Anupama Maid Kavya

I think a lot of people are blowing things out way too much. Its almost like a habit to hate on anupama's character. What she said about the maid is true, you must teach her your ways. But she also said that she doesn't want a maid, but if kinjal and kavya want they can have a maid. It is as simple as that. She doesnt want a maid because she already taught everything to Jhilmil and doesnt wanna do that again. Is there a rule saying that a working women must hire help around the house. There is too much debate going on about getting a maid.

Also I think that with Kavya they are showing what a typical male excepts out of his wife. So far she has only seen Vanraj's love not his bad habits. Of course vanraj will compare her to anupama, because with anupama if she didnt live upto his standards then she was not a good wife and mother.

Totally agree to you. Everyone is unnecessarily blowing things out of proportion. The way Kavya has right to decide that she does not want to do household chores and hire a maid, Anupamaa also has a right to decide that she wants to continue doing it. I don't understand why it is wrong. SHe is doing at her own will and happily. Why are people terming her as a maid is also I don't understand. When she will not be able to manage she will say, right now she is able to manage both so she said she doesn't want for herself, others can decide for them.

In fact she was the one who explained Baa how Kavya was right in deciding for herself. This everyone will conveniently ignore, bcoz if they remember this then how will they bash Anupamaa.

She left the decision on kavya and Kinjal and they both decided for themselves. In this also they found a way to bash Anupamaa bcoz she said the truth that training a maid and getting a job done from maid is not an easy task. And that also she said after Kavya said that she will trained maid, so Anupamaa said how much ever tarined maid it is, she has to be trained to family needs specifically.

When Rakhi called Anupamaa maid, Kavya was smirking, isn't she degrading housewives and the work they do? Yahan sabko dikh raha hai ek working women ko sab target kar rahe hai which is not the case, no one except Vanraj expects Kavya to do his work. And same people are calling Anu as maid, aren't they degrading housewives?

Its everyone's own personal choice. Not all working women hire maids and not all housewives refrain from hiring maid. Also here they have a maid and she is just on leave. At our house also when maids are on leave we manage do not hire new maids. Still no one stopped Kavya from hiring maid for herself.

Originally posted by: neo7

Totally agree to you. Everyone is unnecessarily blowing things out of proportion. The way Kavya has right to decide that she does not want to do household chores and hire a maid, Anupamaa also has a right to decide that she wants to continue doing it. I don't understand why it is wrong. SHe is doing at her own will and happily. Why are people terming her as a maid is also I don't understand. When she will not be able to manage she will say, right now she is able to manage both so she said she doesn't want for herself, others can decide for them.

In fact she was the one who explained Baa how Kavya was right in deciding for herself. This everyone will conveniently ignore, bcoz if they remember this then how will they bash Anupamaa.

She left the decision on kavya and Kinjal and they both decided for themselves. In this also they found a way to bash Anupamaa bcoz she said the truth that training a maid and getting a job done from maid is not an easy task. And that also she said after Kavya said that she will trained maid, so Anupamaa said how much ever tarined maid it is, she has to be trained to family needs specifically.

When Rakhi called Anupamaa maid, Kavya was smirking, isn't she degrading housewives and the work they do? Yahan sabko dikh raha hai ek working women ko sab target kar rahe hai which is not the case, no one except Vanraj expects Kavya to do his work. And same people are calling Anu as maid, aren't they degrading housewives?

Exactly Niyati

Housewife ko Rakhi pehle se hi naukrani bol rahi hai. This is already degrading housewives.

Not in a mood to discuss much of it...As still this thing is perception based. And we cant change perceptions. You know

It is note hate on anupama character

It is concern for anupama character

Anupama ki surgery hui hai woh abhi teaching job bhi kar rahi hai, online class bhi chala rahi baad mein dance academy ki CEO bhi banegi aur 7 family ka kaam karegi toh kya anupama itna sub khuch kar paayegi aage jaakur kya anupama ko health compicatiion nahin honge agar jyaada kaam karenge anupama?

Anupama work nahin kar rahi hai. Anupama over work kar rahe hai ghar ka kaam bura nahin hai but over work bhi harmful hota hai

Agar anupama ki health dekhte hue anupama ko over work na karna pade uske liye maid rakhne ki baat ho rahi hai to isme galat kya hai isme hate jaisa kya hua

Theoritical chahe koi kitna bhi kahe ki ek single ya do woman roj 7 member kar lengi that to with hand but i can say practically it is not possible at all

In fact, people have every right to keep a maid or not keep a maid based on their financial situation / household situation etc. If Anupama wants to work, it's her lookout. Why the fuss over this? We have 2 maids, 2 cooks and a driver coming to my house. But breakfast and tea / coffee are always made by us ourselves, and we all know how to fend for ourselves in case any of them do not come on any day. This is our own comfort that we have worked out. Anupama is also right. We live in a duplex and one maid does downstairs work and one upstairs. Even when we moved the upstairs maid to downstairs there was a lot of retraining and adjustment involved, let alone if a new person comes in, no matter how professionally trained they are.

