Worst Daughter’s award a.k.a. ghatiya beti award goes to... - Page 3

Originally posted by: surabhi01

To identiy banana matlab ki anupama ke pass jub tuk 30 , 40 crore ka bank balance nahin hoga to iska matlab anupama ki apni identiy nahin hai B

Anupama school mein supw ki teacher hai, online dance class teacher hai yeh identiy nahin hai anupama ki

Anupama ki kuch identiy nahin hai kyonki abhi uske 30,40 cross nahin hai??

Agar anupama ke dance online teacher aur supw school mein hone ke baavjood agar koi identiy nahin aur woh bus sirf teen bachon ki maa btw ek house wife ki bhi identiy hoti ek maa ki bhi identiy hot iaise nahi jo 40 crore unhi ki identiy hoti hai . Agar koi mehnat karke khud se 10 rs bhi kamayer to bhi uski identiy hai.

But why I am sayijg this. Mera jo bhi reply hoga anupama to looser hogi tumhare liye

Then sorry I am not intersest in doing discussion

This is my last reply and I am not intersest to cintinue suchi discussion because mujhe pata hai iska khuch ending nahin and I Dont want write same thing again anupama ki identiy kya

I am ending discussion here . U can think whstever u want

Jin logo ka kuch identity hota hai woh log kabhi bhi beggar pose nahi karte hai , na he kidney bechne ka baat karte hai and na he khud ko girvi rakhne ki baat karte hai.

None of the Shah members has any identity.

Just last thing I want to say jub toshu point out fault thing of shah he is doing right thing ?and when kinjal point out wrong thing about rakhi then she is worst daughter?

Aaj jo rakhi jo anupama ki haalat dekh kar mock kar rahi hai na ek din samay ka aisa chakra chalega ki rakhi bhi beggar pose mein hogi .

Samay bahut balvaan hota hai. Jub samay kharaab hota, hai to yeh paise dhara ka dhara reh jaata hai . Wait and watch

It's really common sense ke every individual have own dream of life right mera bete ka dream agar mujh se alag hai uski priority mujh se alag hai to mai uski life ke dream ko barbad kar sakti hu right? Mai single mom hu mera dream ek hanste khelta happy family tha jab ki mere ex ko luxurious life chahiye thi to jab mujhe movie and serial offers hue maine na bola par wo bhadak gaya now history repeated he wants my son uski sune aur India ke ek bahot bade (there business is all over in India with brand name) ki beti se shadi kare par beta happy family life chahta hai to aap ke hisab se mere ex ko har haq hai ke wo mere bete ki life ko rakhi ki tarah treat kare right? Kinjal apni life se kya chahti hai ye uski choice hai , wo independent hai apadhi likhi hai apni marji se usne ye life select ki hai to mare liye rakhi ka ye kehna ke penthouse, luxurious life ye sirf apni ego ko satisfy karna chahti hai apni beti ke pyaar ke liye nahi

Originally posted by: dipali13

It's really common sense ke every individual have own dream of life right mera bete ka dream agar mujh se alag hai uski priority mujh se alag hai to mai uski life ke dream ko barbad kar sakti hu right? Mai single mom hu mera dream ek hanste khelta happy family tha jab ki mere ex ko luxurious life chahiye thi to jab mujhe movie and serial offers hue maine na bola par wo bhadak gaya now history repeated he wants my son uski sune aur India ke ek bahot bade (there business is all over in India with brand name) ki beti se shadi kare par beta happy family life chahta hai to aap ke hisab se mere ex ko har haq hai ke wo mere bete ki life ko rakhi ki tarah treat kare right? Kinjal apni life se kya chahti hai ye uski choice hai , wo independent hai apadhi likhi hai apni marji se usne ye life select ki hai to mare liye rakhi ka ye kehna ke penthouse, luxurious life ye sirf apni ego ko satisfy karna chahti hai apni beti ke pyaar ke liye nahi

He can't force your son to marry a rich girl but he can definitely guide him. Zaroori nahi Jo bacche chahte hai woh hi theek ho. Mujhe bhi modelling karni thi lekin mere parents ne allow nahin kiya citing several reason and mujhe aaj pata chala how right they were about and I thank them for dissuading me against it. Agar dreams galat hai toh unhe rokna hi padhta hai, that is the responsibility of a parent.

