Leaving the house is enough

Hi friends was inactive since these days,

First my health was not good, then my exams and now Diwali and loads of work to do. Havent seen Anupama since these days. Saturday, Sunday I saw all the episodes of Anupama.

Today I am very pleased to write the update of Anupama. When Advait was a member of Anupama I have described the symbolism of Anupama and Krishna's bond. The bond with Krishna is indeed a special one. Today when the little kid dressed as Krishna and hugged Anupama was the most incredible moment. I say in every darkness, Krishna is one shining hope in everyone's life. How crying Anupama and then after meeting someone like Krishna, she smiled. He is pervasive and that happiness which forces all of us to smile in our very tough times. Just loved the scene between the child and anupama.

Anupama said that Draupadi was insulted shamefully. Yeah definitely the intensity of being hurt was the same. But both the ladies were targeted differently. Draupadi was attempted to disrobe in front of cruel people, while the righteous people maintained silence. Anupama was insulted by her own child, this is also very shameful. Draupadi was insulted as a DIL, Anupama was insulted as a daughter. Be it anything, be it any circumstances, the fact is there was a disgrace. Draupadi vowed destruction, while Anupama has just learnt to take a stand for herself. If I was Anupama, then I would approach court for character assassination. Draupadi's stand I much appreciate, but Anupama's stand was only to leave the house. What about those shameful comments passed with insulted her reputation?

I know forgiving is very needed, but Anupama's motive was to stand for the ladies who are suffering like her. Even after leaving the house, what is the guarantee that Shah's wont insult her? Has she shut their mouths forever? What about the torture? Draupadi vowed the war thinking about the other ladies who suffer such disgrace. If in the rule of Dritarashtra a DIL gets insulted what about a normal lady. So the best option was to kill them. Here obviously the best option isn't to kill, but to approach the court. Anupama is not revengeful, but atleast she should be shown someone who seeks justice.

Right now Anupama's motive is only to work and work hard. Yeah she should work hard, to create her own identity. Yes, she feels that her idea of a start up will change the life of the ladies. But Anupama left the house with an insult. Now what message will be conveyed, that if you are insulted then leave the house. But is leaving the house enough? You should also know how to shut others mouth. Anupama is giving answers to them, which is great, but she can also be an example as to how to stand up and shut those mouths forever. She is not shutting their mouth, instead ab woh dur chali gai bakwaas to un logo ki ab bhi chalegi.

Anupama how many ladies are going through this insult. Only working is not enough to heal the insult. A case is necessary to be filed against Shah's. I know Anupama wont do this. But Draupadi made a tough decision of war. Anupama can't be like Draupadi ever, that's why I like Draupadi more. She made sure that these creepy fellows would be destructed. Anupama can't do that ever, because she loves her family. Even Draupadi had a quality of loving, but she easily distinguished the difference of whom she should be good to. She loved Krishna, Arjun, Yudhishthir. Even after dice game, she made them free, this was the first thing she asked for. But knew she can't spare Duryodhan at all. Anupama should know that she can't spare Leela, Vanraj and Kavya.

KOSHA ❤️

Kosha i beg to disagree with you. Draupadi was raised from the fire to be the reason to put an end to Adharma. The revenge she sought was for the insults that were uttered and the disrobing that happened in the view of all learned scholars and elders.

The purpose of her creation was to incite the Dharmayudha. She stood against her father when Shikandi was replaced by Drushtadymna as general. She was born with all worldly knowledge but no life experiences from birth till adulthood. She could choose whom she would befriend and whom to marry.

There is no way you can draw a parallel between Draupadi and Anupama. Anupama is a common woman subject to a life of abuse and torture. The time period of the writing of Mahabaratha the value system was different she represented certain qualities.

Anupama cant be equated to that level and

Anupama is fighting her personal battle and learning to love herself. Her journey is that of an oppressed woman who finds her bearings and learns to stand on her own.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Hi friends was inactive since these days,

First my health was not good, then my exams and now Diwali and loads of work to do. Havent seen Anupama since these days. Saturday, Sunday I saw all the episodes of Anupama.

