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Posted: 3 years ago
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Seeing how anupama is at ease in shah house and cooking moping etc instead of sitting with kinjal and taking care of her only what i feel is for anupama anuj is lover with benefits or husband with benefits


How she barged in vanraj anuj fight and said anuj did not know you applied for contract etc


How anuj over ruled Mukku to give vanraj another chance after he called him beggar and snatched kapadia and sons from him


Hes doing all this to please anupama not shahs or vanraj


He even asked kinar for shahs happiness


Imagine any of you are anuj and vanraj and shahs betray and humiliate you will you do all this?


99% person in world will not do all this


90% will not enter shah house or road after what vanraj and toshu did in kapadia and sons


But this anuj kapadia is praising and asking for their happiness etc looks so unbelievable


Why is anuj doing all this i thought? Than i realized hes scared to lose anupama so trying to please her by doing all this

Anuj is just a late option for her like a discount sale in shop. You do not want but since its cheap for future useyou may buy and keep

But vanraj was one she gave maximum price and brought but it flopped against her will

Anuj has no one but anupama in life

But anupama has options her kids vanrajetc in future if things go bad with anuj

She has people who will be with her forlife fall back on them

But anuj has none other than GK who may not live more than a decade more


Anuj is scared of losing anupama in his mid 40s so doing all this to please at cost of his empire family and respect etc


Imagine anuj had a wife or kids or ex wife and kids will he bend so much for anupama or shahs

So anupama has upper hand in relation with anuj always because shes married already and has kids


She also cleverly uses emotional blackmail towards him to help her kids baa and shahs so that shes nice to him she accepts him loves him etc


She cleverly keeps quiet when it benefits shahs and vanraj like mukku affair and damages anuj and kapadias


If anuj had not given vanraj kavya toshu job saved samar life or even to her will she love him i doubt


Its friend for benefits relation for anupama side


Or no lover or woman will go to house where her lover or husband is humiliated like this from starting


Anuj is desperate for a family anupam aand shahs know that so they are very cleverly levearging this insecurity of it


60% humiliate him 40% like him or keep quiet when hes humiliated and act as if they like him


Bapuji calls him for home vanraj baa toshu kavya humiliate him


They know how to manipulate people to get benefits


If bapuji loves anuj so much ask vanraj to give him back kapadia and sons and leave that company nooo


Same for anupama kinjal


From an outsider observer it does not look shahs are that good and innocent even bapuji or kinjal or samar or anupama


Everyone know anuj is lonely has a luantic sister who does not care for him blames him for parents death etc so they are just cleverly pulling strings to trap him emotionally and get benefits


If anuj had family mom dad or siblings who give him family love or a ex wife and kids i doubt anuj will be so nice to vanraj or toshu and shah family because hes secure has family has someone to fall back on not lonely


Always lonely person gets used and taken advantage of in society or family after a certain age (after 30s or 40s where they cross marriageable age)


That is real moral of this show than any anupamas redemption

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

Seeing how anupama is at ease in shah house and cooking moping etc instead of sitting with kinjal and taking care of her only what i feel is for anupama anuj is lover with benefits or husband with benefits


How she barged in vanraj anuj fight and said anuj did not know you applied for contract etc


How anuj over ruled Mukku to give vanraj another chance after he called him beggar and snatched kapadia and sons from him


Hes doing all this to please anupama not shahs or vanraj


He even asked kinar for shahs happiness


Imagine any of you are anuj and vanraj and shahs betray and humiliate you will you do all this?


