Landing into Trouble - Page 4

Originally posted by: janecastle

I don't know who this Anupama supporters are. I have always called out Anupama for her over mahanata. But here Shahs are blaming her like she had some bad intention. She was trying to do the best for her family and ended up making a mistake. Instead of blaming her incessantly, they should look for a solution.

@bold- That is what I am talking about. Why didn't Vanraj stay there when he knew bank people were coming? Why did they let Anupama handle this alone?

Problem with this show is that they overdo everything, be it blaming Anupama or praising her.

There are some Anupama supporters here who love to bash other characters just to justify or defend her own nonsense, be it Toshu, Pakhi, Kinjal, forget kavya she is literally their permanent target. Toshu gets berated for wanting to move out of his house and shift into Rakhi's penthouse saying he didn't earn it or it was gifted to him or he doesn't have the hasiyat of getting a house, but guess what neither does anupama, Pakhi gets called a brat, but no one can see the fact that she is just reacting to Kavya's instigation and Anupama's favoritism towards samar, Kavya is a homewrecker, yes she is one, but she didn't force vanraj to fall in love with her to cheat on anupama, he did that on his own because he was unsatisfied with his marriage, he would have an EMA with anyone but the point of the matter is now that she is married into the house as his legal wife everyone can see that she keeps targetting anupama, keeps berating her, but no one can see what anupama is doing in the name of mahanta.

See Vanraj had an order to deliver, his business is already struggling so he would obviously not want to earn poor reviews by delaying the deliveries, Bapuji was not around and samar had left to help nandini. But as Vanraj had pointed regardless of how busy they were she should have waited for them irrespective of how desperate she was, it's basic common sense. For not waiting and taking the call alone she deserves the blame. When you can accept being praised then you should be open to criticism as well, it's simple as that.

Just imagine our leaders, they get blamed left right and centre for every economic blunders by the opposition and the people, it's the same here. Had someone done this sort of blunder in my own house then the reaction of my family members would have also been the same. The only thing i appreciate about Anupama is that she came clean immediately and didn't keep the famly in the dark.

Anu should have been adamant and take the documents home to the family to look at it. Hopefully, she learns this lesson and do more for herself where she lacks in.

Originally posted by: Rein123

Please don't defend her, what she did was not a mistake, it was a blunder that even a big and devastating one that can ruin anyone.

She served them for 25 years accepted, she solved their problems, accepted but what you are forgetting is these thing were well within her domain and could have been handled well by her but iska yeh matlab toh nahin ki aap itne bade blunders karte jaao and get excused for it as well.

When she is wrong please don't brush it aside or excuse her saying she was desperate and all that, one can be desperate and act recklessly if it only concerns and affects them alone not the entire family. This is just like how a person recklessly takes the driver's seat without taking any driving classes or having a licence and then ends causing an accident where again not only could you kill someone but could also end up getting bankrupt as well. If Kavya does anything she gets demonised for it, if Pakhi, Toshu or anyone acts out if character or behave poorly they get called out so why should Anupama be treated differently?

If you don't understand something or you don't know something you either study it, take help from others or don't do anything at all. If no one was ready to show up or available during the signing then she should have just waited, toh galti uski akele ki hai in this matter, don't blame the others for reasons that are beyond their control, it's common sense that you shouldn't sign any documents without reading or understanding them. It's a loan amount she is borrowing not a cup of sugar from the neighbours house.

Sorry if I sound rude and critical but what she did is not just a mistake, it's an unforgivable mistake. Mistakes that ruin lives are worth the criticism they receive and so is Anupama.

Our view points are different but still I respect your POV

Originally posted by: dipali13

Jab scammed scam kare hai to wo apne victims ko sochane ka mouka nahi dete..meri ek dur ki Bua hai wo ghar mai hi thi infect pura pariwar waha tha do ladke mast suit pehnakar kisi American company ka brochures dikha ke bole ke aap ke samne silver and gold ko polish karke dikhayenge aur jab aapko satisfaction ho jaye to money dena varna mat dena aur badi challaki se sare pursho aur aged aunty ke samne mandir ke bartan aur kuch gold ki jewelry leke chale gaye aur kisi ko pata bhi nahi chala.. real life mai aisa hota hai mujhe bhi yaha ek Indian mila tha grocery store mai(yaha ye company aisa offer ke liye legally hire karti hai) badi badi batein didi didi bolke bharosa jata aur same sari formally karke credit card ka form bharwaya jo kuch dino baad approved hoke mujhe mila bhi par pata nahi kaise usne dummy card ke through $ 5000 nikal liye aur $ 4000 ki shopping ki mujhe nahi pata tha kyu ke maine to apna card activate karaya hi nahi thaBahot jyada halat kharab hue thi as a single mom kaha kaha madad mangi sab ne pallu zaad diya fir Bank officer ki help li aur usko identify kiya aur pakada gaya par mera credit score bigad gaya jise wapas late mujhe kitne channe chabane pade mai hi janti hu...koe bhi insan janbuj ke inka shikar nahi hota..instead shouting aur taunting ke sab ne sath milkar solution ke baare mai nahi socha Sad but true ke musibat activate his to sab se pehle apne sath chodte hai...

Oh Dipu what a sad incident happened.

But I must say that this experience can happen with all. I can surely say that the experience made you learn so many lessons.

