Anupama tutorials to anuj on baby sitting

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Malvikais very wrong if she thinks Shah familly will love her like anuj or more


Woh family na chameleons hai color hard din change hota hai unka


Those Shahs are all one cunning over another except Bapuji and Samar and khinjal

And for Anuj Muku is less of sister more of daughter for him

Anuj can give his life up for Malvika without blinking eye

Shah family will not bother even if she goes missing for full week till anuj comes and ask where is mukku

Only error anuj has done is left her roam world alone. He should have sent someone with her and visited her every 6 months wherever she was for last 10 years still cannot absorb an good man like him left her alone for so many years in this mental state

Family no matter what fight you have loves you and saves you even after any man mutav. Anuj bhi bahut pyar kartha hai dikhan a nahi aat amaan mai raktha hai


Now that Malvika live with Shahs she will realize Anuj and Shah family difference


One who can do so much for anupama devika samar nandini what will he do for own sister?


Today when malvika lost control over mind anuj should have just pulled her in embrace and let her cry or hit him to remove her pent up frustration - every brother sister fight scream throw things hit each other till they are older or married its natural behaviour of siblings to remove anger or disappoitment in each others actions. Toh toda mar bardasth kartha anujj toh woh mukku calm down hoti uska gussa uthartha aur woh ghar chodeke nahi jathi na


And here malvika was in coma her brain must be damaged she is upset about parents death about lost childhood about brother not bothering about her for 10 years she has many problems with anuj. So what would happen if anuj would have hugged her tight her and not let her at any cost. Her anger would have reduce she would not have left mostly


When person loses mind one jadu ki jhappi and sorry even if you are not at fault works wonders


Even on mentally sick person like Mukku


Anuj needs lessons on how to handle volative family in fights. Issko bas college aur mohalle ke gundo ke saath fight athi hai behen lover biwi bacchon ka gussa sambhal na isko nahi aata


In future when anupama and his kids fight with him it will help tutorial chalu kardo na anupama


Just consider Mukku is your 5 year old daughter anuj how will you calm a 5 year old child sobbing and throwing things and angry at her father


Same way handle Mukku


Its easy to say muku baccha muku baccha tough to handle bacchas


Jab anupama and your baby comes no i can imagine if it screams and rants you will freeze or shiver in fear


Bacche toh mukku se jyada tough to handle na


Anupama should start tutorial to anuj how to handle small kids tantrums and mukku tantrums

Usko hi fayda hoga jab unka baccha ayega

Vanraj ko bhi bacche nahi sambhale jathe ab anuj ko bhi nahi aata

Becahri anupama


Abhi duniya bolegi 44 years he cannot handle one sister how he handle life and business


They will speak behind back if she stays with shahs


Bahut badnami hogi anuj ki abhi ki uska ghar hote hue behen shahs ke ghar rahegi

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Posted: 3 years ago
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As far Malvika thinking shahs will love her than Anuj-

I don’t think Mukku had given such a thought…for now she wants to escape…escapism is her way of coping to things when it goes out of control but unfortunately and sadly it doesn’t help her.


Now coming to Anuj, he himself in a vulnerable state and in a total guilt mode when it comes to Mukku. The hug,crying, verbal showdown was long due - had they don’t it then things would have been better. Mukku being small couldn’t express and Anuj being guilty couldn’t confront….that’s where the issue lies. Moreover their relationship from beginning itself was pampering, she does something n everyone around says sorry irrespective of that…so the situation was such that he couldn’t help but just say sorry n try to pacify her. Also to hug and control her, it needs a calm n composed mind which Anuj doesn’t keep when it comes to Mukku.

Anuj n Mukku were very young too handle the trauma and probably, they didn’t have a strong person as a guide who could help them come out of it. GK might have been too involved in handling them emotionally that he too could have thought rationally.


Again, Anupama has gone through these phase with Pakhi and she knows how to handle. I don’t think there is anything bad for her trying to handle.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: arya212002

As far Malvika thinking shahs will love her than Anuj-

I don’t think Mukku had given such a thought…for now she wants to escape…escapism is her way of coping to things when it goes out of control but unfortunately and sadly it doesn’t help her.


Now coming to Anuj, he himself in a vulnerable state and in a total guilt mode when it comes to Mukku. The hug,crying, verbal showdown was long due - had they don’t it then things would have been better. Mukku being small couldn’t express and Anuj being guilty couldn’t confront….that’s where the issue lies. Moreover their relationship from beginning itself was pampering, she does something n everyone around says sorry irrespective of that…so the situation was such that he couldn’t help but just say sorry n try to pacify her. Also to hug and control her, it needs a calm n composed mind which Anuj doesn’t keep when it comes to Mukku.

Anuj n Mukku were very young too handle the trauma and probably, they didn’t have a strong person as a guide who could help them come out of it. GK might have been too involved in handling them emotionally that he too could have thought rationally.


Again, Anupama has gone through these phase with Pakhi and she knows how to handle. I don’t think there is anything bad for her trying to handle.

such mature thoughts Arya 👍

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