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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: sweet_tania


Agree when you have no plan B , you should take practical decision.

But story is revolving around divorce point only so good to see finally it will happen.


Vanraj gave his 2 cents as per her current health situation and it was practical thought. I like the part when he put his ego aside for the first time and put straight forward realistic points in front of anupama .

His points were extremely realistic, muje aisi vastavik baate pasand aati hai but anupama has made her mind so no point of divorce delay. Better ki woh anupama ko uske haal par chod kar divorce de de.

I will disagree, if he really wants to help Anu and support her, he could have told her that I will give divorce but allow me to take care of you till your treatment is done. He can bear the expenses of her treatment even after divorce, even Toshu and Kinjal are earning very well, I am sure Anu would have not minded them bearing the expenses of her treatment. Then I would have really felt he cared for her now. He might have put his ego aside, but still his action was to get time because of his indecisiveness about what he wants.

Usse bacho ka khayal tab nahi aaya jab affair kar raha tha, ab Anu ko bacho ki duhai de raha hai. Usko Anu ki family ka khayal tab nahi aaya jab Baa unke financial condition pe taane marti thi and jab woh Anu ko itna humiliate karta tha and Baa ne itne rok lagake rakhi thi ki Anu ko agar unse milne jaana ho toh bhi 10 baar sochna padta tha and use bhi Baa taunt maarti thi. I could not digest his arguments, none were valid reasons for not taking divorce according to me.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Dont know what vanraj will care for anupama . Maine aaj tuk vanraj ko dekha to hai nahin jub se anupama ki bimari ke baare mein pata chala hai

Ki vanraj ne anupama ke liye fruit le kar aaya hai ho ya phir anupama ko medicine diya ho yeh to maine vanraj ko karte hue dekha to hai nahi

Anupama ya to khud dawai leta hai ya phir samar hi anupama ko medicine de raha tha when anupama refuse to take medicine

In true sense anupama ka care ya to anupama ko khud hi rakh rakh rahi hai ya phir samar anupama ka khayaal rakh raha hai

Yeh baa pakhi vanraj to bus naam ke kehte hain ki woh anupama ka khayaal rakhenge

In baa pakhi ne kya kiya bus anupama ke haath ke bane mango shake enjoy ki but khud kabhi anupama ko medicine fruit nahin diya

Aur us upar anupama pe pressure aur dal rahe hain ki anupama decision change kar do

These vanraj baa pakhi really Dont know ki anupama pur aise pressure daalane se anupama ki takleef aur bharegi anupama ka mental torture or physical illness aur increase ho ga. Why Dont these baa pakhi And vanraj under stand ki anupama divorce nahin degi to anupama ki takleef aur bhadegi

Jub vanraj baa pakhi itna pressure daal rahe to yeh kis hissab se keh rahe hain ki anupama ka khayal rakhenge

Why Dont vanraj give money to samar and samar se kahe ki yeh paise main anupama ke treatment ke liye de raha hoon tum anupama ke saath raho aur anupama ka khayal rakho. Yeh sub to anupama ka divorce ho bhi jaaye to bhi ho sakta hai

But no vanraj ko anupama ko ya to pyaar se ya phir daant ke kisi tarah se apni naukarani bana ke rakhna hai aur iski liye divorce nahin hona chahiye just to make anupama naukrani for whole life


Kis haqq se or Kis rishte se anupama vanraj ka paisa legi for medical treatment??


Samar vanraj se paise la kar anupama ko dega to bhi anupama ex-husband ka paisa apni treatment ke liye nahi legi so it’s huge disrespect of anupama with the your words that vanraj give money to Samar for anupama’s treatment after divorce.


Sab ko anupama ko uske haal par akele chod dena chahiye after divorce.Anupama apna khud he manage kar sakti hai.


Agar kinjal toshu Samar ke paas paisa ho to they can offer anupama some money if anupama wishes to take the monney from them but I doubt anupama kisi ka paisa legi so sab ko anupama ko uske haal par akele chod dena chahiye.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#13

Kyon kya wife divorce ke baad wife kya maintaincce nahin leti hai.kya? To kyon nahin le sakti anupama vanraj ka paisa for treatment after divorce ?

Ofcource wife can take money Even after divorce from husband for her own livelood and for Even for her own treatment if wife is not earning enoigh and if wife is not professional qualifieed

So kanooni haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa le sakti hai. Kanoon yeh haq diya hai wife ko after divorce

Edited by surabhi01 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: neo7

I will disagree, if he really wants to help Anu and support her, he could have told her that I will give divorce but allow me to take care of you till your treatment is done. He can bear the expenses of her treatment even after divorce, even Toshu and Kinjal are earning very well, I am sure Anu would have not minded them bearing the expenses of her treatment. Then I would have really felt he cared for her now. He might have put his ego aside, but still his action was to get time because of his indecisiveness about what he wants.