I have one more take on this. A decision for a live-in maid especially cannot be taken by one member of the household alone, like Kavya has done. It is a matter of safety and security plus privacy, like everyone was talking about in the precap. If she wants to keep someone for making food for Vanraj and herself and to clean their area etc., she has every right to do it. But a live-in maid has access to all areas of the house 24x7. So it cannot be taken just like that.

Anupama will do 18 hrs work and just sleep for only 6 hrs inspite of surgery .

And Even after just 6 hrs of sleep when she had surgery anupama will still engertic. Kitna unrealistic hai yeh sub

I knowledge serial hai but abhi yeh bahut jyaada unrealistic dikha rahe hain. Ki anupama surgery ke baad jis surgery ko jyaada time nahi gujra hai abhi anupama ki theek se recovery bhi nahin hui aur anupama aaram se 18 ghante ka 7 member kar rahi hai aur 18 ghante ke baad anupama bhi engertic hai ?

I Dont why cvs Hell bent on showing anupama aslsuper Human being

Originally posted by: neo7

Totally agree to you. Everyone is unnecessarily blowing things out of proportion. The way Kavya has right to decide that she does not want to do household chores and hire a maid, Anupamaa also has a right to decide that she wants to continue doing it. I don't understand why it is wrong. SHe is doing at her own will and happily. Why are people terming her as a maid is also I don't understand. When she will not be able to manage she will say, right now she is able to manage both so she said she doesn't want for herself, others can decide for them.

In fact she was the one who explained Baa how Kavya was right in deciding for herself. This everyone will conveniently ignore, bcoz if they remember this then how will they bash Anupamaa.

She left the decision on kavya and Kinjal and they both decided for themselves. In this also they found a way to bash Anupamaa bcoz she said the truth that training a maid and getting a job done from maid is not an easy task. And that also she said after Kavya said that she will trained maid, so Anupamaa said how much ever tarined maid it is, she has to be trained to family needs specifically.

When Rakhi called Anupamaa maid, Kavya was smirking, isn't she degrading housewives and the work they do? Yahan sabko dikh raha hai ek working women ko sab target kar rahe hai which is not the case, no one except Vanraj expects Kavya to do his work. And same people are calling Anu as maid, aren't they degrading housewives?

Its everyone's own personal choice. Not all working women hire maids and not all housewives refrain from hiring maid. Also here they have a maid and she is just on leave. At our house also when maids are on leave we manage do not hire new maids. Still no one stopped Kavya from hiring maid for herself.

Rakhi always believed jo women single handedly ghar ka kam kare woh maid bann jati hai and its rakhi's strong belief. Her this belief has nothing related to housewife community. Reality is not just for rakhi even watchers also felt that anupama looks more like maid than daughter in law of the house because of anupama's old submissive nature during first 40-50 episodes.

Housewives are maid is not rakhi's thought process. Her thought process is shah's are capable to exploit effectively.

Sometimes i feel her main problem is not only domestic work but the reality of shah family where people can expect from daughter in law to manage SINGLE HANDEDLY house.

Even if rakhi feels anupama's place as maid in the house, she should not pointed it out in her daughter's house and should not taunt anupama.

If i remember old episodes of this show, i myself had always felt anupama as a maid of the house, the way people used to ignore her or never waited for her during toshu's ring ceremony or any other events of first 50 episodes, anupama always looked like servant of the house who had no respect no value and was only running behind family members.

During toshu's enagament episode my mummy had told me ,anupama looks more like maid than daughter in law which i had always felt. Agar ap bahu ko laxmi jaise treat nahi karoge toh woh puri dunia ko maid lagegi.

Housewives maid nahi hoti hai but jiska ghar mai koi izzat na ho woh bina bole maid kehlati hai.

My mother is housewife and everyone in our house respect her and in her absence nobody can imagine to do my brother's ring ceremony. My mother does all the household work but my entire family is there to help my mother in every possible way unlike anupama jo pehle naam ki housewife thi but halat maid jaisi thi.

Anupama ki house mai situation hamesha se maid/servant jaisi he rahi and wohi anupama ka impression her regarding her house status.

After betrayal anupama ka house status change hua hai.

After divorce and betrayal i am seeing anupama has started taking stands and people also started to treat her in better way due to whatever reasons.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

It is note hate on anupama character

It is concern for anupama character

Anupama ki surgery hui hai woh abhi teaching job bhi kar rahi hai, online class bhi chala rahi baad mein dance academy ki CEO bhi banegi aur 7 family ka kaam karegi toh kya anupama itna sub khuch kar paayegi aage jaakur kya anupama ko health compicatiion nahin honge agar jyaada kaam karenge anupama?

