Learn from me stupid - Page 3

Originally posted by: sushups

Shah family is very problematic,but it's not toxic...I won't generalize n say every elder deserve respect because I have come across trash elders who never behave like elders ....but here thing is different the elders r not toxic ,they do everything for ur happiness ,u were given an option too that go to other house but with good heart...so that relationship is maintained ....apna alag ghosla banana galat nahi hai but apne pehle ghosle ko todna bhi sahi nahi hai ....n jab dil mein itni hi problem ki toh aram se pehle kyun nahi muh khola...ab agar main kahun ki apni image ko maintain karne ki liye kiya toh? Agar image kharab ho jaati toh vanraj se apna kaam thodi nikal pata ....ab jab zaroorat nahi toh phek do sabko. I have certain problems with my family members n I speak it there n then so they know that I m not buying whatever they r doing....they might continue with what they r doing but they know I m against it n I stood for something...but toshu ne pehle nshe mein bola because it was all there inside(but shhhh hosh mein bolta toh fav beta ki post chali jati) aur ab hosh mein bola because he is the person who cuts the bridge after crossing it

He needs hard lesson not like pakhi who was easily forgiven because of her age ...but toshu is not bacha like pakhi....one needs to learn by hard way....n I hope cvs choose hard way to bring him on his knees ......n plz cvs don't let Anupama forgive him just like that if he ever cheats on kinju(if the rumours r true) n do mera beta when rakhi kicks his a**

Nice one Sush

Toshu is like Tod do Ghosle ko. I wish how birds when leave their nest. Never find their parents. Toshu wapas aaye aur usko uski family na mile.😡😡

Originally posted by: Saumya96

Toshu just crossed the limits today, I think that was exaggerated, I mean no one in real life behaves this way with their grandparents and parents (I guess 😶, itni himmat kisiki nahi hoti yaar)

Vanraj was bang on today, just expected this shouts from him at the time of Pakhi too, atleast for insulting Anupama. Anyway like Kavya said- wo baat abb dab gayi hai.!

Felt really very bad for Kinjal, she was such a darling and she doesn't deserve Toshu at all. Don't want to say anything further, this was really an emotional episode.

That's why I said, I feel Kinjal should divorce Toshu. TOshu wanted a fashionista. But yeh fashionista sirf college mein hi hote hai. Real mein to sab log Behenji jaise hi hote hai ghar mein.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Wish that slap came from Anupama or some other elder person and not Vanraj. Kavya's Vee should be the last person to give gyaan to anyone. Did he forget all the things he did after his and Kavya's affair was exposed? It is from Vanraj and Baa that the children learned to insult their mother. They are simply mimicking things they saw all their lives. It should have been Anupama who should scold, beat or do anything with her children, because she has the right to do so. Even Bapuji was fine. But definitely not Vanraj Shah. Also this hypocrite did not do anything when his ladli beti was doing the same things. So Vee should just shut it.

There is no use talking about Toshu. He has crossed all limits in his selfishness and greed. I am waiting for the day Rakhi Dave will turn against him. That is when he will realize this mother's value.

Now only Rakhi can show him a mirror. Anupama should have slapped but I dont now expect the slap from her. And the Masaalewali line made me feel that Anupama has given birth to Baby Vanraj

Originally posted by: janecastle

There are many spoiled brats who behave this way. I have seen it myself. Only difference is most parents don't behave like Anupama and take all the insult silently. They will give it back equally to their kids and shut them up.

I have seen two spoilt brats, and the parents didn't scold them at all. My experience is an exception

Originally posted by: ketty84

It's a matter of time now rakhi will show her real face to toshu. Her plan was always about separating Kinjal and Toshu. It was only his family stood between rakhi and her goal. Now toshu will become rakhi barking dog 🐕. Than he will realise what his family stands for. We all can understand he wasn't even no one wants to live in house which become drama house. What he did today is heinous crime. By god how can somebody be that cruel towards his family. His family loves him. Anupama was right if you wanted to go just go but what toshu want is break his ties from root. He forgot without root no one can stand. Aab maaza aayegaa jab rakhi Roz gulabon mein lapate lapate kar kante fekehgi. Toshu today was too much

You perfectly said, getting separated from roots is a big thing.