99% person in world will not do all this


90% will not enter shah house or road after what vanraj and toshu did in kapadia and sons


But this anuj kapadia is praising and asking for their happiness etc looks so unbelievable


Why is anuj doing all this i thought? Than i realized hes scared to lose anupama so trying to please her by doing all this

Anuj is just a late option for her like a discount sale in shop. You do not want but since its cheap for future useyou may buy and keep

But vanraj was one she gave maximum price and brought but it flopped against her will

Anuj has no one but anupama in life

But anupama has options her kids vanrajetc in future if things go bad with anuj

She has people who will be with her forlife fall back on them

But anuj has none other than GK who may not live more than a decade more


Anuj is scared of losing anupama in his mid 40s so doing all this to please at cost of his empire family and respect etc


Imagine anuj had a wife or kids or ex wife and kids will he bend so much for anupama or shahs

So anupama has upper hand in relation with anuj always because shes married already and has kids


She also cleverly uses emotional blackmail towards him to help her kids baa and shahs so that shes nice to him she accepts him loves him etc


She cleverly keeps quiet when it benefits shahs and vanraj like mukku affair and damages anuj and kapadias


If anuj had not given vanraj kavya toshu job saved samar life or even to her will she love him i doubt


Its friend for benefits relation for anupama side


Or no lover or woman will go to house where her lover or husband is humiliated like this from starting


Anuj is desperate for a family anupam aand shahs know that so they are very cleverly levearging this insecurity of it


60% humiliate him 40% like him or keep quiet when hes humiliated and act as if they like him


Bapuji calls him for home vanraj baa toshu kavya humiliate him


They know how to manipulate people to get benefits


If bapuji loves anuj so much ask vanraj to give him back kapadia and sons and leave that company nooo


Same for anupama kinjal


From an outsider observer it does not look shahs are that good and innocent even bapuji or kinjal or samar or anupama


Everyone know anuj is lonely has a luantic sister who does not care for him blames him for parents death etc so they are just cleverly pulling strings to trap him emotionally and get benefits


If anuj had family mom dad or siblings who give him family love or a ex wife and kids i doubt anuj will be so nice to vanraj or toshu and shah family because hes secure has family has someone to fall back on not lonely


Always lonely person gets used and taken advantage of in society or family after a certain age (after 30s or 40s where they cross marriageable age)


That is real moral of this show than any anupamas redemption

@bold i hate to admit it but unfortunately its 100 percent true.

Anuj deserve so much more than this half hearted attempt feom anu's side to move on.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Very valid points.


There is an insecurity from Anuj's side due to Anu's old relations still causing her to stop from moving forward.


We can also take it from Anu's prespective that maybe she shows her love by cooking and care for Kinjal and when in Shah house falls into old patterns.


It almost depicts that she lets the Shah's take advantage of her and continues the same cycle with Anuj (now in Anu's role). Maybe to her love, is this and taking Anuj for granted.


I did not watch the show from start, but maybe she was always been looking for the affection from Shah's. However, she needs to understand she cannot bend backwards for others before herself. A empty cup cannot fill others.


Points like there is always compromise, maybe she could have visited Kinjal everyday, and then left back home in evening. If she needed to be a nurse for her, that would have been ideal. Even a hired nurse levaes for her home and they could have hired a night nurse for when Anu was away.


But this is ITV and they always have to take extremes. 🙄

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I feel Mukku ki reentry hi isiliye hui hai taki Anu gets her priorities right!!


Q k Mukku has always been assertive on her rights over Anu uss ko haq jatana aata hai n she understands Anu better


Anupama ko lines draw karna nahi aata period- toh it's upto Anuj to take that stand for her 🤷🏻‍♀️


Kal tak tho ussko ulta javab dena bhi nahi aata tha now she gives it back to everyone left n right


And for the questions k kab tak she'll be like this and all.. it's a slow process even coming out of medication after severe illness takes time toh ye toh 26 years of life hai


And rahi baat uss ka Shah parivar se connection toh wo marte dam tak nahi tute ga q k she has her kids in that house!


As long at she's connected to her kids she would be connected to Vanraj now Anuj ko ye baat pata hai and still he accepted her toh ab he has to guide her out of her old habits


Yaar ye sab akele sab karlungi why can't she fight her own battle wagaira is so exhausting u know.. phir bhi she does fight these days but u just can't do it all the time


Like take it today's scene for instance i bet Anupama never realised that she should have been with the family out side not cooking alone in the kitchen!


