Ghar Ke Bantwaare par - Page 3

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

A true post....

That song "Dharti Jitna Dukh Sahe Maa" will play in the background 😆

Tania I have tagged you and you know why....

Means sometime they play that song even when it’s not logical….And yahi hoga… Koi kaam karega nahi… Anupama karege aur sab karvayenge and jab kone main jakar royenge yeh sab soch ke and vanya ka romance dekh ke and apna purana time yaad karke then that song will play “itna dukh sahe Anupamaaaaa”… Jabki yeh dukh iss baar Bapuji aur Anupama khud apne aap layenge itna complex situation create karke….

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

No one thought of her and that feeling to see someone you loved is sharing the room with someone else is so hurting

I am very agree with your line about it’s difficult to see other women takes your place in your bedroom and in husband’s life.

My question is,

Why anupama paid heed to bapuji’s emotional request???

It is anupama’s core nature to give preference to her children and baa-bapuji.

When someone is having such core nature, it will automatically put other people in bad light.

Kavya stopped vanraj from leaving the house that means Kavya made her mind to force herself on every one. kavya’s agenda is clear to force herself on everyone. Since property is divided, there is no more scope to throw others out of the house as per her previous plan.

On which grounds anupama made her mind to approve bapuji’s request? Only because of emotions , she made her mind??? If so who is more responsible Bapuji or anupama herself??

Only on emotional grounds she accepted bapuji’s request?? Jo scenario and possibilities hum yaha soch rahe hai , likh rahe hai iss forum mai , woh real mai ho sakte hai aisa anupama ne nahi socha hoga kya??? If nahi socha and bina lamba soche consent de diya toh anupama is also equally wrong here. At that very point, she should ask Babuji that upstairs/downstairs is ok but is it possible to do future get together only at vanya’s place and not at downstairs?? Is it possible to do micro management if I accept to stay here ?????

The thing is anupama has no ability to sort matters with asking questions on correct time . At a time of execution, she only thinks emotionally and then she become mahan for her sacrifice and others become villain like here bapuji is become villain just because he emotionally requested anupama and Anupama got clean chit because of her core nature about giving preference to others🤢

In anupama’s case , I have always felt , just because of her core nature of giving preference to others, sometimes other person automatically become bad/selfish even though they are not.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kal ka dialogue suna bapuji ka ki pata nahin hum anupama ke bina kaise rehnge

To kahin na bapuji ka anupama ka ghar mein property share dena sirf anupama ko financial secure nahin tha but bapuji ne bhi isliye roka woh anupama ke bina reh sakti

Aur baa ne bola yeh kavya to hamara jeena mushkil kar degi and dolly agreen with it

To koi anupama ke bina reh nahin sakta paritosh ko coffee kaun pilayega like hey told anupama mujhe coffee kaun pilayega kisi ko kavya jeena mushkil kar degi yahi reason ka anupama ka

Agar bapuji anupama ko beti maante hain to ek na ek din father ko apni beti ko vidaa karna padta hai

Koi bhi father mother apni beti ke bina nahin reh sakta but phir bhi woh beti ko vidaa karta hai

Anupama apne mayke chali jaati aur baa bapuji ka milne ke man hota to anupama se mayke mein milne aa sakte hain

Rahi baat finacial secure karne ki aur bhi tareeka hai jaise anupama ko sone ka biscuit bhi khareed sakte theyyam

Finacial secure hona jaroori hai but divorce hote hue . Roj roj ex husband ka saamana hona bilkul jaroori nahin hai

Aur inhone aise bawal macha diya Anupama ke Mayke jane ka jaise Anupama ka mayka 100-200 KM ya doosre city ya Colony main hai… 2 gali chod kar mayka hai usme bhi sabko aise bawal karna tha… kavya jab Apne V ke liye samne vale ghar main reh sakte the toh Anupama apne family and especially self respect ke liye gift accept karke samne kisi ghar main reh lete…aur Bapuji apne bete ke saath reh lete… jisko uske saath rehna hota vahan chale jata…ya milta rehta… resort main bhi toh gaye the… Ab Anupama khud hi mahanta ki moorat banke mana karege toh kaise chalega… Samar kinjal ko mana kar dete hai fir kehte hai mujhe uss ghar main nahi rehna and finally vahi rehte hai aur apna moral gyan dete rehte hai… Aise thode hota hai chit bhi mere aur par bhi mere….