Originally posted by: neo7

Jo log Anupamaa ko blame kar rahe hai, don't they read newspapers, even educated people get scammed. And it was not only Anupamaa's fault, all were responsible, even after knowing the time when bank guys are coming vanraj went to the market, samar insisted on signing the paper, though he knew Anu was not comfortable. Anu was already stressed about what happened with Kinjal.

But like the Shah's who suffer with Anupamaa blaming syndrome, here also people will find ways to blame only and only Anupamaa and no one else, baaki sab toh doodh ke dhule hai na. Baaki sab toh humesha bilkul sahi kaam karte hai, sab saint hai wahan.

And guess what, sabko bahana mil gaya problem se piche chutane ka. Kavya always wanted that Anu takes the responsibility of paying the tax, usko woh mil gaya.

Blame karna bohot easy hai, jo padhe likhe hai shah parivaar main, unko bolo, jaake help kare fraudster ko pakadne main, unko sab pata hai na.

Niyati... Your comment is always a stress buster for me...

Miss you in the forum.

You always support Anupama

Thank you for maintaining the positivity

Dear one...

Originally posted by: Saumya96

I will not take anyone's side. Everyone are at fault here. Jab Vanraj ko pata tha bank ke log arahe hai then why he left for market.? When Anupama knows she is not aware about bank things then why she was so desperate to sign.? Agreed Kinjal and Toshu were not present, then atleast Anupama and Samar would have waited for Vanraj to come.

I agree, aisi mistake har kisi ke saath hoti hai, let it be uneducated or educated. Aajkal padhe likhe log bhi scams me phaste hai. So Anupama ka phasna is not surprising for me. Plus, whatever the family reacted it was their sudden reaction. Koi bhi banda shock lagne ke bad aise hi chillayega. I agree ki vanraj ko adat hai Anupama par chillane ki. But in this situation his reaction was obvious for me. Let's not talk about kavya.. Toshu said he would have come.? Really, itna gussa tha to aata kya.? I don't think so. Kinjal said to find solution, she sounded intelligent at that point. Blame game ke liye they have already scolded anupama. But now stop that blame game and start thinking what should be done. Aisa nahi ki Anupama hi kare, problem pure family ki hai. Bapuji ko bola tha kya, ki tax nahi pay Kiya to khud kare hum kyu kare.?? Then why Anupama will handle that extra 20 L issue.?

Sabke Haath Gande The. Par anupama ke gande haath sabko dikhai diye. Isiliye target Anupama

Sab apna apna bachav kar rahe the

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ya to cvs ke Loop hole ki wajah se ya bank employee ki carelessness ki wajah se anupama trouble mein padi hai

Nahin to aajkal itne strict rule ban gaye hai k bank mein fraud hone ka sawal nahin paida hota

Even aaj kul bank mein speciallly agar state bank of india ATM se paise nikalo paisa nikalne se pehle system otp maangti hai aur otp bus 2.3 minute ka hi hota haii

Bina otp ke state bank ke ATM se paisa nahin nikal sakte

Surabhi teri baat sahi hai...

Par TV par yeh sab rules nahi hote hai 🤣

Originally posted by: surabhi01

To kya anupama ne chote bank mein account khula hai to aise mein vanraj ne kyon nahin bataya ki chote bank mein account mut yahan wahan se loan mut lo

And in state bank of india mein computer programming aisi hoti hai ki koi agar koi cheej missing hoti hai to account block ho jaata hai

My account was block becauuse maine kyc form nahin bhara tha . As soon I fill kyc form mera account khul gaya

But yes chote bank mein fraud hone ke chance hai to vanraj ko batana chahyi ki in chote bank wale fraud kar sakte hain. Yahan se loan mut lo

Aur anupama ne pehle se hi bata diya tha ki woh is bank se loan le rahi hai to vanraj toshu se kisi ne nahin bataaya iin chote bank se loan nahi lena hai

Kitne din baad teri comment padh rahi hu...

Aisi Leela ki durbeen jaise info sirf Surabhi de sakti hai 🤣

Originally posted by: PranPriye

It's Anu's mistake that she signed without properly understanding the documents. I understand it though. Her family's future depends on the factory as both Anu and Vanraj have a joint business there. She got desperate and took a spur of the moment decision. It's refreshing to see an ITV heroine make a mistake otherwise they are all perfect. When a person makes mistakes that is when they need their family the most. To support at the lowest. Anu's family is actually only Bapuji, Samar, Kinjal and Nandini. Rest all use her to get their work done. I would have been angry about this but Anu will only say after the matter is solved that everyone loves me, these things are normal in a family, etc., etc.

I feel that the story writers have shown that Anu remembers the serial numbers of notes for a reason. Somewhere her that habit will be useful for this matter. For now I feel Anu will go to Rakhi for help and now the audience will get an overdose of Rakhi.

Unhappy with the snail's pace at which Anu's personal journey is shown. After divorce, Anu is just been shown as great Maa and great ex-wife. Her woman's journey of finding her identity ; fulfilling her dreams of getting educated, doing something for her own mother and brother and nephew is totally lost.

Your post was bang on...

But they showed something else to show the connection between the characters

Originally posted by: neo7

Agree, no one is ready to help her. Everyone is busy blaming her, including some viewers. I want to ask these viewers, who think has to be blamed, if your parents were scammed, will you also do the same thing, or will try to handle the situation and not try to make them guilty, bcoz fraud kisike bhi saath ho sakta hai, hum jo itne padhe likhe bolte hai khudko, humaare saath bhi ho sakta hai.

The moment she solved the problem, everyone was like Anupama you're great. Like seriously