You haven't noticed that Anupama you are talking about surface only when their is some threat to her loved ones. She gave divorce to vanraj they have shown for herself only no but this kind of woman gave divorce to vanraj kind of person because vanraj ways will effect more of the children if she continued this marriage. Somewhere Anupama first time think for herself at that time. On Anupama list she is last but summer nadini and Kinjal support and now her success start making her see self-worth. But change in basic nature not happen so fast it will take time. In serial they have shown right in some way.
I repeatedly say her journey to divorce was the most beautiful track in the whole world of television. Such a long process and real process. My cousin took the divorce and I experienced it. But her after divorce journey has only been dependent on the family. I wanted to see her as an individual and not as someone whose life is dedicated to family