Toh uss hissab se parents ka haq hai apne baccho par as long as they live under their roof, actually even after that they have, children who respect and care for their parents wouldn't dismiss what the parents say just like that.

Ek taraf ppl are praising kinjal for having a dream of living in a joint family but dismissing toshu's dream of living in a nuclear family, toh kinjal ke hi sapne zyaada important kyun hai? But toshu toh phir bhi apne parents ki sunta hai to an extent right? Kinjal ne toh woh bhi nahi kiya. Usne paritosh se shaadi karke apni manmaani kar li, Rakhi ne woh bhi bardassht kar liya lekin uski ek baat toh maan hi sakti thi right woh bhi uske bhalai ke khaatir soch ke boli hogi?

Your son wants a happy family life, ek baat batao happy family life usse apne father ki choice ki ladki se nahi milegi kya? Middle class family mein toh main bhi rehti hoon but iska yeh matlab nahin ki sacrifice middle class families happy go lucky hoti hain. There is nothing wrong in desiring a rich and luxurious life provided you earn it and rakhi asking kinjal to move to the penthouse maybe because of her ego partially but it's also to protect her from the TamaShah family.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Just last thing I want to say jub toshu point out fault thing of shah he is doing right thing ?and when kinjal point out wrong thing about rakhi then she is worst daughter?

Aaj jo rakhi jo anupama ki haalat dekh kar mock kar rahi hai na ek din samay ka aisa chakra chalega ki rakhi bhi beggar pose mein hogi .

Samay bahut balvaan hota hai. Jub samay kharaab hota, hai to yeh paise dhara ka dhara reh jaata hai . Wait and watch

When toshu points out the faults of the Shah's Kinjal comes to defend them and their shamelessness as if it is her full time job but when she does the same thing to Rakhi paritosh doesn't, he may do it at times not all the time.

Jiske paas paisa nahi hota na usi ko paise ki value ka pata hota hai not idiots like kinjal who were raised in luxury and never experienced its dearth.

Rakhi beggar pose mein hogi yah nahi hogi usse anupama ki bewakoofi kam nahi hogi jisse woh khud hi apna samay kharaab karti hai air naa hi uski galati bhulayi jaayegi. Filhal tum anupama ka beggar pose enjoy karo. Oh kahin rakhi ka beggar pose dekhne ke chakkar mein kinjal anupama ke haath se na nikal jaaye, after all usse bechari beggar mummies hi pasand hai right?

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I've always said it from the beginning how Kinjal goes.on and on about Anupamaa sacrfices etc but fails to see how her own mother struggled to build up such a business and empire. Rakhi is too a woman who.probably faced many battles & hardships esp in such a patriarchal society. However Kinjal is so rude & dismissive of her own mothers battles just to be Anu chamchi

Writers will do anything to make Anu mahaan

I don't think they realized that ppl would like Rakhi so much so they keep screwing with her character

For me Rakhi is what a woman should be: smart, savage & ability to smash the ego of men like Vanraj

She has her flaws but that cause writers want us to hate her & become Anu's devotees

I am somewhat in this zone

Yes like Rakhi don't want my daughter to get stuck in such toxic environment.

A lot of fam members used to compare me with Amma and appa since they have lot of patience and I am extremely straight forward. They also used to say for a woman i am too brutal and ambitious. During my worst phase they blamed me too. Luckily my bro does nor belong like the rest and stood by me.

I lost my job due to pandemic and now struggling to find something that I can manage with my baby. I have a career break of 4years due to childcare. Now they are saying such a sacrifice I am doing and my sis is not since she is still working. Why do peeps not realize we all have our own personality

Some of us want whats good for us as individuals too

Originally posted by: Rein123

Usne rishtey ka maan rakha tabhi toh she asked her to move out and shift else where because she didn't want her daughter’s marriage to end up on the rocks thanks to the shit that happens in the Shah family.

Arrey it's common sense, if she only moves out then Rakhi won't have a reason to go to the Shah house and do extra tamashas over there. It's simple as that but Kinjal is an idiot the equivalent idiotic Xerox copy of Anupama in this matter.

