Too much to handle

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Suddenly a thought of Kinjal passed in Anupama's mind. She understood Kinjal, not like Leela who never even thought about Anupama. Her lines to describe ladies were very beautiful. Anupama is saying that she will take care of everything, practically its not possible. You need to have an additional support.


Bapuji was so amazing, that it reminded me of my family. Where we work with division of labour. I will say Kavya and Kinjal also have to work a little bit, not that they should take entire responsibility, but they can take little responsibility. Anupama gets to know that her mother is ill. Situations like this might arise in future.Anupama might have to leave the house in the future. So there needs to be a back up plan.


The logic is if work is divided between 10 people. So 10 percent work is on all. So if one person goes away. The 10 percent responsibility is divided on all. So it's not hectic but here every responsibility is on Anupama.She even asked Kinjal to stay away from work.


Anupama thought about Kinjal but in return even Kinjal thought about Anupama. It's said that when we are weak and are in pressure. The sinister thoughts overpower us. Kinjal is at that point, everytime she can't be sound. At some point she will lose her soundness. After all we are humans. Kavya and her evil thoughhts are overpowering kavya. I could literally see my Bhabhi in Kinjal, it happens in every household. Every DIL has to face taunts. But I dont understand why office life is given more important that house life.The boss is even harsh than MIL but still we can't even dare to get angry on him.


Every human being loses their cool. Kinjal lost it. Leela comes from an old generation and she is reluctant is to change. Why she loves Anupama is that she has passed all her challenges. Now Kinjal can't pass all her levels. Leela was at fault and Kinjal was also at fault. What if Dholakia was in Leela's place. Will he ever allow comprises in his work? She will listen to Dholakia because he gives money. Leela's fault was that she is seeing Anupama everywhere. She is demanding perfection everywhere.


What Kinjal is being facing I am facing the same. Because I have music, office and Home to handle as due to some situations I am managing the whole cooking of my house for now. It happens only in cooking that you lose your cool. Yesterday only I was frustrated with the taunts. I can much relate to Kinjal, but it happens. It gets a tedious job. I fought with my mother that she always taunts me. Now the thing was that Mummy said yeh aise karo, aise nahi kiya to roti jal gai and then the bomb blasted. Then I said why she always scolds me, then mummy said ki puri roti jal rahi hai, phir bhi tujhe kuchh na kahu. My mother wants to improve me, but Leela wanna give orders...


Anupama wants that Kinjal should not do any work. But Anupama should teach her some work. So that if Anupama is not there she won't face a difficulty. Thoda kaam sikhna hi padta hai. Even Pakhi, Samar should learn this. We are all curious to learn new technology then why we take a step back in this cooking thing. Leela has scolded Kinjal for cooking and not other chores. Why cooking is always a tedious job? In fact it's the basic necessity every being should know. If you are not perfect cook, it's Ok, but sikhna padta hi hai.



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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think I am liking this track, though was apprehensive about it first, but I think this track will show the problems that actually a working woman faces. Though everyone helped Anupamaa in all her household work and gave bare minimum work to kinjal, but still they cannot expect kinjal to do everything perfectly. Anupama rightly said the way they cannot expect pakhi to make perfect rotis, they should should not expect from kinjal also. Kinjal's reaction was justified, but one thing she said wrong that Mummy subah se chali jaati hai raat ko aati hai and bich main main fas jaati hun, kinjal knows Anupamaa's mother is not well and thus she has to shuttle between both the house, atleast expected kinjal to be considerate about that. And this sentence came out of her mouth, bcoz kavya ne bhi usse ye hi bola ki anu toh chali gayi tum fas gayi. So this line was influenced bcoz of Kavya's instigation. But her other reaction was mainly because of Baa's constant comparisons

Also jab maid rakhne ki baat ho rahi thi, kinjal ko bola tha tum decide karo tumhe maid rakhni hai ya nahi, she refused it, uss time usse mahaan hone kisne bola tha.

But baa ki bhi galti hai, jo usse constant comparison kar rahi hai, I agree khana thik na bane toh waste hota hai and if you know kinjal is not very well versed with making food, don't ask her to make food and then complaint.

Can I ask but what does Kavya actually do other than instigating Kinjal. I toh didn't understand when Anu said ki kinjal aur kavya pe ghar kaam ka pressure nahi daalenge, main toh ye soch rahi tho, Kavya pe waise bhi kaunsa ghar kaam ka pressure hai.

