Ghar Ke Bantwaare par

Anupama as usual denied the rights. Bapuji said a real thing. There are ladies who have sacrificed always. But when they need to ask for their rights they feel bad. Yesterday I wrote that Ghar pe Hissa Kyun Lena. That was in the context to snatch away the house. But if someone gives you the house for your good deeds, then you should think twice. And then decide what suits to you. Bapuji spoke the audience voice of being Mahaan.

Bapuji said excellent thing about guilt. Mein bimaar hu isiliye bahaar se khana aa raha hai. Mere bacho ki tabiyat bigad jaayegi. A woman is said to be belonging to two houses. In reality I have seen, when a daughter marries and go to other home, it's said yeh to Paraayi hai, ek din to jaana hai usko. When she is in laws house, yeh to Paraayi hai. What belongs to her? Nothing. Bapuji opened the eye. But jahan property sari cheeze involved ho wahan sab log yehi hi chahte hai isse hissa na mile.

Leela again was beautiful today. A woman belongs to two houses. Without parents, staying in our own house is a burden. Without husband, staying in Sasuraal, staying in laws house is a burden. So having a piece of a property is necessary. Bapuji again was right jo paise phenkta hai uski izzat karte hai, par jo roti banata hai uski to value hum nahi karte.

Bapuji insisted Anupama to stay at this house. It was Ajeeb. But ajeeb ajeeb to iss serial mein ho raha hai. Not with the decision but what can we do. Bapuji wanted her to stay back.The justification he gave was right but I am still not supporting Anupama staying Shah house. If Hasmukh wanted daughter to stay home then he could have asked Dolly to stay home. He emotionally bblackmailed Anupama to stay in the home.

Anupama decides to stay back home. Everyone got happy, but no one thought about Anupama. How much pain will she feel everyday. And that Kavya's interruption was getting on my nerves. I loved how Anupama showed her right to Kavya for this house.

Vanraj again changed his colours. He wanted Anupama to leave. Kal woh usko ghar mein pariwaar ke liye rakhna chahta aur ab dekho. Can't understand this man at all. She has a part in this house and the Maharaj is getting jealous. Bapuji again gave a befitting reply that Vanya doesn't deserve anything. Now the home is divided... Where the families will stay differently.

Vanraj wanna leave but this poison of Kavya will again burn his mind. And he will say iss ghar ki teesri storey hai Vanraj Shah. Everyone enters the house, Anupama thought a new beginning it's now all over.

Anupama is welcomed first in the house and that's a matter of 25 years of service. It's an earned respect. Not a respect which is snatched. Anupama was told to be a Laxmi, Saraswati and Annapurna. Laxmi for bringing prosperity in Vanraj's life, and then saving for the family. Saraswati for making the kids study. Annapurna for feeding the whole home

Bapuji ko lag raha hai problem solve ho gayi but problem aur bhad gayi

Property to divide ho gayi but aisa to nahin hoga ki vanraj apne parents bechon se milne nahi aa sakta

Agar vanraj neeche wale portion mein aa gaya aur kahe main to yahi parivaar ke sang apne bacchon ke sang khana khaaunga to anupama kya karegi

Anupama kahan jaayegi. Suppose vanraj apne bacchon parents ke saath game khel raha hai khana kha raha hai aur is me 4,5 ghante nikal gaye tub tuk anupama kahan rahegi . Anupama to akele apne kamre mein baithi rahegi . Anupama to parents ke sang khaana bhi nahin kha paayegi agar wahaan vanraj saath mein khane aayega. Yeh to nahin hoga ki har time woh kavya ke saath hi rahega aur bedroom mein hi kavya ke saath hi khana khayega

Anupama yeh to nahin keh paayegi ab yeh portion baa bapuji aur mera hai to aap yahan apne bacchon parents se milne nahi aa sakte

To sirf finacial secure hone se khuch nahin hota aur bhi factors dekhne padte hain

Situation bahut complucated ho gayi hai anupama ke liye

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Anupama as usual denied the rights. Bapuji said a real thing. There are ladies who have sacrificed always. But when they need to ask for their rights they feel bad. Yesterday I wrote that Ghar pe Hissa Kyun Lena. That was in the context to snatch away the house. But if someone gives you the house for your good deeds, then you should think twice. And then decide what suits to you. Bapuji spoke the audience voice of being Mahaan.

Bapuji said excellent thing about guilt. Mein bimaar hu isiliye bahaar se khana aa raha hai. Mere bacho ki tabiyat bigad jaayegi. A woman is said to be belonging to two houses. In reality I have seen, when a daughter marries and go to other home, it's said yeh to Paraayi hai, ek din to jaana hai usko. When she is in laws house, yeh to Paraayi hai. What belongs to her? Nothing. Bapuji opened the eye. But jahan property sari cheeze involved ho wahan sab log yehi hi chahte hai isse hissa na mile.

Leela again was beautiful today. A woman belongs to two houses. Without parents, staying in our own house is a burden. Without husband, staying in Sasuraal, staying in laws house is a burden. So having a piece of a property is necessary. Bapuji again was right jo paise phenkta hai uski izzat karte hai, par jo roti banata hai uski to value hum nahi karte.

