Upbringing , bad parenting, slave mentality, dysfunctional family

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Shah family is disgrace to society and have no family values. I feel really bad when I see such dysfunctional family . A family which lacks moral values, a family which has trust issues, a family with no communication environment and having tendency of pulling down each other. A family which is a complete mess at this moment so Who is at fault?


1. Vanraj - The man who disrespected his wife because she was less educated , clearly giving the idea that she was not upto his standards and forced her into a loveless marriage. Insulted her on daily basis in front of her own kids who also learned to disrespect their mother and it was normalized thus giving the bad upbringing to kids .Subsequently husband broke wife's trust , had an extramarital affair , sets the wrong example and become the prime reason of this broken house and strained relations which is beyond repair.


2. Baa Bapuji- Baa who always thought she was not her choice, tried to find fault in every act of her , became insensitive towards her and pushed her into a hell. Bapuji never tried to stop her and if he did that was not enough.


3. Children:- They have got bad upbringing, spoilt by their own father and grandmother , always disrespectful . ghar me jaisa dekha wo waise ban gaye . Treated her mother like a slave and for this they have no iota of shame.


4. Anupama herself:- She is her own enemy because she kept quiet all those years, never raised her voice , became habitual to her sufferings thus suffocated and killed herself in despair.


5. Second marriage:- Middle aged father's second marriage leading to house full of ex cheater husband, his new wife , ex wife , children, son and son's wife , all living together in a mess with so much negative emotions.


At the end all these daily dramas and chaos leads to emotional imbalance , instability and created a toxic environment not only for elders of the house but for the children also and no child deserves to be in such a pathetic situation brought by their own parents. We compare such family with Bollywood family saying its progressive and such things even happened with them and they are leading a normal life. But in reality its not normal, nobody will come and told you their dark truth and truth is such things come with a heavy price and with a great emotional and mental loss. No wonder why broken families children are clinically depressed these days.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Such families can exist only in TV drama.

Ex and current wife can't live together. Also no one is like anupama who wakes at 4am to do gadha majduri of ex saas,, ex pati sautan and bahu.

Like Rakhi said Anupama has mahanta syndrome.


Also it's wrong with Kavya to put her and ex bahu under same roof and ex wife helping her current husband.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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You are absolutely correct for everyone!

Abhi tak anupama and vanraj sirf ek ghar mai rehte the but ab workspace bhi share karege.

Iam seeing Dance academy is bapuji’s factory place .

Anupama is opening her dance academy on bapuji’s place . Bapuji ne anupama ke naam sirf aadha ghar kiya tha , aadhi factory land nahi diya hai. Where is anupama’s self respect? Agar apna business start karna hai toh loan lekar rented place lena chahiye , free mai bapuji ki factory place mil gayi toh use karne ke liye ha bol diya. Aise toh itne self respect ka lecture diya tha divorce ke time, after divorce what she is doing? Using ex-father in law’s property for her dance academy?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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yes you should be thankful to her and her son they gave a corner to bapuli son to use it for his cafe .

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