Aur financial kya ab support dikha rahe hai… Anupama khud toh operation ke paise lete nahi kisi se… bete uske nithale dikhaye hai… operation karvaya hai toh zabardasti dekar aata paise toshu.. engagement ke liye toh sare jewellery bech di thi apne health ke liye kuch bhi nahi wah wah wah….

And as per writers Anupama ke pass more than 100 dance children the and per children they were taking 500 Rs and then school ki salary toh total 50,000-75000 ke beech aa raha hoga and usmain Anupama aram se samne vale ghar main reh sakte the ya mayke main kisi pe burden na hote but CVs kyu bhool jate hai yeh sab 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤣😂

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I am very agree with your line about it’s difficult to see other women takes your place in your bedroom and in husband’s life.

My question is,

Why anupama paid heed to bapuji’s emotional request???

It is anupama’s core nature to give preference to her children and baa-bapuji.

When someone is having such core nature, it will automatically put other people in bad light.

Kavya stopped vanraj from leaving the house that means Kavya made her mind to force herself on every one. kavya’s agenda is clear to force herself on everyone. Since property is divided, there is no more scope to throw others out of the house as per her previous plan.

On which grounds anupama made her mind to approve bapuji’s request? Only because of emotions , she made her mind??? If so who is more responsible Bapuji or anupama herself??

Only on emotional grounds she accepted bapuji’s request?? Jo scenario and possibilities hum yaha soch rahe hai , likh rahe hai iss forum mai , woh real mai ho sakte hai aisa anupama ne nahi socha hoga kya??? If nahi socha and bina lamba soche consent de diya toh anupama is also equally wrong here. At that very point, she should ask Babuji that upstairs/downstairs is ok but is it possible to do future get together only at vanya’s place and not at downstairs?? Is it possible to do micro management if I accept to stay here ?????

The thing is anupama has no ability to sort matters with asking questions on correct time . At a time of execution, she only thinks emotionally and then she become mahan for her sacrifice and others become villain like here bapuji is become villain just because he emotionally requested anupama and Anupama got clean chit because of her core nature about giving preference to others🤢

In anupama’s case , I have always felt , just because of her core nature of giving preference to others, sometimes other person automatically become bad/selfish even though they are not.

But yeh emotional nature Bapuji ke samne hi kyu nikalte hai… jab voh aise faltu ka drama kar dete hai… aur moral values uske Rakhi Kavya ke samne hi kyu aate hai… ya Samar kinjal ke samne hi kyu jab voh log stand lete hai… Baa ko toh 25 saal se usse jawab diya nahi jata… pakhi toshu ko gyan dete nahi na hi kasam… yeh sab specific logo ke liye kyu….

Anupama ki iss mahanta ki highlight karne ke chakkar main writers bakio ko bura bana dete hai…

Khud kinjal ki tarah thoda stand lenge toh aisa hoga hi nahi… you have to be practical not too much emotionally weak… kya fayada hua itna kuch sehne ka agar ab abhi tak learn nahi kar paye kuch….

According to me Anupama ko clean chit nahi hai iss baar… balki uske bhi galti hai… aise emotional drama main jaise usne divorce ke liye stand rakha tha( though different situations hai) yahan usko firm rehna chaiye tha… fayada kya hua itna kuch jhelne ka agar aap kuch seekhe hi nahi purane baton se….

And in most of my post I am blaming Bapuji than Anupama but she is also responsible who can’t take stand for herself in such cases…bahar valo ke samne zaroor bolte hai ya lete hai but ghar main kisi ke ageh bolte tak nahi tab rona chalu rehta hai iska….

