Landing into Trouble - Page 3

Originally posted by: neo7

Agree, no one is ready to help her. Everyone is busy blaming her, including some viewers. I want to ask these viewers, who think has to be blamed, if your parents were scammed, will you also do the same thing, or will try to handle the situation and not try to make them guilty, bcoz fraud kisike bhi saath ho sakta hai, hum jo itne padhe likhe bolte hai khudko, humaare saath bhi ho sakta hai.

If my parents were to get scammed, well from what I know most of the scams take place with regard to siphoning off the money from the bank accounts or some fake investments. If they were to act in a way where the exposure was limited to just them alone i wouldn't say much that is if it were just them losing their money but if they were too give away my bank details, my ID details without my permission I would be very angry and yes I will blame because now I am also going to suffer because of their mistake.

In Anupama's case she hasn't lost any money instead she has gained a debt and has gifted it to her 'family' as well.

Don't defend such ignorance in between just because Anupama’s the one at fault saying your bua or maasi or some other relative also got scammed, it's nothing to be proud of yes if you are trying to make people aware that's a different story. This is one of the reasons why people who are senior citizens and not well versed with technology or anything at all get targeted for such scams. Anupama should have never handled something like taking a loan in the first place.

Originally posted by: janecastle

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3qsj0ERMOM

They are behaving as if Anupama murdered someone. 🤪 I agree she made a mistake. But instead of blaming her, they should try to solve this issue. And why the heck Anu has to bow down in front of these people. Inke saath khoon maaf but Anu can't even make a mistake. What a bunch of hypocrites.🤪

Like Kavya said, she is a mahaan devi who does big Big things that even her mistakes are enormous and amount to huge blunders. She didn't murder someone but she definitely murdered their financial future.

If they don't blame her then what should they do? Get her aarti done? Bowing is the least she can do to show is sorry you don't want her to do that either? Why is she a God who has to be put on a pedestal and praised 24x7?

What saath khoon did the others do? Yes they treated her like crap no doubt but thanks to her this mistake proved they were not wrong and automatically somehow justified that as well whether you agree or disagree.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Like Kavya said, she is a mahaan devi who does big Big things that even her mistakes are enormous and amount to huge blunders. She didn't murder someone but she definitely murdered their financial future.

If they don't blame her then what should they do? Get her aarti done? Bowing is the least she can do to show is sorry you don't want her to do that either? Why is she a God who has to be put on a pedestal and praised 24x7?

What saath khoon did the others do? Yes they treated her like crap no doubt but thanks to her this mistake proved they were not wrong and automatically somehow justified that as well whether you agree or disagree.

I agree that she made a mistake (a big one too). But now is not the time to blame her as if she did all this intentionally. And Kavya is simply adding fuel to fire and nothing else. Anupama should be held accountable. But others also are a part of this mistake. They cannot put all the blame on Anupama and escape. Like overpraising Anupama is wrong, lashing out at her like this is also wrong.

Stupid question shah family ask from anupama ki kya, tumhe loan document padha sign kiya ?

Arey anupama form mein information bharegi to kya bina padhe information bhar degi ?

Form mein to information bhar ke hi sigh hota hai aur woh bina padhe kaise ho jayega

Idealy question should be kya tumne form sahi detail bhare they like account number aadhaar number

Kya tumne form submit karne se pehle apne information jo bhari hai use phir se check kiya tha like kya tumne account number aur amount sahi sahi likha tha yeh question hona chahiye

Yeh kya question hua ki paper padh ke sign kiya tha?

Originally posted by: janecastle

I agree that she made a mistake (a big one too). But now is not the time to blame her as if she did all this intentionally. And Kavya is simply adding fuel to fire and nothing else. Anupama should be held accountable. But others also are a part of this mistake. They cannot put all the blame on Anupama and escape. Like overpraising Anupama is wrong, lashing out at her like this is also wrong.

Had Kavya or Paritosh made this mistake everyone of those staunch Anupama’s supporters in this forum here would have badmouthed them and called them names like padhe likhe gawaar, panauti etc. and put the entire blame on them alone. I have been observing anyone that speaks against anupama in the show or doesn't put her on the pedestal gets bashed in this forum.