Uss k expression se dikh raha hai u know that she feels k aree haan ye toh maine socha hi nahi tha


N even i can't come out of that scene i don't even remember how many festivals I've been in the kitchen while everyone was out there enjoying but i thought providing food decorating our home making sure everyone is happy is what festival is


And by the time u r out of kitchen to join others u are way too tired to actually enjoy anything else!


Babaji this Anuj is messing with my head😳

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

Seeing how anupama is at ease in shah house and cooking moping etc instead of sitting with kinjal and taking care of her only what i feel is for anupama anuj is lover with benefits or husband with benefits


How she barged in vanraj anuj fight and said anuj did not know you applied for contract etc


How anuj over ruled Mukku to give vanraj another chance after he called him beggar and snatched kapadia and sons from him


Hes doing all this to please anupama not shahs or vanraj


He even asked kinar for shahs happiness


Imagine any of you are anuj and vanraj and shahs betray and humiliate you will you do all this?


99% person in world will not do all this


90% will not enter shah house or road after what vanraj and toshu did in kapadia and sons


But this anuj kapadia is praising and asking for their happiness etc looks so unbelievable


Why is anuj doing all this i thought? Than i realized hes scared to lose anupama so trying to please her by doing all this

Anuj is just a late option for her like a discount sale in shop. You do not want but since its cheap for future useyou may buy and keep

But vanraj was one she gave maximum price and brought but it flopped against her will

Anuj has no one but anupama in life

But anupama has options her kids vanrajetc in future if things go bad with anuj

She has people who will be with her forlife fall back on them

But anuj has none other than GK who may not live more than a decade more


Anuj is scared of losing anupama in his mid 40s so doing all this to please at cost of his empire family and respect etc


Imagine anuj had a wife or kids or ex wife and kids will he bend so much for anupama or shahs

So anupama has upper hand in relation with anuj always because shes married already and has kids


She also cleverly uses emotional blackmail towards him to help her kids baa and shahs so that shes nice to him she accepts him loves him etc


She cleverly keeps quiet when it benefits shahs and vanraj like mukku affair and damages anuj and kapadias


If anuj had not given vanraj kavya toshu job saved samar life or even to her will she love him i doubt


Its friend for benefits relation for anupama side


Or no lover or woman will go to house where her lover or husband is humiliated like this from starting


Anuj is desperate for a family anupam aand shahs know that so they are very cleverly levearging this insecurity of it


60% humiliate him 40% like him or keep quiet when hes humiliated and act as if they like him


Bapuji calls him for home vanraj baa toshu kavya humiliate him


They know how to manipulate people to get benefits


If bapuji loves anuj so much ask vanraj to give him back kapadia and sons and leave that company nooo


Same for anupama kinjal


From an outsider observer it does not look shahs are that good and innocent even bapuji or kinjal or samar or anupama


Everyone know anuj is lonely has a luantic sister who does not care for him blames him for parents death etc so they are just cleverly pulling strings to trap him emotionally and get benefits


If anuj had family mom dad or siblings who give him family love or a ex wife and kids i doubt anuj will be so nice to vanraj or toshu and shah family because hes secure has family has someone to fall back on not lonely


Always lonely person gets used and taken advantage of in society or family after a certain age (after 30s or 40s where they cross marriageable age)


That is real moral of this show than any anupamas redemption


Her motive behind shifting to shah house was that kinjal needs her 24*7..and now as usual she is making gujiya and probably doing jhaadu pochan bartan as well😆


So where d hell is ill kinjal now.. who is taking care of ill kinjal..bullshit..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

Seeing how anupama is at ease in shah house and cooking moping etc instead of sitting with kinjal and taking care of her only what i feel is for anupama anuj is lover with benefits or husband with benefits


How she barged in vanraj anuj fight and said anuj did not know you applied for contract etc


How anuj over ruled Mukku to give vanraj another chance after he called him beggar and snatched kapadia and sons from him


Hes doing all this to please anupama not shahs or vanraj


He even asked kinar for shahs happiness


Imagine any of you are anuj and vanraj and shahs betray and humiliate you will you do all this?