60 percent bapuji is responsible and 40 percent Anupama I would say…

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

But yeh emotional nature Bapuji ke samne hi kyu nikalte hai… jab voh aise faltu ka drama kar dete hai… aur moral values uske Rakhi Kavya ke samne hi kyu aate hai… ya Samar kinjal ke samne hi kyu jab voh log stand lete hai… Baa ko toh 25 saal se usse jawab diya nahi jata… pakhi toshu ko gyan dete nahi na hi kasam… yeh sab specific logo ke liye kyu….

Anupama ki iss mahanta ki highlight karne ke chakkar main writers bakio ko bura bana dete hai…

Khud kinjal ki tarah thoda stand lenge toh aisa hoga hi nahi… you have to be practical not too much emotionally weak… kya fayada hua itna kuch sehne ka agar ab abhi tak learn nahi kar paye kuch….

According to me Anupama ko clean chit nahi hai iss baar… balki uske bhi galti hai… aise emotional drama main jaise usne divorce ke liye stand rakha tha( though different situations hai) yahan usko firm rehna chaiye tha… fayada kya hua itna kuch jhelne ka agar aap kuch seekhe hi nahi purane baton se….

And in most of my post I am blaming Bapuji than Anupama but she is also responsible who can’t take stand for herself in such cases…bahar valo ke samne zaroor bolte hai ya lete hai but ghar main kisi ke ageh bolte tak nahi tab rona chalu rehta hai iska….

60 percent bapuji is responsible and 40 percent Anupama I would say…

@bold : exactly my point! Bapuji made emotional request and anupama accepted it just being emotional without thinking future scenarios which we forum members thinks here and villain sirf Bapuji bane!!🤢🤢

Anupama’ s core nature is to give preference others wish without using own mind on time and then baki sab villain bann jayege with background music dharti jitna dukh sahe maaaaaaa anupamaaaaaaa 🤢

Anupama is equally responsible here. For me it’s totally 50-50 fault.

The way she was firm about divorce among all the emotional chaos, she needed to remain strong today too.

Now everyday she will receive more and more sympathy for self invited misery and everyday society will call baa bapuji selfish. Anupama ka kya hai! Usko toh har haal mai sympathy milega for her core nature of giving preference to others wishes, baa bapuji isme villain and selfish portray honge jab ki anupama herself is equally responsible for her own misery.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : exactly my point! Bapuji made emotional request and anupama accepted it just being emotional without thinking future scenarios which we forum members thinks here and villain sirf Bapuji bane!!🤢🤢

Anupama’ s core nature is to give preference others wish without using own mind on time and then baki sab villain bann jayege with background music dharti jitna dukh sahe maaaaaaa anupamaaaaaaa 🤢

Anupama is equally responsible here. For me it’s totally 50-50 fault.

The way she was firm about divorce among all the emotional chaos, she needed to remain strong today too.

Now everyday she will receive more and more sympathy for self invited misery and everyday society will call baa bapuji selfish. Anupama ka kya hai! Usko toh har haal mai sympathy milega for her core nature of giving preference to others wishes, baa bapuji isme villain and selfish portray honge jab ki anupama herself is equally responsible for her own misery.

True that… thoda practical behave karte Anupama shuru se… thoda insecure hote… thoda apne rights ke liye ladte… thoda apna dhyan rakhte… thoda jab pakhi toshu galti karte tab unhe thik karte toh aaj yeh din aata hi na… pehle dhyan dete nahi hai aur emotional ho kar decisions lete hai baad main rona hai… Aise toh audiance pasand nahi karege…. TRP tab zyada hue the jab she starting taking stand for herself in front of Vanraj Baa and others and tab voh apna bhi sochte the but firse back to the square one….. 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Matlab ab kuch hoga then toh pity vale feeling nahi aayege Anupama ke liye because now she is knowingly responsible for all this… pehle vala shayad main still kisi hadh takh samjh lu but for this she herself is responsible and even bapuji jinhonne bete bolkar apne bete ko itna dukh ke bhavandar main daal diya

