Nandini was rude and it wasn’t required - Page 4

Originally posted by: Annie_13

Nandini is Only Samar, Anupama and Kinjal's family not the family of other Shah members. Pakhi doesn’t accept her as family. She even said "jab bhabi and all ban jaogi tab bolna". My point being, you don’t become a family by forcing someone. And besides the house is definitely not nandini's. It's Pakhi's house. Wrong place for her to give gyan. When you forcefully enter into someone else's private space and give unsolicited advice, It's not called disciplining.It's called gundagiri. It's stupid and illogical.

Telling pakhi to get lost was height of stupidity.

Kinjal is her family & Pakhi treats her badly as well

Anupama is her mom and Pakhi is disgusting with her as well

So Nandini has to wait to become Pakhis family to be insulted and have the right to respond back? Granted Nandini did say a few incorrect things but Pakhi could have just said no thanks Nandini I don't need your help when she asked to help Pakhi. Instead she was crass as hell but that's okay?

Alright then

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Kinjal is her family & Pakhi treats her badly as well

Anupama is her mom and Pakhi is disgusting with her as well

So Nandini has to wait to become Pakhis family to be insulted and have the right to respond back? Granted Nandini did say a few incorrect things but Pakhi could have just said no thanks Nandini I don't need your help when she asked to help Pakhi. Instead she was crass as hell but that's okay?

Alright then

Nandini ( a grown up mature) couldn’t have waited until she steps out of her zone to insult a person( which Isn't even adult). Stepped right into someone's private space. And then telling her to get lost from pakhi's own space and then support child abuse and It's all fine and glorifyed.

Alright then.

Originally posted by: Annie_13

Nandini ( a grown up mature) couldn’t have waited until she steps out of her zone to insult a person( which Isn't even adult). Stepped right into someone's private space. And then telling her to get lost from pakhi's own space and then support child abuse and It's all fine and glorifyed. All right then.

Pakhi is 16/17..not an adult but not a child. There's enough common sense to know her behaviour is crap.

To excuse her behaviour is enabling it...pretty much what Anupamaa is doing

As I clearly stated Nand was out of line with her slap comment but I get her outburst at being spoken to so rudely

My roof my rules only goes so far...it doesn't allow one to be disrespected or disrespect others

Had Nandini come at her aggressively or taunted her initially I would understand Pakhis reaction. I'm not a fan of Nandini but its clear she came with good intentions

Both are at fault here...not just Nandini

Pakhis story line makes little sense as it is..they turned her character from an insecure teen to a character few can sympathetize with

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Pakhi is 16/17..not an adult but not a child. There's enough common sense to know her behaviour is crap.

To excuse her behaviour is enabling it...pretty much what Anupamaa is doing

As I clearly stated Nand was out of line with her slap comment but I get her outburst at being spoken to so rudely

My roof my rules only goes so far...it doesn't allow one to be disrespected or disrespect others

Had Nandini come at her aggressively or taunted her initially I would understand Pakhis reaction. I'm not a fan of Nandini but its clear she came with good intentions

Both are at fault here...not just Nandini

Pakhis story line makes little sense as it is..they turned her character from an insecure teen to a character few can sympathetize with

I also have made it clear that I'm not defending Pakhi's behaviour. Pakhi insinuated first but Nandini started being aggressive first.

Pakhi is still not that character a few sympathies with. Everyone hates her. She's still vile and dumb. But nandini is portrayed to be mature woman which didn’t reflect in her behaviour in pakhi wala kand...

I believe respecting someone's privacy is the most important manner one Should learn.

Hence Nandini was intolerable yesterday.

Originally posted by: Annie_13

I also have made it clear that I'm not defending Pakhi's behaviour. Pakhi insinuated first but Nandini started being aggressive first.

Pakhi is still not that character a few sympathies with. Everyone hates her. She's still vile and dumb. But nandini is portrayed to be mature woman which didn’t reflect in her behaviour in pakhi wala kand...

I believe respecting someone's privacy is the most important manner one Should learn.

Hence Nandini was intolerable yesterday.

I believe respect alone is the biggest manner one can learn...once that's learned, rest falls in place

I will just say it's an agree to disagree topic for me with regards to Nand vs Pakhi

You have your views & I have mine

Nandini was not wrong at all IMO, Pakhi was/is a rude bitch and needed to be shown the mirror, not everyone is going to tolerate her rudeness the way Anu and Vanraj do. I’m glad that Kinjal and Nandini stepped in and told that spoilt brat that she’s being a brat and needs to start behaving. Respect is given when respect is earned. Toshu for that matter as well, that pretentious brat deserves the same treatment.

Pakhi was even more disgusting in today's episode. I agree with Ba she needs a tight slap.

Originally posted by: Dilwali89

Pakhi was even more disgusting in today's episode. I agree with Ba she needs a tight slap.

It's Baa's house. She may say it but Nandini doesn’t have the right.

Originally posted by: Tani91

Nandini was not wrong at all IMO, Pakhi was/is a rude bitch and needed to be shown the mirror, not everyone is going to tolerate her rudeness the way Anu and Vanraj do. I’m glad that Kinjal and Nandini stepped in and told that spoilt brat that she’s being a brat and needs to start behaving. Respect is given when respect is earned. Toshu for that matter as well, that pretentious brat deserves the same treatment.

There is a way of showing things. One doesn't need to be aggressive to give reality check

Originally posted by: Annie_13

There is a way of showing things. One doesn't need to be aggressive to give reality check