No others are not a part of the mistake here, if anything is their mistake then it was leaving Anupama to her own devices or letting her have her way in this matter of paying the 20 lacs tax. They were not the ones who told her to sign the papers without reading them, she did not pay a close attention to the people who approached her as bank employees and wasn't in a sound mind when she signed the papers. In fact even Kavya has adviced against taking a loan to settle the tax and was quite wary about the same but no one listened to her. When Kavya gets lashed out at for everything, gets blamed for everything as well then why not Anupama?

She was the one who projected herself as a superwoman or goddess who can solve each and every problem right? If she can get overpraised then should be lashed out at as well, it is not wrong at all and completely fair.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

They have shown a real life problem. But I now seriously hope they show a real life solution. As I don't know how one comes out of this thing. I haven't taken any loan, and if the loan was ever taken, my father was the only one to do the procedure of the loan. I wanna see how they overcome the loan problem. Anupama is in trouble. Anupama was getting an anxious feeling while signing the paper. But sometimes need of money rules out our intuition of something bad happening. This what happened with AAnupama

Anupama is all ready to tell the truth to the family. The previous problems of Pakhi, Toshu, Rakhi were such in which Anupama had minimal faults. So no one blamed Anupama except Pakhi, Toshu and Rakhi. Now everyone will blame Anupama. Kavya loves to blame her. Toshu, Pakhi even love to blame Anupama. Vanraj to pehle se blame karta hai. Rahi baat Leela ki sab achha karo to kuchh nahi, galati ho jaaye to... That day how easily Leela said to Anupama Tu baharwali hai...

Anupama says that they have a debt of 40 lacs. And earlier I have said that Loan matlab aafat ko khud bulana. Now Samar if you really love the family, then accept the international project. The problem would have solved on the day itself you accepted the contract. Anupama says that what actually happened with her. And many homemakers ke saath yeh hota hoga...

Now this is the benefit of educating people. If Anupama would have been supporter in education and exposed to the real world, then fraud wouldn't have happened. Vanraj said that Anupama destroyed all of us. You didn't see that she served your family for 25 years, Tumhare cafe ka achha usne kiya. Kavya ko to mauka chahiye Anupama ko insult karne ka

I here find everyone's fault in the situation. Anupama should not be alone whole signing. Toshu won't have come. Samar gave opinion to sign right now. Kinjal was busy in her own problem. Vanraj was also busy and everytime he relies on Anupama. Sabki galati hai is situation me. Vanraj was the most annoying one

Going by the past few tracks, I have no hope that we will get a meaningful solution for this problem either.😒

First off, I don't understand why she couldnt wait for couple of hours before signing the papers. Samar too had to step away to attend to a child who is dancing. She had all the time in the world to waste on the school dance competition, but couldnt wait few mins/hours. How foolish!🤔

You are right, Samar's offer can help them come out of it. But the perfect parents they are do not want him to take the offer just to offload the family's burden.

Vanraj is never available in the time of need. He is not man enough, IMO. He wanted all her help in setting up the cafe etc, but turned aginst her in a fraction of a sec when things went south! 😲

Vanraj knew that she is an illiterate, then why let her deal with arranging for the loan in the first place?Which man in his right mindset starts blaming and says your problem you solve it?!

Also, I find this very odd for a family who claims to be on close knit & all that. When there is a financial crisis or any crisis for that matter, they dont start pointing fingers at a person and make them drown in guilt. Instead, evaluate the situation and determine what needs to be done to come out of the problem.

No matter how it happened, at this point they all have to come together to solve the problem.

Too much drama,... she will start her aurat hoon, maa hoon, mera parivaar, baa , bapuji , her walking around in the streets aimlessly etc is unnecessary.