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

True that… thoda practical behave karte Anupama shuru se… thoda insecure hote… thoda apne rights ke liye ladte… thoda apna dhyan rakhte… thoda jab pakhi toshu galti karte tab unhe thik karte toh aaj yeh din aata hi na… pehle dhyan dete nahi hai aur emotional ho kar decisions lete hai baad main rona hai… Aise toh audiance pasand nahi karege…. TRP tab zyada hue the jab she starting taking stand for herself in front of Vanraj Baa and others and tab voh apna bhi sochte the but firse back to the square one….. 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Matlab ab kuch hoga then toh pity vale feeling nahi aayege Anupama ke liye because now she is knowingly responsible for all this… pehle vala shayad main still kisi hadh takh samjh lu but for this she herself is responsible and even bapuji jinhonne bete bolkar apne bete ko itna dukh ke bhavandar main daal diya

@bold : She had made blunders at every step of life . Neither she corrected her children when they first time disrespected her nor she corrected that husband from whom children were learning how to disrespect mother.

Aj jaise Kavya and rakhi ko tagde jawab de rahi hai same wohi treatment barso pehle uske pati , bacche and baa bapuji ko diya hota toh Aj thodi better situation hoti.

Anupama ke tagde jawab sirf rakhi and Kavya tak limited hai 🤢

Abhi dekhna kal de humare kan paknewale hai with the background dharti jitnaaaa dukh saheeee maaaaaa😵

I disagtee on this part anupama ki mahanta ki wajahon dusron logon ko bura banaya jaa raha hai

Jub kavya ko sensible dikhaye they shuru ke teen mahine mein jaise kavya ne bola anupama ko job karni chahiye to bhi anupama ka wohi character lag bhag wohi chala aa raha hai sabki care karna

Chahe samne wala acha ho ya bura anupama ka character shuru se lag bhag wohi chalaa aa raha hai

Agar anupama ki waah se logon ko bura bana rahe hain to kinjal devika nandini kyon nahin bure bane

Yeh to story

Story mein sare ache log ya saare bure log nahin ho sakte

Anupama agar innocent ki wajah se agar use yeh lagta hai ki baa ne use saree de di festival mein to baa anupama ko bahut pyaar karti hai. Agar anupama ko yeh lagta hai ki pakhi toshu sachmuch pyaar karte hain sach much chinta karti

Agar anupama innocent ki wajah se aise sochti hai to bhi samne wale galti khatm nahi ho jaati it is true thatsamne wala like baa pakhi toshu yeh sub selfish hai

Agar koi dowry mang raha hai to jo dowry de raha woh to galat hai hi but iska matlab yeh nahin jo dowry de raha hai woh galat ho gaya aur jo dowry maanga woh sahi ho gaya

Even that person give dowry and do not oppose it but ise jo dowry maanga tha uska crime khatm nahi ho jaata just because other party did not oppose it

Waise aaj kul anupama kavya se matlab nahin rakhna chahti. Anupama apni life jeena chaahati hai but kavya ja barasti anupama ko kurefedi rehti hai

Anupama ne kavya ko acha reply de diya but pht bhi kavya anupama ko taunt karti rehti hai aise logon ka anupama ka kya kare jo itni insult hone ke baavjood bhi samne aa jaate hai aur batmmejee dete hai

Agar anupama mahan hai to saamne wala bhi selfish greedy rude hai

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : She had made blunders at every step of life . Neither she corrected her children when they first time disrespected her nor she corrected that husband from whom children were learning how to disrespect mother.

Aj jaise Kavya and rakhi ko tagde jawab de rahi hai same wohi treatment barso pehle uske pati , bacche and baa bapuji ko diya hota toh Aj thodi better situation hoti.

