Today's sbs segment

My hate for pakhi is rising up now

The new segment shows :

1.pakhi calling her mother Anupama ji ...n does batameezi

2.pakhi says if Anupama comes she won't perform in the function

3. Anupama was stitching her dress as the stitching of the dress was fragile n can cause wardrobe malfunction later

4.kavya too jumps in defending pakhi

5.baa is angry

6.baa says aisa raha toh kal yeh apne parents ko chapal dikhayegi

7.bapuji says bacho ko kandhe pe bithaya jata hai sar par nahi ..n make sure pakhi doesn't disrespects anu again

8.vanraj is just fed up n says aurato ke jhagde khatam hi nahi hote iss ghar mein

9.toshu as well is irritated n says can we peacefully sleep.n also says shut up to kinjal

I just want to thrash pakhi...till all her parts r swollen.....if anyone is disgusted by this statement of mine then sorry in advance my limit of taking the attitude of this brat is getting exhausted

pakhi did not become like that in a day ,past 14yrs she and her siblings never been told off and never had been taught the difference between the right or wrong .

Originally posted by: kooki07

pakhi did not become like that in a day ,past 14yrs she and her siblings never been told off and never had been taught the difference between the right or wrong .

I think the root of the problem is Anupama staying in the same household. Once the divorce is over, she should have moved out and worked out a plan for visitation rights ( if needed). Their kids are adults and the last one is at the cusp of becoming an adult, so no need to overly care for them either. Heck, she even chose to be in a different room in the resort, that stride should have continued.

It is sometimes irrtating to see Anupama overdoing for baa bapuji, stating that she is living in her father's house etc. They are respected for being elders and all that is fine. But she goes overboard, IMO

It is due to the overpampering of Anu and Vanraj.

Vanraj treated Samar shit which I don't support but one parent needs to be strict to have a good parvarish.

Samar only got Anupamaa's love whereas Toshu and Pakhi got the love and pampering from both sides.

Specially Pakhi getting over pampering.

I am 20 yrs old, If I even raise my voice I can still be slapped by my parents and here she is full on insulting her parents.

Like seriously

But Anupamaa is mahaan, my mum would have left me on my own and taane aur thappad padhte woh alag.

This is too much

Pakhi sirf anupama ko hi attitude dikhati hai , she never behaves like this with vanraaj even with kavya also she speaks softly and the reason is she has taken her own mother for granted. She is like this only from the start and instead of correcting and discipling her vanraaj is busy in covering her mistakes and anupama is crying and overflowing her motherly love which is not require at this moment.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I think the root of the problem is Anupama staying in the same household. Once the divorce is over, she should have moved out and worked out a plan for visitation rights ( if needed). Their kids are adults and the last one is at the cusp of becoming an adult, so no need to overly care for them either. Heck, she even chose to be in a different room in the resort, that stride should have continued.

It is sometimes irrtating to see Anupama overdoing for baa bapuji, stating that she is living in her father's house etc. They are respected for being elders and all that is fine. But she goes overboard, IMO

problem is not living in the same house, problem is people here are unnecessarily poking their nose in another personal space and matters. They just love to fight , taunt and demean each other. Why don't they just mind their own business .

Why Anupama is cooking for everyone in the house, lady you are separated now so just cook for yourself rest can manage their own expenses and needs.

Their kids are adult, one is married and other is soon to get married so let them live wherever they wnat to live, whether in same house or separate house. She doesn't need to do anything for baa bapuji also, let kavya vanraaj take charge of them ,its their responsibility not anupama. since Pakhi is close to vanraaj and kavya is her bestie so let them handle her .

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

It is due to the overpampering of Anu and Vanraj.

Vanraj treated Samar shit which I don't support but one parent needs to be strict to have a good parvarish.

Samar only got Anupamaa's love whereas Toshu and Pakhi got the love and pampering from both sides.

Specially Pakhi getting over pampering.

I am 20 yrs old, If I even raise my voice I can still be slapped by my parents and here she is full on insulting her parents.

Like seriously

But Anupamaa is mahaan, my mum would have left me on my own and taane aur thappad padhte woh alag.

This is too much

Vanraj treated Samar like shit because he was an academic failure and a rebel. Anupama favours her sons more than Pakhi especially Samar, she only remembers Pakhi when she is about drift apart from her or if she lashes back at her for the same, and this is not the first time Pakhi briught this up. Like how Samar is close to Anupama, Pakhi and Toshu are close to Vanraj because they look up to him and value him, If Pakhi had to choose between Anupama and Vanraj, you can bet any day that she would choose her father any day.

I don't think Pakhi has ever insulted Vanraj it's only Anupama whom she treats like shit and raises her voice over, but why blame her, this is what she learnt from her own father and grandmother, she saw how everyone treats her mother like crap so she is doing the same. In short Anupama has no value in her life, she would have rather been motherless than have Anupama as a mother in her life it seems.