I sincerely wish that this lack of support from her family at the time of crisis will prompt her to move out of the house!! 😊

First anupama to do is

Write application or complaint to branch manager uska loan uske account mein credit nahin hua . Yeh mera account number hai aur is date ko loan ke apply kiya

Bank if honest will check detail. Agar galati se kisi doosre account mein paisa gaya hai to woh paisa revert karke anupama ke account mein daala jaata sakta hai

Itna mushkil nahin hai

Bus in shah family bus chillana jaante hai

Originally posted by: Rein123

Like Kavya said, she is a mahaan devi who does big Big things that even her mistakes are enormous and amount to huge blunders. She didn't murder someone but she definitely murdered their financial future.

If they don't blame her then what should they do? Get her aarti done? Bowing is the least she can do to show is sorry you don't want her to do that either? Why is she a God who has to be put on a pedestal and praised 24x7?

What saath khoon did the others do? Yes they treated her like crap no doubt but thanks to her this mistake proved they were not wrong and automatically somehow justified that as well whether you agree or disagree.

The problem starts right there, Anupama too should stop being mahaan. The family should stop acting like she is mahaan or some sort of messiah.

There is no denying that she got them into this mess. But V of all people shouldnt be telling her that "this is your mess, you clean it up". This is when they should act responsibly in finding a solution to the problem. Then put measures in place so that nothing like this can happen again, as in requiring background checks or mandating having more than one family member present during major financial transactions.

Vanraj cheating her, taking her for granted, lying to her, his children/parents can be trated as equivalent to the saath khoon. Kavya too has made mistakes, lied to her. Ditto with Toshu. All these are intangible mistakes that they were forgiven for. IMO.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

The problem starts right there, Anupama too should stop being mahaan. The family should stop acting like she is mahaan or some sort of messiah.

There is no denying that she got them into this mess. But V of all people shouldnt be telling her that "this is your mess, you clean it up". This is when they should act responsibly in finding a solution to the problem. Then put measures in place so that nothing like this can happen again, as in requiring background checks or mandating having more than one family member present during major financial transactions.

Vanraj cheating her, taking her for granted, lying to her, his children/parents can be trated as equivalent to the saath khoon. Kavya too has made mistakes, lied to her. Ditto with Toshu. All these are intangible mistakes that they were forgiven for. IMO.

No it not equal to saat khoon, he cheated on her so she divorced him, that got evened out there, taking her for granted is not a saat khoon either because that is something almost everyone does.

Anupama has literally slappee kavya so many times, so no she was not exactly forgiven.

V shouldn't be telling her that it is her mess so she should clear it up herself, but he can because they are not husband and wife anymore. He agreed to sort out the tax problem along with her because it was something that they both inherited but this is not his problem or mess. I agree they should try to look for a solution and figure a way out of it like contacting the police.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Had Kavya or Paritosh made this mistake everyone of those staunch Anupama’s supporters in this forum here would have badmouthed them and called them names like padhe likhe gawaar, panauti etc. and put the entire blame on them alone. I have been observing anyone that speaks against anupama in the show or doesn't put her on the pedestal gets bashed in this forum.

No others are not a part of the mistake here, if anything is their mistake then it was leaving Anupama to her own devices or letting her have her way in this matter of paying the 20 lacs tax. They were not the ones who told her to sign the papers without reading them, she did not pay a close attention to the people who approached her as bank employees and wasn't in a sound mind when she signed the papers. In fact even Kavya has adviced against taking a loan to settle the tax and was quite wary about the same but no one listened to her. When Kavya gets lashed out at for everything, gets blamed for everything as well then why not Anupama?

She was the one who projected herself as a superwoman or goddess who can solve each and every problem right? If she can get overpraised then should be lashed out at as well, it is not wrong at all and completely fair.

I don't know who this Anupama supporters are. I have always called out Anupama for her over mahanata. But here Shahs are blaming her like she had some bad intention. She was trying to do the best for her family and ended up making a mistake. Instead of blaming her incessantly, they should look for a solution.

@bold- That is what I am talking about. Why didn't Vanraj stay there when he knew bank people were coming? Why did they let Anupama handle this alone?

Problem with this show is that they overdo everything, be it blaming Anupama or praising her.