Ab vanraj jaa ke Anupamaa ko puch raha hai koi help karu, kavya ko bhi puch sakta hai, but kavya kuch kare toh help kare na vanraj uski 😂😂😂

Edited by neo7 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: neo7

I think I am liking this track, though was apprehensive about it first, but I think this track will show the problems that actually a working woman faces. Though everyone helped Anupamaa in all her household work and gave bare minimum work to kinjal, but still they cannot expect kinjal to do everything perfectly. Anupama rightly said the way they cannot expect pakhi to make perfect rotis, they should should not expect from kinjal also. Kinjal's reaction was justified, but one thing she said wrong that Mummy subah se chali jaati hai raat ko aati hai and bich main main fas jaati hun, kinjal knows Anupamaa's mother is not well and thus she has to shuttle between both the house, atleast expected kinjal to be considerate about that. And this sentence came out of her mouth, bcoz kavya ne bhi usse ye hi bola ki anu toh chali gayi tum fas gayi. So this line was influenced bcoz of Kavya's instigation. But her other reaction was mainly because of Baa's constant comparisons

Also jab maid rakhne ki baat ho rahi thi, kinjal ko bola tha tum decide karo tumhe maid rakhni hai ya nahi, she refused it, uss time usse mahaan hone kisne bola tha.

But baa ki bhi galti hai, jo usse constant comparison kar rahi hai, I agree khana thik na bane toh waste hota hai and if you know kinjal is not very well versed with making food, don't ask her to make food and then complaint.

Can I ask but what does Kavya actually do other than instigating Kinjal. I toh didn't understand when Anu said ki kinjal aur kavya pe ghar kaam ka pressure nahi daalenge, main toh ye soch rahi tho, Kavya pe waise bhi kaunsa ghar kaam ka pressure hai.

Ab vanraj jaa ke Anupamaa ko puch raha hai koi help karu, kavya ko bhi puch sakta hai, but kavya kuch kare toh help kare na vanraj uski 😂😂😂


Everyday what is shown in Anupama I can relate to it in my real life. In Kinjal I saw my Bhabhi and myself too. Nice the CVs brought up this topic. Its for working woman. Working se yaad aaya were is Tania? She can bring a better perspective. As she is married and working


Firstly Kinjal said that she wont keep a maid but now see...I forgot this point


Why Anupama is still thinking about Kavya. Kavya tute fute kuchh bhi ho Anupama ko kya. Kavya pe aisa koi burden hi nahi hai

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: musicalstorm


Everyday what is shown in Anupama I can relate to it in my real life. In Kinjal I saw my Bhabhi and myself too. Nice the CVs brought up this topic. Its for working woman. Working se yaad aaya were is Tania? She can bring a better perspective. As she is married and working


Firstly Kinjal said that she wont keep a maid but now see...I forgot this point


Why Anupama is still thinking about Kavya. Kavya tute fute kuchh bhi ho Anupama ko kya. Kavya pe aisa koi burden hi nahi hai

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/anupamaa/5234473/today-kinjal-was-absolutely-right

I have made entire post on this subject.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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My taiji aata knead kar ke rakh ti thin

Aur bahaar thela pur roti banane wala nikalta tha . Tai use to knead kiya hua aata deti thi to roti banane wala aur woh roti banane wala roti bel kur sek kur wahin thela pur hi roti bana kur de deta tha

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Badi family mein jahaan pur 8,9 hrs ka job hai to uske liye patli patli roti banana ka possible nahin hota


Log yeh kehte hain ki sabji baarik kaato to sabji tasty banti hai but agar badi family agar baarik sabji kaatne chale to tub toh ho gaya . mere nani ke 6 bache aur plus nana nani. Unke yahan baarik sabji nahi kar ti thi kyonki family badi thi

Edited by surabhi01 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Read the post and wanna ask were have you gone? Tania

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

My taiji aata knead kar ke rakh ti thin

Aur bahaar thela pur roti banane wala nikalta tha . Tai use to knead kiya hua aata deti thi to roti banane wala aur woh roti banane wala roti bel kur sek kur wahin thela pur hi roti bana kur de deta tha


Surabhi bahut dino baat tumhara comment padha

Kahan chali gai ho behen 😆

Tumhare khaane ke post ke bina yeh serial Hazam hi nahi ho raha

Kaisi ho?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Badi family mein jahaan pur 8,9 hrs ka job hai to uske liye patli patli roti banana ka possible nahin hota


Log yeh kehte hain ki sabji baarik kaato to sabji tasty banti hai but agar badi family agar baarik sabji kaatne chale to tub toh ho gaya . mere nani ke 6 bache aur plus nana nani. Unke yahan baarik sabji nahi kar ti thi kyonki family badi thi


Surabhi Baarik Sabzi mein kya hota hai. Ki chewing easy ho jaati hai. Upar se masaale usmein ghul mil jaate hai.

Badi sabzi mein MAssale ka swaad nahi aata.

Chopper ko bhi use kar sakte hai

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Hello how are u koshal

Nive to see u back


Khush nahin bus aajkal khuch cheeje ka gahan adhyayan matlab google mein research kar rahi thi. Khuch cheejein bahut confuse karti hai . Ek hi baat ki alag alag story

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