Today I am very pleased to write the update of Anupama. When Advait was a member of Anupama I have described the symbolism of Anupama and Krishna's bond. The bond with Krishna is indeed a special one. Today when the little kid dressed as Krishna and hugged Anupama was the most incredible moment. I say in every darkness, Krishna is one shining hope in everyone's life. How crying Anupama and then after meeting someone like Krishna, she smiled. He is pervasive and that happiness which forces all of us to smile in our very tough times. Just loved the scene between the child and anupama.

Anupama said that Draupadi was insulted shamefully. Yeah definitely the intensity of being hurt was the same. But both the ladies were targeted differently. Draupadi was attempted to disrobe in front of cruel people, while the righteous people maintained silence. Anupama was insulted by her own child, this is also very shameful. Draupadi was insulted as a DIL, Anupama was insulted as a daughter. Be it anything, be it any circumstances, the fact is there was a disgrace. Draupadi vowed destruction, while Anupama has just learnt to take a stand for herself. If I was Anupama, then I would approach court for character assassination. Draupadi's stand I much appreciate, but Anupama's stand was only to leave the house. What about those shameful comments passed with insulted her reputation?

I know forgiving is very needed, but Anupama's motive was to stand for the ladies who are suffering like her. Even after leaving the house, what is the guarantee that Shah's wont insult her? Has she shut their mouths forever? What about the torture? Draupadi vowed the war thinking about the other ladies who suffer such disgrace. If in the rule of Dritarashtra a DIL gets insulted what about a normal lady. So the best option was to kill them. Here obviously the best option isn't to kill, but to approach the court. Anupama is not revengeful, but atleast she should be shown someone who seeks justice.

Right now Anupama's motive is only to work and work hard. Yeah she should work hard, to create her own identity. Yes, she feels that her idea of a start up will change the life of the ladies. But Anupama left the house with an insult. Now what message will be conveyed, that if you are insulted then leave the house. But is leaving the house enough? You should also know how to shut others mouth. Anupama is giving answers to them, which is great, but she can also be an example as to how to stand up and shut those mouths forever. She is not shutting their mouth, instead ab woh dur chali gai bakwaas to un logo ki ab bhi chalegi.

Anupama how many ladies are going through this insult. Only working is not enough to heal the insult. A case is necessary to be filed against Shah's. I know Anupama wont do this. But Draupadi made a tough decision of war. Anupama can't be like Draupadi ever, that's why I like Draupadi more. She made sure that these creepy fellows would be destructed. Anupama can't do that ever, because she loves her family. Even Draupadi had a quality of loving, but she easily distinguished the difference of whom she should be good to. She loved Krishna, Arjun, Yudhishthir. Even after dice game, she made them free, this was the first thing she asked for. But knew she can't spare Duryodhan at all. Anupama should know that she can't spare Leela, Vanraj and Kavya.

KOSHA ❤️

First of all, Anupama being Anupama will never ever file a court case against parivar. Secondly she wants to grow and show herself as a model to many women suffering like her. With a court case, especially for character assasination of a woman..... it is too sensitive even for the boldest person .... It will attract media attention and she will become famous for a wrong reason. What was within family and to some extent in the locality will become statewide and country wide discussion point . She should not become famous in that way. Even if she wins court case with defamation.... who will pay .... nobody at shah family has that much money.... and defenitely such act will also affect her children and their future.

Revenge causes pain to the one initiating and the one on whom it is directed. It will not result in a feel good for anyone.

Anupama has not been affected by Vanya and as someone pointed out when she decided to leave she recalled memories associated with penthouse nagrik, leela and Kavya.

Anupama has made peace with the nasty Shaha and moved on she will not look back and regret what ahe has left behind as better things await her. Shah's have a lot to lose and have lost the most valuable person in their life.