Ek baat batao kaunse mata pita apni Baghodi beti ko gale se Lagaate? Unke liye pareshan hote hai? Tumhe yeh dikha ki Rakhi is using her daughter's house for entertainment but yeh nahi dikh raha ki yeh entertainment toh roz hota hai whether Rakhi is there or not and why shouldn't Rakhi use it jab usse free mein mil raha hai, ab agar sasuraal do kaudi ka bhi nahi hai toh usse karodo ki izzat kyun mile?

Kinjal ke father apni Baghodi beti ki shaadi mein kyun aaye? She can hurt her parents as much as she wants but in return she should only be loved? Rakhi ne toh phir bhi maaf kiya usse but its not necessary her father should also forgive a good for nothing useless daughter like kinjal, not DIL, she is the best DIL no doubt but she is the worst of the worst daughters.

Kinjal ne kaha that Rakhi ne kabhi usse time nahin diya, yeh nahin dekh paayi ki kyun nahi diya? Aise toh there are a lot of mothers who aren't able to spend enough time with their children due to professional reasons but not all kids take their mothers for granted but rather appreciate them for the hard work in providing for the family and don't replace their mother overnight. Aur paise dene ko pyaar nahi kehte toh aap kya kehna chahte ho ki working mother's apne baccho se pyaar nahi karti, unko sirf paise deti hai in place of love?? A working mother has it tougher than regular housewives, unhe ghar aur apna career dono sambhalne padhte hai, if a father is unavailable then no one questions him or judges him for not being there emotionally lekin Rakhi phir bhi thi apne beti ke liye its a different story that Kinjal doesn't value that like the ingrate she is.

Kinjal is actually lucky to have a mother like Rakhi who looks out for her otherwise there are parents who literally don't give a shit about what happens to their daughters once they get married and here this female eloped and got married. That's how much Rakhi loves Kinjal but what would you understand? A domestic housewife is not the only definition of a loving mother as the makers are trying to show Anupama.

And what were you saying, Anupama kinjal ka chehra padh sakti hai but not Rakhi herself, waise toh ek aaya ya maid bhi bacho ke chehre padh sakte hai but that doesn't mean they become mothers of the child or can replace them, Anupama khud apni beti ka mood nahi samajh paayi for a few episodes lekin Kinjal ki maa banne phirti hai.

Rakhi ne kabhi Kinjal ko pamper nahi kiya aur anupama karti hai? How do you know Rakhi never pampered Kinjal? Has Rakhi ever made Kinjal do housework like Anupama did? Has Kinjal ever had to go and get the groceries by herself when she was with Rakhi unlike how she was seen doing the grocery shopping after marriage? Did kinjal ever have to slog like a donkey when she was with Rakhi? Then how did you conclude that Anupama pampers Kinjal? What exactly is your definition of pampering?

In a prejudiced Indian society girls are always discriminated and treated like domestic servants or less important compared to boys. Some ultra Conservative rich households have a problem with their daughters leading the family, the business, studying, and the middle class families though literally just dump all the household chores on the daughters because apparently that is the main purpose of a woman to run a household. But Rakhi never gave a damn about all that educated Kinjal and kept encouraging her to pursue a career and she still does, what the hell has anupama done in this respect? Just taught her to make rotis and theplas? Maa chaahe jaisi bhi aakhir mein usse koi dusri phir chaahe woh saas hi kyun nah ho, usse koi replace nahi kar sakta.

So Kinjal is the worst of the worst daughters. So she rightly deserves this award.

I am not saying that Kinjal standing up for his family was wrong and I don't think that she is the worst daughter but since day 1 it has been bugging me that they are trying to show Rakhi was somewhere not able to be a perfect happy coddling mother to Kinjal that Anupama was able to become since Rakhi was a working mother. I strongly agree with everyone of your points regarding that whatever you have pointed out but the makers in the need to make one character mahaan have thrown everything and everybody else under the bus.

We all are working mothers and we know how we are slogging off everyday trying to do everything and make everything work.just because we don't run around our kids shouting sweetodi and making the best of food doesn't make us nay less mother than a staying home mother. In fact sometimes those child come out as much more independent and ready for the coming life.

Different people have different nature and opinions....Shah parivar jaisa bhi ho,they all love Kinjal from the bottom of their hearts...aur yeh Rakhi,jo har waqt beti ki khushi ka raag aalapti retired hai,jo beti ki khushi ke naam pe sab ki insult karti rehti hai,(like when she and Kavya were questioning Anupamaa character)can't she see how happy her daughter is in that family?Like Anupamaa said,you should let go of the ones you love , you should not try to control them...and Rakhi is doing exactly that...the more she tries to control Kinjal or pull her out from that house,the more she will go away from her.