My father has separated but still we celebrate all the festivals with my joint family. He still cares for every family member. And that's how we should be separated. Not like Toshu saying my family is a Fatichar

Originally posted by: ketty84

She always got paralyzed when someone insults her. They have shown this trend in entire show. This is the story of a woman who was taught by her mother woman needs to wear all the insults for family peace. That became intrinsic part of Anupama personality. Now she is developing herself. Now her dressing sense improved because she start thinking you have to get ready for yourself also. I think next they will show she will regain her self confidence . One day she will definately give shut up call to one who insults her. Toshu will be ashamed that day.

My mother is not in beauty, but I never felt ashamed of her. My Mummy refuses to learn new things. But here even after learning new things. Toshu is insulting her 😡

Okay so guys just came across instagram post of "saas bahu aur betiyan" (I don't know whether the name is correct 🤔). Anyway, so they have shown upcoming twist in the show that is KINJAL HAS LEFT HER JOB...!!!

Yes, she had some argument with her boss, who tortured her very badly and hence out of frustration she left the job. Aur rote rote she came to Anupama but she lied to her family kyuki unko tension na hojaye....

This is the upcoming twist, yaha 20L ka to kuch ho hi nahi raha 😶

Originally posted by: neo7

I don't understand on what basis did Toshu called Kinjal as behenji, just because she wants to be with family, or because she willingly helps in doing household chores, or she respects her elders and her in laws. Tishu ka kinjal ko behenji bulaane ka koi bhi logic tha?

Ye toshu ke aise kaunse duffer friends hai jo ye jaante huye ki Toshu is vegetarian, uske ghar pe aake non veg aur drinks ki demand karenge.

Isko friends banane aate bhi hai ya nahi.

Friends aise hone chahiye jo hamari family ki respect kare naki mazak banaye.

Aise demand karne wale doston ko restaurant main akele bulana chahiye na ghar main.

Aur agar itna hi khane aur pine ka shauq hai toh restaurant main treat.

Mujhe toh ye bhi nahi samajhta ki dance teacher hona kab se shameful profession hone laga. Toshu kal baa ko gawaar bol raha tha. Khud ki soch gawaar jaisi hai.

And taane toh Rakhi bhi deti hai, har roz kisike ghar pohonch jaati hai entertainment ke liye aur aag lagane, dusro ki insult karne, ye toh gawaaron se bhi gayi guzri harkate hai, Usme problem nahi hai toshu ko and baa ki baatein gawaaron jaisi lagti hai. And baa ke taane funny hote hai atleast now, hurtful se zyada. But Rakhi dace is crass not class. Agar class aisi hoti hai, acha hai Anupamaa is unclassy as per Toshu's definition.

Yesterday, still some of Toshu's point made sense, though bolne ka tareeka galat tha, but aaj toh kuch bhi bakwas kar raha tha just to prove that uska ghar se jaane ka decision ka reason is family and not his laalach of staying in penthouse.

I agree with dipali, Anu was in shock after hearing toshu, thats the reason uska ekdum se reaction nahi nikla. She couldn't believe what she was hearing.

What Vanraj said was true, hum apne bado ko samjhaye aaj ke taur tareeke, they are willing to change. We also teach our parents some new things, some new type of behavior, zamaane ke hisaab se, bad ache se samjhaate hai, aisa nahi ki unko itna insult kare sidha ki u don't know to behave. And they are always open to changes, its not like they don't. Hum khud bhi kitni cheeze baad main sikhte hai, when we start working or going out, tab agar koi friend tumpe hasega tumhare kisi behaviour pe, toh tumhe bura nahi lagega?

Bang on Niyati...

After a long time, heard something from you....

Anupama might be in shock, but agar Vanraj nahi bolta to Pakhi ki tarah woh bhi aur bolta. And Anupama will still stay silent. I just love the Anupama who was a tigress. But why not in front of her kids. Samar ko to suna diya tha, par yeh dono😭

Originally posted by: neo7

Jab bache itne bade ho na, toh maine dekha hai, parents become numb when they insult them, thats why we see when kids throw their parents out of their house and send them to old age home, woh log kuch nahi kar paate. I have witnessed my uncle and aunty going through same insults. Thankfully, they had us to support them and finally, his son was kicked out of the house. But at that point of time, only one thing goes in their mind, where did we go wrong.

You used the word old age and I am emotional

Kosha tumne kya likha hai Gujarati mein . Translate karo. Sub sar ke upar se nikal gaya gujrati language

Waise balika vadhu 2 dekh rahi hoon wahaan pe har sentence ke baad che laga rahe hain it is on gujrati background