhi toshu and samar

Originally posted by: Km181

Yayyyy...

Today Anuj proved himself dumber than Anupama and boy was it once... nope twice...

first asking Kinar for Shah families happiness... dude Karma bhi kuch hota hai and second ask Shah family, they love Semi Circle fight, Peace unhe digest nahi hota... ye wish mang ke you have become their number one enemy and so for Anupama, how will she give her 5 page bhashan

And then giving Vanraj partnership back slow claps.. pehle kaha gaya tha ye Anupama ka pyaar aur Happiness, jab Empire Mukku ko de diya tha..... Mukku should have asked him, what if Vanraj hurts me again, mujh se pyaar nahi hai Bhai...

Ab shah family ko 2 naukar mil gaye hain..kya kismat hai bhai in fatticharo ki..

Dono naukar din raat inke liye kaam karte hain or inke liye allah se dua karte hain..aise naukar aajkal kahan milte hain yaar..🤪

Anupama never ask. Anuj To sacrifice his own happiness to make shah happy

If anuj think that anupama can be happy only with me by making shah happy then it his thinking not anupama thinking

So does this mean that Baa will never mend her ways ever?

When will Baa truly earn the respect because of her character and not her Age.

It's not about the means but the outcome.

Point is Baa needs to change, if not Anu then someone else. And there are ways to politely, respectfully make your point across elders too.

But don't tell me personally you are fine with this. Is this the right message for society?

Baa wil be always like chameleon

Unka character chamelon ki tarah hi rahega. Kabhi anupama ke favoouur mein bolegi kabhi anupama ke against