Now some people will say she is a mother,so she has the right to worry about her daughter.Of course she has,but I don't understand how is it right to insult someone just because you love your daughter?And even Anupama is a mother and I have never seen her stop any of her kids from going away from the house.She said KinTosh to take the decision mutually so that both of them are happy,she also did not stop Pakhi when she went with Vanraj and Kavya,and told Samar that she won't stop him if he wants to go,so does that mean Anupama does not love her children?

Why is it that if Rakhi worries for Kinjal,it is her love,but when Anu does that,it is termed as Mahaanta?

Originally posted by: vismaya

Different people have different nature and opinions....Shah parivar jaisa bhi ho,they all love Kinjal from the bottom of their hearts...aur yeh Rakhi,jo har waqt beti ki khushi ka raag aalapti retired hai,jo beti ki khushi ke naam pe sab ki insult karti rehti hai,(like when she and Kavya were questioning Anupamaa character)can't she see how happy her daughter is in that family?Like Anupamaa said,you should let go of the ones you love , you should not try to control them...and Rakhi is doing exactly that...the more she tries to control Kinjal or pull her out from that house,the more she will go away from her.

Now some people will say she is a mother,so she has the right to worry about her daughter.Of course she has,but I don't understand how is it right to insult someone just because you love your daughter?And even Anupama is a mother and I have never seen her stop any of her kids from going away from the house.She said KinTosh to take the decision mutually so that both of them are happy,she also did not stop Pakhi when she went with Vanraj and Kavya,and told Samar that she won't stop him if he wants to go,so does that mean Anupama does not love her children?

Why is it that if Rakhi worries for Kinjal,it is her love,but when Anu does that,it is termed as Mahaanta?

Because anupama is cutting kinjal’s original personality from the root .

Kinjal was never wanted to take baa’s shit, she had her own brain which was fully functional that’s why she had asked baa to treat her in better way . What anupama taught her ? That bade jo kahe woh sahi , bade jo kare woh sahi , ghar ki Shanti ke liye chup raho !!! Jo anupama ne khud itne saal kiya wohi usne kinjal ko bhi sikhaya . Why? doesn’t she learn from her life that her mottos are self destructive suicide bombs???

Just to show anupama can fight with office harassment, what they showed! Kinjal was ready to leave the job and has no backbone to fight her own battle ! It’s anupama who gave strength to kinjal!!!!! Is it kinjal’s true character since day 1?? Nope ! Day 1 se toh I have seen quite bold kinjal and just to show anupama can fight with office harassment, Ms. writer made kinjal totally opposite to her characters kinjal which viewers has seen from day 1.

Kinjal’s transformation from bold and beautiful to damsel in distress doesn’t stop there . Slowly and steadily Ms. writer has totally removed brainy and bold Kinjal characteristic that’s why today that girl is speaking a language like “Main apne ap ko girvi rakhti hu” in place of acting like original bold kinjal who had done police complaint against fraudsters.

Rakhi raised bold and beautiful daughter and look at anupama , what she was feeding kinjal, “ ghar ki shanti ke liye chup raho “” Baa jo bhi kare sab sahi “!

Working mothers have no time to pamper child by giving everything in the child’s hand like anupama raised her daughter pakhi . Working mothers raise their daughter and make them bold and beautiful unlike poor parenting on the name of motherhood.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Usne rishtey ka maan rakha tabhi toh she asked her to move out and shift else where because she didn't want her daughter’s marriage to end up on the rocks thanks to the shit that happens in the Shah family.

Arrey it's common sense, if she only moves out then Rakhi won't have a reason to go to the Shah house and do extra tamashas over there. It's simple as that but Kinjal is an idiot the equivalent idiotic Xerox copy of Anupama in this matter.

Ek baat batao kaunse mata pita apni Baghodi beti ko gale se Lagaate? Unke liye pareshan hote hai? Tumhe yeh dikha ki Rakhi is using her daughter's house for entertainment but yeh nahi dikh raha ki yeh entertainment toh roz hota hai whether Rakhi is there or not and why shouldn't Rakhi use it jab usse free mein mil raha hai, ab agar sasuraal do kaudi ka bhi nahi hai toh usse karodo ki izzat kyun mile?