99% person in world will not do all this


90% will not enter shah house or road after what vanraj and toshu did in kapadia and sons


But this anuj kapadia is praising and asking for their happiness etc looks so unbelievable


Why is anuj doing all this i thought? Than i realized hes scared to lose anupama so trying to please her by doing all this

Anuj is just a late option for her like a discount sale in shop. You do not want but since its cheap for future useyou may buy and keep

But vanraj was one she gave maximum price and brought but it flopped against her will

Anuj has no one but anupama in life

But anupama has options her kids vanrajetc in future if things go bad with anuj

She has people who will be with her forlife fall back on them

But anuj has none other than GK who may not live more than a decade more


Anuj is scared of losing anupama in his mid 40s so doing all this to please at cost of his empire family and respect etc


Imagine anuj had a wife or kids or ex wife and kids will he bend so much for anupama or shahs

So anupama has upper hand in relation with anuj always because shes married already and has kids


She also cleverly uses emotional blackmail towards him to help her kids baa and shahs so that shes nice to him she accepts him loves him etc


She cleverly keeps quiet when it benefits shahs and vanraj like mukku affair and damages anuj and kapadias


If anuj had not given vanraj kavya toshu job saved samar life or even to her will she love him i doubt


Its friend for benefits relation for anupama side


Or no lover or woman will go to house where her lover or husband is humiliated like this from starting


Anuj is desperate for a family anupam aand shahs know that so they are very cleverly levearging this insecurity of it


60% humiliate him 40% like him or keep quiet when hes humiliated and act as if they like him


Bapuji calls him for home vanraj baa toshu kavya humiliate him


They know how to manipulate people to get benefits


If bapuji loves anuj so much ask vanraj to give him back kapadia and sons and leave that company nooo


Same for anupama kinjal


From an outsider observer it does not look shahs are that good and innocent even bapuji or kinjal or samar or anupama


Everyone know anuj is lonely has a luantic sister who does not care for him blames him for parents death etc so they are just cleverly pulling strings to trap him emotionally and get benefits


If anuj had family mom dad or siblings who give him family love or a ex wife and kids i doubt anuj will be so nice to vanraj or toshu and shah family because hes secure has family has someone to fall back on not lonely


Always lonely person gets used and taken advantage of in society or family after a certain age (after 30s or 40s where they cross marriageable age)


That is real moral of this show than any anupamas redemption

Truuee.. It’s hard to admit but all the above points are valid. Sometimes, it truly feels like Anupama n shah parivaar is truly misusing Anuj to the T
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priyankaa.jain


Her motive behind shifting to shah house was that kinjal needs her 24*7..and now as usual she is making gujiya and probably doing jhaadu pochan bartan as well😆


So where d hell is ill kinjal now.. who is taking care of ill kinjal..bullshit..

Also, how can the writers show such bullshit after everything she went through in that house. It doesn’t make any sense now.Also look at how ease she is at whenever she is in Shah house
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Apurvachanda90

Also, how can the writers show such bullshit after everything she went through in that house. It doesn’t make any sense now.Also look at how ease she is at whenever she is in Shah house


Dude apne puraane or bhot hi ghatiya sasural me jaakar badi hi aasaani se kitchen me ghuskar poori authority se jaise ye aurat gujiya tal rahi thi na waisa to koi nahi kar sakta hai..🤢


Ise hesitation bhi nahi hoti..kaise apni sautan ki kitchen me ghuskar ye gujiya tal sakti hai..😆


Shah parivaar ki aish ho jati hai jab anupama ji yahan aa jati hai..😆

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Posted: 3 years ago
#9

Why everything blames on anupama. If anuj is giving chance to vanraj then how is I related to please anupama. Anuj gives chance to vanraj then it was anuj own choice


Anupama did take stand for anuj when baa taunting anuj them anuj himself said to anupama badon ki daant prasad samajh ke kha lena chahiye

Jub anuj khud hi baa ki dant ko prasad samajh ke khana chahta hai to isme anupama ko please karne ki baat kahan se aayi

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Waise bhi anupama anuj ko contract milne ki. Khushi mein anuj ke paas sweets le gayi thi

Anupama was truly happy when anuj crack deal

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