Is it all even worth it anu ?

Anupamaa clearly and in a calm way drew the lines bw herself and Mr.shah. She said 'we r like rail tracks. We can never come close nor go far away for d sake of our family ' . So better to be at peace as we r staying under one roof for our family.

And she asked him to lessen his anger and that she qld try to give back lesser. Now this is what frustrated me. She said 'I WILL STAY QUIET' . But anupamaa all u had been doing for all these years was exactly only that!!!

I am not saying she has to shout at every instance and fight back. What she said was sane. For anyone who wants peace in their family environment wld learn to adjust with each other.

But here ravanraj's words and actions r beyond tolerance for any person.

Wld everyone whose EX-HUSBAND humiliated them ,called them names and passed cheap comments on them be okay with them after a day and be so calm with them?? Umm atleast for me it's highly unlikely.

And this Mr.Vanraj shah can never be trusted. Today he nods his head. Tomorrow he will start again. After having a conversation with anupamaa he came back and looked at kavya with a heavy feeling and love . He better remember this forever that kavya is his wife and he cannot even have the thought of controlling anupamaa now.

Idk but just for the sake of pakhi anupamaa cannot make her life standstill. She cannot freeze herself smiling to show to her daughter ' dekh beta . Ur father can do 1000 wrongs with me , humiliate me but still i wld stay quiet for ur sake ' . Bcoz we all know vanraj shah wld be back to ravanraj mode in less than 2 days.

Pakhi is not a kid to not understand. Though i liked how she called out neutral abt all their wrongdoings. I felt bad when she also blamed anu for fighting back.

And anupamaa quitting the job is 99% anuj's dream.

I wld say the root cause for all this problem lies in the fact that Anupamaa is STAYING IN SHAH HOUSE.

That is what is giving vanraj the authority to interfere in her life , to pass comments, to stop her progress. Though she won't be giving a damn to all his actions but still mental peace and self respect shld the highest priorities of any person. So the day she moves out of that house wld be the true day when she wld liberate herself fully and truly.

Perfectly pointed out everything I had to say couldn't agree more

Anu saying I'll be quiet maybe she will act indifferent hopefully for a start

Pakhi needs to understand their dynamics instead of just thinking about herself.

I know anu isn't quitting but this whole same plot over and over again is irritating. Rather see nan Rohan track with the crappy actin ofc 😂🤪😂😂

Agree with you 💯 % 👍🏼 it's all about how you handle the situation...my son was just 7 years old when we separated and he heard his dad wants him to send panchgini hostel and he was scared and got fiver and that time I stepped up and told everyone that now my son is only my responsibility ..now his dad is like I am his father why he's not talking to me and fight with me but I still handle situation so understand Anupama...sometimes we have to tell kids(mi son 24 years) that what you want is not possible all the time...pakhi is definitely not a kid she has to accept his family is degrading her mom so stop being kids tantrum. No word for Vanraj and baa.

Thanks for tagging me 🤗

Thank u for sharing ur views ❤🤗🤗

Loved your post. Why is Anupama giving him the licence to say things. Should she resort to this route when there are so many options? Even 5 year old Ruhi Bhalla showed more maturity understanding her parents divorce and custody battles. The way they are pacidying Pakhi one wonders at the patenting style.

Yes ..you have described it all .my dear 🤗

I dunno what’s Anu Anuj future yaar 🤔

Lovely port Yuvanaa... Anu can share her worries but can't expect Vanraj to change when she herself is being dumb and not understanding where the problems stems from. The pair of them have taken some very silly and pointless parenting decisions, cohabitating after the divorce being the worst of it....agreed that they have their best intentions at heart but there has to be some sense in their efforts... they always always resort to the worst route possible.