Usse bacho ka khayal tab nahi aaya jab affair kar raha tha, ab Anu ko bacho ki duhai de raha hai. Usko Anu ki family ka khayal tab nahi aaya jab Baa unke financial condition pe taane marti thi and jab woh Anu ko itna humiliate karta tha and Baa ne itne rok lagake rakhi thi ki Anu ko agar unse milne jaana ho toh bhi 10 baar sochna padta tha and use bhi Baa taunt maarti thi. I could not digest his arguments, none were valid reasons for not taking divorce according to me.


Which kind of woman like to take ex-husband’s financial help after divorce specially when on legal papers she herself has already chosen to mention that she doesn’t want any financial help for herself from ex husband??!


Alimony is complete different thing when it comes to divorce because on legal terms it is every women’s right but alimony is not part of anupama’s divorce protocol and after divorce getting money from ex-husband because of medical treatment can be called as ex-husband’s MERCY.

Who would like to take MERCY of that ex-husband who betrayed you for years?!!! I can die but after divorce I would chose to not accept that man’s single penny.


Technically their divorce day is as same as Samar Nandini’s engagement day. Which child like to get engaged on parent’s divorce day?? Either parents should delay divorce or child should delay engagement day. Here Samar is getting engaged on their divorce day just because of anupama’s wish, why to put Samar in such a tight spot?! What is his fault! It’s his father who did affair.


And today vanraj has not said divorce nahi lete hai , all he said about DELAYING DIVORCE since there are so many other very crucial things are going in their life which deserves much attention but anupama has make her mind and she has all right to not DELAY it any more.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Which kind of woman like to take ex-husband’s financial help after divorce specially when on legal papers she herself has already chosen to mention that she doesn’t want any financial help for herself from ex husband??!


Alimony is complete different thing when it comes to divorce because on legal terms it is every women’s right but alimony is not part of anupama’s divorce protocol as she had asked lawyer to add it specifically and after divorce getting money from ex-husband because of medical treatment can be called as ex-husband’s MERCY.

Who would like to take MERCY of that ex-husband who betrayed you for years?!!! I can die but after divorce I would chose to not accept that man’s single penny.


@surabhi01

Edited by sweet_tania - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kyon kya wife divorce ke baad wife kya maintaincce nahin leti hai.kya? To kyon nahin le sakti anupama vanraj ka paisa for treatment after divorce ?

Ofcource wife can take money Even after divorce from husband for her own livelood and for Even for her own treatment if wife is not earning enoigh and if wife is not professional qualifieed

So kanooni haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa le sakti hai. Kanoon yeh haq diya hai wife ko after divorce

What you are saying is called alimony in legal language and anupama herself has asked lawyer that she doesn’t want any financial alimony for herself after divorce so lawyer made papers in that way.

Financial help/alimony is not part of anupama’s divorce protocol as per anupama’s request to her lawyer so now taking vanraj’s financial help after divorce is equal to taking vanraj’s mercy for her treatment.

Edited by sweet_tania - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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But you ask me ki kis haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa, legi so i reply ki kanooni haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa for maintain le sakti hai

And i know ki anupama maintain nahin chahti magar anupama agar chahe to apni critical conditioj dekhte hue aur bhi bhi maintain ki demand kar sakti hai


But phir bhi agar anupama maintaince nahin leti hai to yeh anupama ki marzi

Anupama chahe to maintaince le sakti hai ya phir nahin law has give fully right to any wife who are divorcee

Edited by surabhi01 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#18

Vanraj clearly say to anupama change the decision

He did not say baad mein decision le lena

He was forcing anupama to change decision of divorce

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

But you ask me ki kis haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa, legi so i reply ki kanooni haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa for maintain le sakti hai

And i know ki anupama maintain nahin chahti magar anupama agar chahe to apni critical conditioj dekhte hue aur bhi bhi maintain ki demand kar sakti hai


But phir bhi agar anupama maintaince nahin leti hai to yeh anupama ki marzi

Anupama chahe to maintaince le sakti hai ya phir nahin law has give fully right to any wife who are divorcee

Abhi bhi my question is same kis haqq se anupama ex-husband se treatment ka paisa legi???


Anupama has not changed her divorce protocol after her illness either. Am I missing any episode?? Did she change her divorce protocol meeting lawyer????


Law has given fully right but law can apply on ex husband when it is part of divorce paper settlement protocol. If anupama has not added this protocol in legal papers, how can court enforce it without petition from anupama????


Since anupama doesn’t want alimony protocol neither she has filed petition after her illness nor she applying for alimony, in all scenarios taking money from vanraj is like taking mercy of ex-husband.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Vanraj clearly say to anupama change the decision

He did not say baad mein decision le lena

He was forcing anupama to change decision of divorce

“Tumhe talaq chahiye na main tumhe zarur dunga talak lekin please abhi nahi ,tum pehle puri tarah se thik ho jao “

Vanraj clearly said this line ad I am still seeing it . I don’t know what is airs on tv , I am watching on hotstar app.

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