Originally posted by: Apurvachanda90
Yes. According to her ideologies, abusing your spouse is normal, provoking your kids against their own mother is normal, making your wife work day n night is normal, never giving her the respect is also very normal, differentiating between your own kids is also normal. What Not Normal is just the EMA. Other than that everything is normal fo her.
but have you noticed how she was justifying about the project to Vanraj. Ke unko pata nahi tha ke aap bhi iss project main hai.. Agar pata hota toh kya chahti thi Anupama ke jaise Anuj se apna sara business unko de diya, inka ghar khareed ke bhi humiliate ho rha hai Same waisa hi Iss project ke liye bhi karta.
Sahi galat ka kuch nahi pata madam ko. bas jaha apna fayda hai wha vaahan de ke apna kaam niklwa lo aur jha apni galti hai wo baat rafa dafa kardo. That’s it.
earlier I used to feel bad for her, but now I think yei sara Raita hi iska failaya hua hai. Boundaries After marraige maintain kar ke rakhi hoti to Baa aur vanraj aise itne lousy naa hote. Na hi parenting pe dhyan diya. Tabhi Vanraj ka upper hand hone bhi isko kabhi prob nahi hua naa hi vanraj ko kabhi correct kia ke wo bacho ko galat sikha raha hai
Yaar, i have a keeda named as UNBIASED.
So, honestly, her 25 years of marriage behaviour, i actually understand and have no complaints. Coming from poor family, illiterate, no backing, no financial support; it was bound to happen. You can see even till date Bapuji is doing this because he is financially dependent on Vanraj and needs to live under same roof.
My problems with Anu starts only after she left that house due to Character Assassination. I thought that was the big shock she needed to detach herself and understand her true value in the eyes of this family which is NIL - ZERO.
Why the next day of leaving that house, she again touched Baa's feet. Why is she still giving Baa that respect, you bet Baa is waiting for one more character assassination, it will happen soon.
Exactly, why giving justification, pata hota to bhi kya..Anuj ko bol sab chod ke tere saath us ghar ka naukar ban jaye to keep Vanraj happy. Why didnt she raised the point of Vanraj publishing false news about Anuj. Kyu Vanraj is her love, use sab maaf hai... She is the one solely responsible for feeding the demon in those 4 vile people and she is abusing Anuj too by being silent or hidding facts.. If she truly loved Anuj, she would have fought with him for his own good and not let him to mahaan way, the way she fights for Shah family.
Edited by Km181 - 3 years ago