Bapuji insisted Anupama to stay at this house. It was Ajeeb. But ajeeb ajeeb to iss serial mein ho raha hai. Not with the decision but what can we do. Bapuji wanted her to stay back.The justification he gave was right but I am still not supporting Anupama staying Shah house. If Hasmukh wanted daughter to stay home then he could have asked Dolly to stay home. He emotionally bblackmailed Anupama to stay in the home.

Anupama decides to stay back home. Everyone got happy, but no one thought about Anupama. How much pain will she feel everyday. And that Kavya's interruption was getting on my nerves. I loved how Anupama showed her right to Kavya for this house.

Vanraj again changed his colours. He wanted Anupama to leave. Kal woh usko ghar mein pariwaar ke liye rakhna chahta aur ab dekho. Can't understand this man at all. She has a part in this house and the Maharaj is getting jealous. Bapuji again gave a befitting reply that Vanya doesn't deserve anything. Now the home is divided... Where the families will stay differently.

Vanraj wanna leave but this poison of Kavya will again burn his mind. And he will say iss ghar ki teesri storey hai Vanraj Shah. Everyone enters the house, Anupama thought a new beginning it's now all over.

Anupama is welcomed first in the house and that's a matter of 25 years of service. It's an earned respect. Not a respect which is snatched. Anupama was told to be a Laxmi, Saraswati and Annapurna. Laxmi for bringing prosperity in Vanraj's life, and then saving for the family. Saraswati for making the kids study. Annapurna for feeding the whole home

Sab apne liye selfish hokar hi khush hue the… kisi ne Anupama ka nahi socha… sabse ghatiya kaam kiya bapuji ne emotionally blackmail karke Anupama ko rok ke… uska khud ka decision hona chaiye tha… Means itna kuch hone ke baad bhi Anupama apne liye kuch decision nahi le sakte:… worst thing bapuji did and even gave kasam and all… property divide karke gift karna was nice but Anupama ko aise rokna was no where justified… voh Anupama ko keh sakte the ki samne Nandani ke saath ya kahi aur reh le but same ghar ke liye emotional blackmail karna was puking..Ab Anupama ke saath kuch bhi galat hoga ya jo bhi pain feel karege voh uske liye Bapuji and Anupama dono khud responsible honge… not Kavya aur anyone else…

Koi bhi wife apne sautan ke saath nahi rehna chahte… chahe kavya ho chahe Anupama… agar bapuji real khushi dekhte Anupama ki toh usse influence na karte aur apna decision khud lene dete… force aur manipulate nahi karte…

And Anupama toh fir sabka kaam karege khana banayenge chahe inn sabne jitna bhi uske saath ganda treat kiya ho… they all deserved Kavya but this bapuji I tell you is making me hate him now…

Itna selfish move…

Leela abhi aache ban rahe hai usse par hai Anupama seva karege Kavya nahi…

And yahi vanraj chahta tha Anupama ghar ka dhyan rakhe aur voh kavya ke saath officially rahe voh ho gaya… 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Bapuji is property dena is good but rokna Anupama ko emotional blackmail karke is so puking 🤮

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Bapuji ko lag raha hai problem solve ho gayi but problem aur bhad gayi

Property to divide ho gayi but aisa to nahin hoga ki vanraj apne parents bechon se milne nahi aa sakta

Agar vanraj neeche wale portion mein aa gaya aur kahe main to yahi parivaar ke sang apne bacchon ke sang khana khaaunga to anupama kya karegi

Anupama kahan jaayegi. Suppose vanraj apne bacchon parents ke saath game khel raha hai khana kha raha hai aur is me 4,5 ghante nikal gaye tub tuk anupama kahan rahegi . Anupama to akele apne kamre mein baithi rahegi . Anupama to parents ke sang khaana bhi nahin kha paayegi agar wahaan vanraj saath mein khane aayega. Yeh to nahin hoga ki har time woh kavya ke saath hi rahega aur bedroom mein hi kavya ke saath hi khana khayega

Anupama yeh to nahin keh paayegi ab yeh portion baa bapuji aur mera hai to aap yahan apne bacchon parents se milne nahi aa sakte

To sirf finacial secure hone se khuch nahin hota aur bhi factors dekhne padte hain

Situation bahut complucated ho gayi hai anupama ke liye

Agree totally… Makers have gone bonkers… who does that… Ab sreemoye version jaise dikhayenge ki kavya Anupama ko maid banakar treat karege and fir pregnant hone ka natak karke seva karvayenge all crap…..

kitna illogical track bana diya hai

Ise bhadiya bapuji anupama ke naam alag chota plot le lete to acha tha koi na koi paisa to bank mein deposit hoga baapuji ke naam se

To bapuji anupama ko apne saving se anupama ke naam chota plot le lete

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ise bhadiya bapuji anupama ke naam alag chota plot le lete to acha tha koi na koi paisa to bank mein deposit hoga baapuji ke naam se