Anupama ke tagde jawab sirf rakhi and Kavya tak limited hai 🤢

Abhi dekhna kal de humare kan paknewale hai with the background dharti jitnaaaa dukh saheeee maaaaaa😵

@bold… So true… as a women Devika and Rakhi first meeting main hi Kavya aur vanraj ka samjh gaye the… And baa bhi doubtful the bas apne bete hone ke karan ignore karte the… bharosa rakho but thode dhyan bhi do ki kya chal raha hai aas pass… har jageh bewakoof bane ghoom rahe the… mujhe toh contrast bhi nahi samjh aaya tha jab Devika ne kaha tha ke yeh school main aise thapad marte the javab dete the and all… and yahan sasural main ek baar bhi Baa ya vanraj ko jawab nahi diya in those 25 years how is that possible…

Apne family ki galtiyon ko ignore toh Anupama aise karte hai jaise voh sab aacha kaam kar rahe hote hai… Aur Samar kinjal ke time gyaan dene lag jate hai…

Aur kavya ko jawab dena uska samjh aata hai and Rakhi ko bhi jab rakhi family ke against ya uske against bolte hai but Rakhi ko kinjal ke regarding jab jawab dete hai then I am like apne bacho ko toh sudhar nahi paye aur rakhi ko kinjal ke liye gyan dene baithe hai…. Itne hypocrisy😂🤣

And yes ab toh har baar voh background music chalega jab apna room dekhenge aur vanya ka romance and all… I hope people stop watching this crap and their TRPs fall down and they realise this…

I hope something Similar to what people did with GHKKPM happen here… their TRP fell and boycott GHKKPM trended on twitter when they starting promoting devar bhabhi affair from senior members of family(just because the actors are dating each other) and that food thing… means usko dekh ke toh vomiting bhi kam padh gaye….

Aajkal ke serials alag hi level ki duniya main reh rahe hai…. I want to meet their writers and understand their perspective of being so far away from reality….🤣😂🤦🏻‍♂️

Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12

@bold… So true… as a women Devika and Rakhi first meeting main hi Kavya aur vanraj ka samjh gaye the… And baa bhi doubtful the bas apne bete hone ke karan ignore karte the… bharosa rakho but thode dhyan bhi do ki kya chal raha hai aas pass… har jageh bewakoof bane ghoom rahe the… mujhe toh contrast bhi nahi samjh aaya tha jab Devika ne kaha tha ke yeh school main aise thapad marte the javab dete the and all… and yahan sasural main ek baar bhi Baa ya vanraj ko jawab nahi diya in those 25 years how is that possible…

Apne family ki galtiyon ko ignore toh Anupama aise karte hai jaise voh sab aacha kaam kar rahe hote hai… Aur Samar kinjal ke time gyaan dene lag jate hai…

Aur kavya ko jawab dena uska samjh aata hai and Rakhi ko bhi jab rakhi family ke against ya uske against bolte hai but Rakhi ko kinjal ke regarding jab jawab dete hai then I am like apne bacho ko toh sudhar nahi paye aur rakhi ko kinjal ke liye gyan dene baithe hai…. Itne hypocrisy😂🤣

And yes ab toh har baar voh background music chalega jab apna room dekhenge aur vanya ka romance and all… I hope people stop watching this crap and their TRPs fall down and they realise this…

I hope something Similar to what people did with GHKKPM happen here… their TRP fell and boycott GHKKPM trended on twitter when they starting promoting devar bhabhi affair from senior members of family(just because the actors are dating each other) and that food thing… means usko dekh ke toh vomiting bhi kam padh gaye….

Aajkal ke serials alag hi level ki duniya main reh rahe hai…. I want to meet their writers and understand their perspective of being so far away from reality….🤣😂🤦🏻‍♂️

Why she accepted bapuji’s emotional request at first place? Jaise divorce decision strongly liya waise he Aj at bhi firm rehna chahiye tha. Yaha forum mai sab future possible scenario likh rahe hai wohi same baate anupama ne nahi Sochi and why??? Anupama ke core nature ki wajah se ab bapuji everyday audience ki gaaliya khayege and anupama ko clean chit and sympathy milega🤢

@bold : It requires presence of mind without drowning in emotions .