Kinjal ke father apni Baghodi beti ki shaadi mein kyun aaye? She can hurt her parents as much as she wants but in return she should only be loved? Rakhi ne toh phir bhi maaf kiya usse but its not necessary her father should also forgive a good for nothing useless daughter like kinjal, not DIL, she is the best DIL no doubt but she is the worst of the worst daughters.

Kinjal ne kaha that Rakhi ne kabhi usse time nahin diya, yeh nahin dekh paayi ki kyun nahi diya? Aise toh there are a lot of mothers who aren't able to spend enough time with their children due to professional reasons but not all kids take their mothers for granted but rather appreciate them for the hard work in providing for the family and don't replace their mother overnight. Aur paise dene ko pyaar nahi kehte toh aap kya kehna chahte ho ki working mother's apne baccho se pyaar nahi karti, unko sirf paise deti hai in place of love?? A working mother has it tougher than regular housewives, unhe ghar aur apna career dono sambhalne padhte hai, if a father is unavailable then no one questions him or judges him for not being there emotionally lekin Rakhi phir bhi thi apne beti ke liye its a different story that Kinjal doesn't value that like the ingrate she is.

Kinjal is actually lucky to have a mother like Rakhi who looks out for her otherwise there are parents who literally don't give a shit about what happens to their daughters once they get married and here this female eloped and got married. That's how much Rakhi loves Kinjal but what would you understand? A domestic housewife is not the only definition of a loving mother as the makers are trying to show Anupama.

And what were you saying, Anupama kinjal ka chehra padh sakti hai but not Rakhi herself, waise toh ek aaya ya maid bhi bacho ke chehre padh sakte hai but that doesn't mean they become mothers of the child or can replace them, Anupama khud apni beti ka mood nahi samajh paayi for a few episodes lekin Kinjal ki maa banne phirti hai.

Rakhi ne kabhi Kinjal ko pamper nahi kiya aur anupama karti hai? How do you know Rakhi never pampered Kinjal? Has Rakhi ever made Kinjal do housework like Anupama did? Has Kinjal ever had to go and get the groceries by herself when she was with Rakhi unlike how she was seen doing the grocery shopping after marriage? Did kinjal ever have to slog like a donkey when she was with Rakhi? Then how did you conclude that Anupama pampers Kinjal? What exactly is your definition of pampering?

In a prejudiced Indian society girls are always discriminated and treated like domestic servants or less important compared to boys. Some ultra Conservative rich households have a problem with their daughters leading the family, the business, studying, and the middle class families though literally just dump all the household chores on the daughters because apparently that is the main purpose of a woman to run a household. But Rakhi never gave a damn about all that educated Kinjal and kept encouraging her to pursue a career and she still does, what the hell has anupama done in this respect? Just taught her to make rotis and theplas? Maa chaahe jaisi bhi aakhir mein usse koi dusri phir chaahe woh saas hi kyun nah ho, usse koi replace nahi kar sakta.

So Kinjal is the worst of the worst daughters. So she rightly deserves this award.

This is all so true 👏

The way these CVs have destroyed Kinjal's character has been so frustrating and sad to watch...

Constantly we are told in multiple ways how Toshu and Pankhi wishing that their mom was more westernised, educated, stylish, etc. instead of appreciating her for who she is and what all she has done for them is wrong (which it is!).

But Kinju baby berating HER mother for being career driven, modern minded,and wishing she had been different etc. is A-ok!?

It is very clear that these writers are trying to appeal to extremely backwards minded people in the audience who think only ONE type of mother is a "real" mother who deserves unquestioning love, respect, devotion, etc. (regardless of how wrong her actions may be). While mothers who don't fit into that neat little box can be insulted, disrespected and had faults found with their parenting by their kids at every turn (even if their position is actually logical/understandable)...

How stomach-turningly insensitive, hypocritical and regressive to openly promote such notions in this day and age... 🤢

The idea that only very traditional, gharelu ladies are good or "real" mothers is not only backwards though, it's just flat out WRONG.

I am not a mother yet but from what I can tell, being a good parent is about so much more than just following traditional gender roles of your culture... and one can definitely be a good mother or father without doing that!