To bapuji anupama ko apne saving se anupama ke naam chota plot le lete

True that… aaj jaise bapuji ne emotionally blackmail kiya ki main khana nahi khaoonga and all… is making me hate him more that I hate Leela because aisa move koi coward hi karta hai… and bapuji seemed like one ki kuch sambhal nahi sakte and sara pain Anupama ko de diya ab sambhalo

Uska opinion na toh poocha kisi ne na hi samjha sab apne chalate gaye and all… And Anupama toh obviously rote rahe voice toh hai nahi ab uske aise situation main… she can’t stay firm… vaise kinjal samar ko kasam dete rehte hai yahan bhi bapuji ko kasam de dete ki nahi aisa nahi hoga but rona hi dikhana hai uska makers ko toh

Some how mai bapuji se agree karti hu Blackmail nahi karna chahiye tha par practical jarur hai👍🏼 Maine yaha Canada mai aur India mai bhi divorce ke baad ek ghar mai with partition rehte dekha hai logo ko aur meri apni chacha ki beti iss vakt bhi NZ mai ek hi ghar ke do part karke apni beti ke sath rehti hai aur husband apni 2nd wife ke sath rehta hai aur unke beech koe problem nahi hai..one of my coworker bhi same house mai partition ke sath rehti hai aur husband bilkul Vee jaisa hai but they live together with partition..and Anu ko ghar ki jimmedari nahi di hai par usko financial independent hone ki bhi advice di hai 👏

Rahi baat Kavya ki to wo to waise bhi Anupama ko taunt Marti hi rehne wali hai Anupama chahe kahi par bhi rahe 🤢

Originally posted by: dipali13

Some how mai bapuji se agree karti hu Blackmail nahi karna chahiye tha par practical jarur hai👍🏼 Maine yaha Canada mai aur India mai bhi divorce ke baad ek ghar mai with partition rehte dekha hai logo ko aur meri apni chacha ki beti iss vakt bhi NZ mai ek hi ghar ke do part karke apni beti ke sath rehti hai aur husband apni 2nd wife ke sath rehta hai aur unke beech koe problem nahi hai..one of my coworker bhi same house mai partition ke sath rehti hai aur husband bilkul Vee jaisa hai but they live together with partition..and Anu ko ghar ki jimmedari nahi di hai par usko financial independent hone ki bhi advice di hai 👏

Rahi baat Kavya ki to wo to waise bhi Anupama ko taunt Marti hi rehne wali hai Anupama chahe kahi par bhi rahe 🤢

Personally I have not seen such situation and I think it will be totally weird…(though it might not be)

And talking about responsibilities we all know Baa kaam karege nahi pakhi karte nahi Samar toshu are boys so voh bhi nahi bapuji bhi nahi kinjal office jayege so Anupama usse karne nahi denge toh finally Anupama hi karne vale hai aur Baa Pakhi toshu Samar dolly and even bapuji bhi usse hi bolenge yeh khana hai and all khana hai

And thode der baad Baa bolenge areh dekho kavya ne mere bete ko kuch nahi diya Vanraj ne khanna nahi khaya man pasand vala Anupama bana de

Aur jaise Anupama ne Vanraj ke chot lagne pe Baa ka kehna mana tha though she sometimes said no but baad main regular banane lag gaye the vahi hoga voh fir unke liye bhi khana banana and all karne lag jayege

Bapuji keh dete hai but reality kuch aur hi hote hai har baar

Fir background music ayega “itna dukh dard sahe Anupama ho ho ho ho Anupama”

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Bapuji ko lag raha hai problem solve ho gayi but problem aur bhad gayi

Property to divide ho gayi but aisa to nahin hoga ki vanraj apne parents bechon se milne nahi aa sakta

Agar vanraj neeche wale portion mein aa gaya aur kahe main to yahi parivaar ke sang apne bacchon ke sang khana khaaunga to anupama kya karegi

Anupama kahan jaayegi. Suppose vanraj apne bacchon parents ke saath game khel raha hai khana kha raha hai aur is me 4,5 ghante nikal gaye tub tuk anupama kahan rahegi . Anupama to akele apne kamre mein baithi rahegi . Anupama to parents ke sang khaana bhi nahin kha paayegi agar wahaan vanraj saath mein khane aayega. Yeh to nahin hoga ki har time woh kavya ke saath hi rahega aur bedroom mein hi kavya ke saath hi khana khayega

Anupama yeh to nahin keh paayegi ab yeh portion baa bapuji aur mera hai to aap yahan apne bacchon parents se milne nahi aa sakte

To sirf finacial secure hone se khuch nahin hota aur bhi factors dekhne padte hain

Situation bahut complucated ho gayi hai anupama ke liye

Exactly Surabhi...

I have written no one thought about Anupama...

There are many small big problems attached to it. Anupama might have a share in the house. But ghar me rehna...

Kavya didn't want a child but what if uska man ho gaya bachhe ka, to aur bhi problem badh jaayegi.

I agree with most what bapuji said ..but staying in that house will be emo and physically taxing ..

Every one just wants their life and routine to remain same since Anupama is the main caregiver emo and otherwise. They are aware kav will never take responsibility so in a way they are selfish . I am not saying they don't love or care for her they do. But what will she feel when she sees them in the room she has built all her dreams in