Anupama work nahin kar rahi hai. Anupama over work kar rahe hai ghar ka kaam bura nahin hai but over work bhi harmful hota hai

Agar anupama ki health dekhte hue anupama ko over work na karna pade uske liye maid rakhne ki baat ho rahi hai to isme galat kya hai isme hate jaisa kya hua

Theoritical chahe koi kitna bhi kahe ki ek single ya do woman roj 7 member kar lengi that to with hand but i can say practically it is not possible at all

Exactly…. Aptly said….Logo ko Anupama ka dard ya internal feeling nahi samjh aa rahe sabko iss mamale main Kavya ya Rakhi galat lagte hai jabki kai baar voh sahi bhi ho sakte hai…. And logo ko Anupama bhi zyada hi har waqt sahi lagti hai….jabki voh galat bhi ho sakte hai….

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Rakhi always believed jo women single handedly ghar ka kam kare woh maid bann jati hai and its rakhi's strong belief. Her this belief has nothing related to housewife community. Reality is not just for rakhi even watchers also felt that anupama looks more like maid than daughter in law of the house because of anupama's old submissive nature during first 40-50 episodes.

Housewives are maid is not rakhi's thought process. Her thought process is shah's are capable to exploit effectively.

Sometimes i feel her main problem is not only domestic work but the reality of shah family where people can expect from daughter in law to manage SINGLE HANDEDLY house.

Even if rakhi feels anupama's place as maid in the house, she should not pointed it out in her daughter's house and should not taunt anupama.

If i remember old episodes of this show, i myself had always felt anupama as a maid of the house, the way people used to ignore her or never waited for her during toshu's ring ceremony or any other events of first 50 episodes, anupama always looked like servant of the house who had no respect no value and was only running behind family members.

During toshu's enagament episode my mummy had told me ,anupama looks more like maid than daughter in law which i had always felt. Agar ap bahu ko laxmi jaise treat nahi karoge toh woh puri dunia ko maid lagegi.

Housewives maid nahi hoti hai but jiska ghar mai koi izzat na ho woh bina bole maid kehlati hai.

My mother is housewife and everyone in our house respect her and in her absence nobody can imagine to do my brother's ring ceremony. My mother does all the household work but my entire family is there to help my mother in every possible way unlike anupama jo pehle naam ki housewife thi but halat maid jaisi thi.

Anupama ki house mai situation hamesha se maid/servant jaisi he rahi and wohi anupama ka impression her regarding her house status.

After betrayal anupama ka house status change hua hai.

After divorce and betrayal i am seeing anupama has started taking stands and people also started to treat her in better way due to whatever reasons.

Perfectly said….. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Rakhi always believed jo women single handedly ghar ka kam kare woh maid bann jati hai and its rakhi's strong belief. Her this belief has nothing related to housewife community. Reality is not just for rakhi even watchers also felt that anupama looks more like maid than daughter in law of the house because of anupama's old submissive nature during first 40-50 episodes.

Housewives are maid is not rakhi's thought process. Her thought process is shah's are capable to exploit effectively.

Sometimes i feel her main problem is not only domestic work but the reality of shah family where people can expect from daughter in law to manage SINGLE HANDEDLY house.

Even if rakhi feels anupama's place as maid in the house, she should not pointed it out in her daughter's house and should not taunt anupama.

If i remember old episodes of this show, i myself had always felt anupama as a maid of the house, the way people used to ignore her or never waited for her during toshu's ring ceremony or any other events of first 50 episodes, anupama always looked like servant of the house who had no respect no value and was only running behind family members.

During toshu's enagament episode my mummy had told me ,anupama looks more like maid than daughter in law which i had always felt. Agar ap bahu ko laxmi jaise treat nahi karoge toh woh puri dunia ko maid lagegi.

Housewives maid nahi hoti hai but jiska ghar mai koi izzat na ho woh bina bole maid kehlati hai.

My mother is housewife and everyone in our house respect her and in her absence nobody can imagine to do my brother's ring ceremony. My mother does all the household work but my entire family is there to help my mother in every possible way unlike anupama jo pehle naam ki housewife thi but halat maid jaisi thi.

Anupama ki house mai situation hamesha se maid/servant jaisi he rahi and wohi anupama ka impression her regarding her house status.

After betrayal anupama ka house status change hua hai.

After divorce and betrayal i am seeing anupama has started taking stands and people also started to treat her in better way due to whatever reasons.

But still people are calling her maid and it is wrong to call.

Right now also she clearly said she is fine doing the work, why is she being compared to being the maid of Shah's? Its like she is doing work for her family then she is maid, if she is refusing to work for Kavya and Vanraj then also she is being called wrong.

And the truth is we also many times do take mothers for granted.

I agree engagement thing was wrong and yes she was not respected and appreciated. But what makes them still call her maid?

If an educated / sophisticated women like Rakhi cannot see that change and continue taunting like this, then she is no different from mohalle wali aunties.